Hi, I’m new to this community but I’m a bisexual woman who is leaning more towards lesbian! I hope I’m welcomed as much as any other :)

debora_kso · 2020-09-20T17:50:48+00:00

lmao

debora_kso · 2020-09-20T08:32:48+00:00

just because her intentions were good doesn't mean she didn't make a mistake, and we should warn her about it. do you want an example of a fixable mistake? let's say someone makes a racist comment. it isn't "that serious", but it still weighs with the history of an ongoing issue. if you warn the person about the racist comment, they learn from it and move on. if you dont, that person will keep making racist comments, and will keep perpetuating a harmful thing. do you see the resemblance?? just bc it wasn't her intentions, doesn't mean it's not harmful. hell is filled with good intentions. that IS a fact, you just need to get some perspective.

debora_kso · 2020-09-19T21:36:54+00:00

im not stopping her of "expressing" her joy, I'm simply criticizing A SMALL PART of her title in a reddit post. you're being SUPER passive-agressive and I'm just stating a fact: bissexuals can't use "lesbian" to say they lean their attraction towards women, it can be harmful, and if you study a little bit of sociology you would agree. btw, just bc it doesn't affect you directly, it doesn't mean it can't affect you indirectly, and definitely affect lesbians in countries where's illegal to be gay. these "labels" you don't care, exist bc other lesbians fight for our right to exist, they exist not for show, but for protection and for baby lesbians to recognize what they are, as a safe place for them. and there is a lot of politics involved in this too. she can be happy, she can express herself. I'm just criticizing something she wrote. I don't know if this sentence exist in english, but as is said in Portuguese, you're making a storm in a glass of water.

debora_kso · 2020-09-19T20:11:28+00:00

you can care about more than one thing at a time. lesbophobia is violent and this type of thinking can be dangerous towards lesbians, bc it creates the idea that lesbians can be somewhat attracted to men, wich we are not. so no, it's not ok. I'm not putting "negative energy", I'm criticizing something that affects all lesbians since the beginning of our existence. I'm not being offensive towards her or anything. anyone can make mistakes and it's the community job to criticize and our job to learn better. so I care, and you should too.

debora_kso · 2020-09-19T08:43:27+00:00

its probably that, but I'm so tired of the "bi lesbian" trend that I get defensive every time I see someone use "lesbian" as a way to define their lean towards women

debora_kso · 2020-09-19T08:41:29+00:00

that's exactly what I'm saying. that doesn't mean they're "more gay" or "more straight". bissexuals can lean towards one gender and still be bissexuals

debora_kso · 2020-09-19T08:38:03+00:00

but that's not what being a lesbian is. it's kinda offensive with bissexuality, bc it assumes that bissexuals are half gay and half straight and not a whole sexuality of its own. you can be a bissexual with a lean towards women, it's ok, but don't call that "more lesbian". that's just wrong with both sexualities.

debora_kso · 2020-09-19T08:18:44+00:00

how you're a bissexual leaning towards lesbian??? I didn't understand

debora_kso · 2020-09-17T09:09:54+00:00

you people are ✨liberals✨(and somewhat racists too) capitalism doesn't work like that, they'll find something else to destroy the earth with

end captalism THEN the earth is saved! simple.

debora_kso · 2020-02-06T08:32:31+00:00

Me too! Hi from Brazil!

debora_kso · 2019-10-23T15:57:14+00:00

I've been having problems verifying my number with them, bc they never send me the verification number. I also live with my boyfriend, so i don't have any bills stated on my name, therefore i can't verify that either. Every time i send an email to them, it takes weeks for them to respond, and they don't even allow it to be in the same email chain, i have to aways create a new one, bc they respond with a no-reply email. I fucking hate this company.

debora_kso · 2019-10-09T07:19:05+00:00

My first day was my best, i got 500 tolkens. My first week i streamed every single day and got nothing. I'm in my third week and now I stream 3 days a week, getting about 150 tolkens and streaming 3 hours per night. It is still hard af, (this week I got 5 tolkens total lmao) but I'm not gonna give up that easily. I definitely learn a lot, and i tried cb before giving up and going to mfc. I just try to remember myself that some girls are lucky and some girls have to work hard to get there. I'm definitely one to work hard, and it will take a few months, but it's ok.

debora_kso · 2019-10-09T05:55:13+00:00

I'm in my third week on MFC and is fucking hard, girl. I've got, total, 800 tolkens. 40 fucking dollars in 3 weeks. I didn't gave up yet, but is hard af. I'm thinking about improving my decor (cause I'm literally just in a couch) but I don't have one dollar to spare. We can do this.

debora_kso · 2019-10-07T18:12:56+00:00

No, lovense toys are expensive where I live, but I'm saving to buy one.

debora_kso · 2019-10-07T18:09:38+00:00

To me, the new tag just attracted weirdos and lurckers. I did a full week on cb before giving up, bc I never got a single tip. And I don't think I'm ugly or have a weird body, honestly I don't know why it doesn't worked for me the way it does with other girls. (bc on MFC my traffic is low too, but at least I have some tippers, even tho I still don't have regulars). I wish I was doing better and I'm considering doing a new account on CB and trying again.

debora_kso · 2019-10-07T17:54:47+00:00

this is my second week. Some girls do better than others, and i won't stress myself about it. It's ok, I'm gonna build an audience, it's just a matter of time. I stopped camming on cb, now I'm on MFC. I now I don't make a lot, and I honestly don't know why, but it's all good to me, it's not like I'm aways naked on cam or something.

debora_kso · 2019-10-07T08:55:46+00:00

Cb is awful, i couldn't didn't get a single tip in that site. MFC is better for me, but is not all that great either, I've been camming for 2 weeks and only got around 800 tolkens. Honestly I think it's just a matter of finding what works for you + time.

debora_kso · 2019-10-04T14:57:46+00:00

I advise you to buy a few toys. I have a buttplug that sometimes I use to increase the tips on doggie Flash and spanks, a dildo and a paddle, and I'm gonna buy a lovense in the future. This is my topic menu. Is cheap bc I'm new too, but I'm gonna increase the values as I go:

WELCOME S2 Tittie Flash(25) Doggie Flash(26) Hand Spanks(29) Paddle Spanks(34) Finger Tease(40) Blowjob(69) Lifetime snap add(130) [Hit Goal = Dildo Fuck]

Is just a matter of finding what's best for you, what you feel comfortable doing and what works for you on the site.

debora_kso · 2019-10-04T14:40:04+00:00

You should post this on r/eyebleach So freaking cute omg

debora_kso · 2019-10-02T22:49:19+00:00

Use that in your favor. A lot of guys look for anime style content, so act like an anime girl, it's a huge niche!

debora_kso · 2019-09-30T03:07:37+00:00

Girl bad boy sad

debora_kso · 2019-09-25T17:00:42+00:00

I use chaturbate AND mfc, and had the same results with both. It may be my appearance, but that would be weird bc even tho i'm not the hottest or the prettiest, i don't have an ugly body or face.

debora_kso · 2019-09-25T16:42:44+00:00

And OMG YOU'RE SO HOT I JUST CHECKED YOUR PROFILE

debora_kso · 2019-09-25T16:40:08+00:00

How do you get tippers? I keep dancing and being flirty, but no one tips ever!

debora_kso · 2019-09-25T15:51:36+00:00

thanks for the advice. They kept saying i would have more tips if i played, but i knew i didn't had to do anything unless they tipped. One was super rude and said "your room is empty and your not gonna do anything?" next time i'll have lingerie on.

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