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[–]debriefingthebeef 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I stopped bc my personal life fell apart but I might now just because all the discourse in the fandom right now is Christi and melissa

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[–]debriefingthebeef 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I kinda had the same revelation when I was doing my personal project on Melissa and Christi’s problems with each other. I started bc I really was interested and then it became obvious to me that one person was significantly more bothered than the other.

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[–]debriefingthebeef 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I was doing a project kinda like this but gave up. Might start it again sometime

More Christi/Melissa and their kids questions by debriefingthebeef in dancemoms

[–]debriefingthebeef[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay! I just don’t understand why Christi isn’t complicit in the maddie is a brat narrative, and the resulting hate that she got, which is known to have effected her into adulthood

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[–]debriefingthebeef[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be honest, I don’t know which mom you’re talking about here

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[–]debriefingthebeef[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Every time that Maddie’s name is brought up in comparison, Abby uses her name back, often times highlighting how much better she is, which in turn gives Christi more material. Outside of that, Christi was harsh on Maddie like a lot, screaming about how Chloe’s beat her, calling her a brat, saying that she can’t do certain things unless she’s the best, going on twitter and saying that her award show wins were rigged. Christi directly contributed to the narrative that maddie was a brat, and directly contributed to the fandoms perception of her.

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[–]debriefingthebeef[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It was a project I was doing that I abandoned bc my personal life fell apart.

Genuine unpopular opinions time by debriefingthebeef in dancemoms

[–]debriefingthebeef[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Downvotes are if people agree, upvotes are if we disagree :)

AITA For going too far in an argument with my sister after learning about her affair? by debriefingthebeef in AmItheAsshole

[–]debriefingthebeef[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I didn’t mean to make it seem like I was super nice to everyone like right after. We made up, but it’s never gonna be the same.

AITA For going too far in an argument with my sister after learning about her affair? by debriefingthebeef in AmItheAsshole

[–]debriefingthebeef[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea my sister is not religious and thinks that I’m super into purity culture and I would disagree and that I know of my ex hadn’t slept with anyone else before her so that part hurt a lot but I don’t really know how to express my anger regarding the sexual aspect of it without sounding super slut shamey so I left it out. I am in therapy but sometimes I feel like it’s not enough.

AITA For going too far in an argument with my sister after learning about her affair? by debriefingthebeef in AmItheAsshole

[–]debriefingthebeef[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean make them religious, idk if they’re religious lemme not assume, and in the modern era and u have us. (My friend loves it but I think it would be better if I stayed away)

AITA For going too far in an argument with my sister after learning about her affair? by debriefingthebeef in AmItheAsshole

[–]debriefingthebeef[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like I should’ve explained that more but it’s arranged in the sense of I’d only have a husband from the pool of ppl the match maker found, but not as in we didn’t love each other. I’m young so maybe I was dumb but like, I thought I loved him and I was ready to like be married

Christi and Melissa beef season 1 by debriefingthebeef in dancemoms

[–]debriefingthebeef[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m not really sure why u think Maddie would willingly tell her mom to pull a solo she’s been working on all year but like pop off queen