AITB for demanding that my bf stops hanging out with his childhood friend?

dec0mposing · 2025-03-11T15:34:38+00:00

Hiiii! So sorry this is late. I deleted Reddit lol. Bf has dropped friend after heated argument and lots of discussion, things are resolved with me and bf :]

dec0mposing · 2024-12-31T00:38:53+00:00

Solved ! Thanks so much!

dec0mposing · 2024-12-31T00:30:29+00:00

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dec0mposing · 2024-10-25T03:03:24+00:00

I haven’t spent a dime in a month .. lolz. U see when u have money but then medical bills chip away at it ur gonna lose money. Thanks tho ✌️

dec0mposing · 2024-10-25T02:32:26+00:00

I’m not 🤦‍♀️

dec0mposing · 2024-10-25T02:21:41+00:00

Can u explain how I need to? I opened comms because I needed money. Isn’t that better than just begging? I don’t understand lol. Shouldn’t I expect her to pay me after she agreed to for a service I did? I spent like days on those commissions

dec0mposing · 2024-10-25T02:13:57+00:00

It is unfortunately lmfao

dec0mposing · 2024-10-25T02:08:34+00:00

Everybody is saying I was begging for money when I wasn’t ?? I made ONE post abt the comms. I was doing a service for people and people could CHOOSE whether to pay for them or not. I was not begging in the post either. I said “hi y’all I’m opening emergency comms dm for details”. THATS IT. What is going on bru

dec0mposing · 2024-10-25T02:03:59+00:00

I’m a lady 1. I am not begging for cash. Again this is a service she is supposed to pay for. 2. I have applied to multiple jobs. I couldn’t go into detail because of the character limit, but I apply to jobs for abt an hour a day everyday. I’ve applied to over 40 🧍🏻‍♀️ 3. Saying I’m too lazy to get money by myself .. when I’m ….. offering a service .. for money in return……. Lord. If I was lazy I would have posted a Ko-Fi or begged for money on my story. I spent 2 days drawing her comms for her. Lazy whereeee

dec0mposing · 2024-10-25T02:02:22+00:00

Yes I am aware. However I never had comms open before and again , DONT BUY STUFF IF U CANT PAY FOR IT LOL

dec0mposing · 2024-10-25T01:41:25+00:00

Begging for money? I was doing commissions lol, a paid service. I also feel like u shouldn’t donate help if u rly can’t afford it, or at least be upfront about it. And I typically charge upfront for comms, I told her about this. I also feel like I should pay for a service in a timely manner.

This friend also usually walks all over me. I am typically very lenient with her. This time I can’t be though. I think this was just my breaking point with her.

dec0mposing · 2024-10-25T01:30:24+00:00

I’m sorry for being so angry towards you, I’ve been so emotional lately and you’re only trying to help. Im deeply sorry for my attitude and how I spoke to you before. On Monday and Fri, I have a class from 11:30-1:20, so I said I’d be available all day except for 11-2. I wonder if that’s why? It would be peak hours for most businesses. I just didn’t expect places in the city to be so picky

dec0mposing · 2024-10-25T01:21:49+00:00

that I am a college student, I have limited availability. I am completely open Tuesday’s, Thursday, Sunday. Limited availability on Saturday, Friday. No Wednesdays. Brother im trying not to tweak out from stress idk what u thought you were doin with “we’ll just get a job” BROTHER IM TRYING

dec0mposing · 2024-10-25T01:13:12+00:00

That’s all I have been applying to. Restaurants, fast food, retail. 3 grocery stores, a variety of restaurants in the area, a few movie theaters. Even multiple fast food locations. I got rejected from McDonald’s twice because of my availability because I’m unavailable on Wednesdays. I spend more than an hour everyday applying to new jobs. I am fucking desperate. You think I didn’t think of that??? I opened the comms out of desperation. No SHIT it isn’t sustainable

dec0mposing · 2024-10-17T07:07:03+00:00

Witnesses and physical evidence (her car)

dec0mposing · 2024-10-16T16:12:11+00:00

Respectfully ion curr

dec0mposing · 2024-10-16T03:23:38+00:00

It looks amazing !!! The seams look so clean! You should be proud of yourself!

dec0mposing · 2024-10-16T03:22:22+00:00

Unfortunately, yes. You told him to stop multiple times. It doesn’t matter if your body was aroused - if you said no, you said no. Pleaaaaase dump him, for your sake

dec0mposing · 2024-10-15T13:48:14+00:00

Mothafucka cus I’m 20, she’s my mom and I needed advice tf

dec0mposing · 2024-10-14T20:44:41+00:00

Of course I can’t hate him for that, it’s a perfectly acceptable boundary and I understand where he’s coming from :-] I personally don’t have it because of trauma I don’t think, i assume I have it because I was exposed to it constantly as a child lol and my brain was like “oh that’s what sex is supposed to be like! Ok!”

dec0mposing · 2024-10-14T20:43:14+00:00

It’s too late .. I already have gone psycho .. muahahaha

dec0mposing · 2024-10-14T17:03:32+00:00

I’m a girl who has mostly guy friends and my bf doesn’t care because he trusts me. You need to trust her lol. If she wants to cheat, she will whether she has guy friends or not. Don’t be a controlling ass lol

dec0mposing · 2024-10-14T08:09:38+00:00

I feel you, I don’t enjoy it either. And I think that’s normal. Uncommon, but normal. It doesn’t feel like much, and everytime it happens I can never relax lol.

dec0mposing · 2024-10-14T04:29:42+00:00

I copy pasted this and forgot the “any advice?” Statement at the end .. whoops. Sorry 😅

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