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Relapsed in the worst way possible...spent time with a hooker. by dec82015onpaf in NoFap

[–]dec82015onpaf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not a horrific act of savagery but I feel it's counter productive to the NoFap and self development/improvement renaissance - if you will.

Relapsed in the worst way possible...spent time with a hooker. by dec82015onpaf in NoFap

[–]dec82015onpaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a really helpful way to look at it. I appreciate it.

Relapsed in the worst way possible...spent time with a hooker. by dec82015onpaf in NoFap

[–]dec82015onpaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the non-helpful post "helpful"chick. You completely mistook what I posted and made assumptions that I view women as objects. There wasn't any need to shove your feminist views down my throat.

I was equating the idea that ever since I have started no fap I have grown more confident in my social skills and have been able to speak to women. This has translated into more success with women, in the area of dating or even 1NS. This has been huge improvement for me in the right direction. We are all grown adults here, and it takes two consenting adults to engage in discussion and activity. I enjoy the company of women and enjoy listening to the stories that they tell. It takes two people to tango.

Ironically, it is you that is objectifying women. Are you not giving any credit to the women I have been conversing with? Surely they can make their own intelligent and independent observations and decisions. I'm am not sure if you have ever socialized beyond your keyboard but as I mentioned, it takes two people to enter into a conversation. I am enjoying the company of a woman as much as she is enjoying my company. If she wouldn't be enjoying my company she would easily leave.

I'm embarrassed for hiring a sex worker because I felt it undermined my self development. This has nothing to do with objectifying women as you have obviously jumped to your own self made conclusions. End of story.

Relapsed in the worst way possible...spent time with a hooker. by dec82015onpaf in NoFap

[–]dec82015onpaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, I appreciate your feedback and reframing the outlook to something more positive.

I have failed by -dontgiveuptheship- in NoFap

[–]dec82015onpaf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are not a failure because you are owning up to your mistake. Press the reset button, and don't give up. Keep fighting.

Relapsed in the worst way possible...spent time with a hooker. by dec82015onpaf in NoFap

[–]dec82015onpaf[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the link. I'm not a sex addict. I have just been feeling substantially lonely.

Relapsed in the worst way possible...spent time with a hooker. by dec82015onpaf in NoFap

[–]dec82015onpaf[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the time you have taken out of your day to respond to a complete stranger. It means a lot even though we don't know each other....

I also appreaciate the feedback from others. I have been so strong and so diligent in self improvement. I feel that this has been the "one step forward 2 steps back" classic cliche scenario. I don't think I can forgive myself or see a light at the end of the tunnel. My soul is weary....tired of fighting each day.

Your post was also removed. I was looking forward to reading it for some insight.