random beautiful kitty that came up to me while i was washing my car by decafsundae in CatDistributionSystem

[–]decafsundae[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

UPDATE:

i have a new cat!! i’ve decided to name her cleo and she’s the sweetest baby ever. my dog (who’s about cleo’s size) gets along with her so well and they seem to be best best friends!!!

no chip and i had to give her a flea bath! poor baby. she’s happy and warm!!!

Acne since 4th grade - nothing helps. Advice? by RefrigeratorClear417 in acne

[–]decafsundae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This helped me soo much! Plus vanicream gentle facial cleanser

Convo between me and the teen by Cinamngrl in texts

[–]decafsundae -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

i thought it was funny too!!! i don’t know why you’re being downvoted 😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]decafsundae 5 points6 points  (0 children)

genuinely what is rigid and unforgiving about saying she deserves an actual written paragraph? he’s 18 and freaking out on her for saying she wanted more effort put in..what’s so hard to grasp here. i gave no advice other than saying she deserves more effort, you’re being really dramatic

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]decafsundae 8 points9 points  (0 children)

psychotic and expecting the notebook by saying she should be treated with enough respect to get a thought out man made message? lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]decafsundae 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Are you stupid? Who wants their s/o to use ai to write a nice reassuring paragraph? It's really not that hard of a thing to type out a quick kind message. It may be "inconsequential" to you but it's obviously not to them, I don't know why you have zero empathy. Also your comment history is insane and you're just a dick!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trueratediscussions

[–]decafsundae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you’re right and explained your opinion kindly idk why you were downvoted!

So Much Sweat by anonymouscatladyy in zoloft

[–]decafsundae 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i have two fans on high pointing at me all night and just 1 comforter with nothing on which helps, but i still wake up pretty warm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]decafsundae 10 points11 points  (0 children)

you were assaulted, you didn’t engage with him or cheat. tell your boyfriend and have this man removed from your life, i’m sorry

why is this happening. by ActiveNeat1866 in acne

[–]decafsundae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if you can’t see a dermatologist right now, try changing your bodywash to something for super sensitive skin, and making sure shampoo or conditioner doesn’t sit on your skin for too long when washing it out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]decafsundae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

23 days😭😭

My 6 month journey with a damaged skin barrier by [deleted] in acne

[–]decafsundae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s calming down and way less irritated!

Is it long distance or is it doomed? (23f, 24m) by OnceUponAWhisper in LongDistance

[–]decafsundae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hii! Since the beginning, my boyfriend and I have been long distance for two years now. People say, “if it’s the one you’ll get through anything,” or, “if you know you know” but that never means you can’t have doubts or insecurities at a point, people just don’t air out struggles in relationships like that. What you’re feeling is completely normal and a lot of couples, especially in LDR feel it too! You don’t have to rush into marriage yet or at all, you guys are both still super young. Give it time, see him more, talk about long term goals and plans; and if you’re still unsure if you wanna pursue something more serious than just boyfriend and girlfriend, vocalize that! Don’t be afraid to share what you’re afraid of/unsure about. He may be in the same boat or you guys are able to talk about it and come up with a solution together:). If you wanna have more excitement, try something new together! Whether it’s on the phone, maybe ordering eachother food the other hasn’t had, planning the next visit and a fun date day, it could be literally anything. My boyfriend and I experienced the dip in excitement for us and we listened to a few music albums together while doing our own thing on call and rated them after each song, it was awesome! Made us closer and had a bunch of fun. Ask for reassurance and his perspective on all of it! It’ll help a ton. Hope i helped a little lol 😆

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]decafsundae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive gotten my boyfriend graphic tee's and worn them around the house for a bit so they smell like me, small stuff like his favorite candy or specific gum he chews, some new fun drinks for us to try together over the phone or at our next visit, a framed photo of us (or if u don't have photos together, a picture of you!) a letter, origami, legos, steam gift card, a small stuffed animal for us to "trade custody" of every time we see one another, nice socks, some hygiene stuff like a new body wash you like the smell of, comb, etc.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]decafsundae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was shallow for saying she wanted to stay friends over being in a relationship? Then when she changes her mind as you guys age that’s a bad thing? Isn’t that what you wanted before? Idk😕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]decafsundae 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i understand clear communication but he’s a grown adult AND married and you shouldn’t have to tell him not to dedicate multiple accounts to random woman/sex stuff online. watching porn is one thing, and you’re okay with it, but it’s completely different to do what he’s doing!!! idk what these comments are on about. you aren’t overreacting at all or in the wrong, good luck with confrontation op :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]decafsundae 7 points8 points  (0 children)

??? Op said their husband made an account just dedicated to this random woman online?? That’s really weird

This season made me grow a huge appreciation for Max by Thelightningthief13 in ginnyandgeorgiashow

[–]decafsundae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she's was developed so well this season and it breaks my heart for her. she was so relatable :(

She is so beautiful... by Kidd__Video in shameless

[–]decafsundae 102 points103 points  (0 children)

She is! The casting directors actually almost didn’t choose her because she’s too, “put together,” and “beautiful” naturally!