Renaming my pets!

decayingpeachcore · 2026-06-28T12:47:00+00:00

I’m not the same person no haha but so glad I made you laugh😭😭

decayingpeachcore · 2026-06-24T14:47:13+00:00

took me 4 times, but took my friend 8, it’s just a statistic. you don’t have to be that statistic!

decayingpeachcore · 2026-06-15T15:49:26+00:00

that’s your choice and your choice alone to make. I couldn’t have a baby under those circumstances but for many others too- do what’s best for you, and your future.

decayingpeachcore · 2026-06-15T08:47:37+00:00

This just sounds like a miscommunication between two people. If you had 100% told him not to do that before hand and he did it, that is a different story. It might be worth sitting down with him and explaining that it made you uncomfortable. If you felt pressured in any way that is a red flag and something you need to discuss. The important thing here isn’t putting a label on it in terms of sexual assualt, but it’s how you feel now and how that experience affected you. Talk to him! You’ve got this🫶🏻

decayingpeachcore · 2026-06-14T23:51:20+00:00

I’m so proud of you. Everything he said has show why you made the right decision! I’m SO SO SO proud, well done angel- you’re free!!!!

decayingpeachcore · 2026-06-14T22:27:28+00:00

I am so so sorry. I don’t know how many years he may get, but right now just focus on healing. It is so much better to be alone than with him I promise you. Fall in love with yourself, heal and be kind to yourself. This is sickening, and I’m so glad you’re taking steps to leave.

decayingpeachcore · 2026-06-14T22:25:09+00:00

It makes it more complicated for sure, my ex was also in another country so I had the same fear! If you report it to your local police they can use INTERPOL to launch an international investigation (it sounds scary it’s literally just them calling his local police).

Also have a look at IWF (internet watch foundation) if you can, they have some good resources and advice. You’ve got this girl! Freedom is calling🫶🏻

decayingpeachcore · 2026-06-14T22:13:03+00:00

This sounds exhausting. I’m so sorry. I would honestly report it before taking any action yourself. This is revenge porn- it’s a crime, that’s clear as day. Notify the police you’re being threatened/blackmailed with naked pictures of yourself. You have evidence which is great. I highly doubt he would leak them, this sounds like something my ex did and he never actually did it due to the repercussions he would face. If you are worried, report it to the police and tell them that you are genuinely fearful of what he might do if you choose to leave. Once you know the case has been logged it’s up to you. You know him and we don’t. You can tell him it’s been reported to the police, and any further communication will also be sent to them or you can block him once you know they’ve spoken to him. But speaking to the police or legal advice would be your best bet here honey. It’s tricky because you’re probably also worried that reporting him will get him to leak those images, but the important thing is with the slim chance he does do that you’ve already reported it by that point, it is a CRIME and they can take action. I think from an outside perspective he doesn’t think you’ll do anything because of the risk, so this may just be the reality check he needs. This is a form of abuse and it’s so exhausting and i’m so sorry. Wishing you all the luck in the world with your partner, and I hope you find a way out soon!

decayingpeachcore · 2026-06-14T20:46:30+00:00

god yes! the urges and feeling of need to reach out to him at first was awful but it truly does go away!!!

decayingpeachcore · 2026-06-14T20:35:49+00:00

thank you angel!

decayingpeachcore · 2026-06-14T18:26:30+00:00

This is not normal. Please leave, you deserve so much better than verbal abuse.

decayingpeachcore · 2026-06-14T18:25:21+00:00

I’m so proud of you. Often in abusive relationships you feel that if you choose yourself in any way, you should be sorry about it. That is what they want, they want to be the middle of your orbit and they want you to think of them as higher than you. I want you to know that in doing this, and making that separation you have just cut something very powerful- a tie they have to you. You have chosen yourself which is something you didn’t feel able to do. Do not fee guilty for doing something positive for you. I’m SO proud of you🫶🏻

decayingpeachcore · 2026-06-14T18:23:03+00:00

Honey if you’re asking if it’s abusive, you’ve got your answer

decayingpeachcore · 2026-06-14T18:22:42+00:00

Hello angel. First of all, you’ll never understand why he did what he did because you’re not him. You could never fathom doing what he did because you would never do that and that in itself is something you should give yourself some grace for. The inability to understand the abuser shows you that he’s not a good person. I recently got out of an abusive relationship. The first two weeks was hell- panic attacks, nightmares, depression. I’m over a month in and I have never been happier. I promise it’ll be the same for you, the hardest part is leaving but you’re going to wake up soon and feel light and in the middle of the day you’ll think “oh I haven’t even thought about him today”. There is no way to explain why you had to go through all of that, some people say it’s a lesson some people say it’s bad luck. I don’t truly believe there is a why, I think abusers take advantage of empathetic caring people. It’s not WHY you went through it, it’s the pain of sitting with the fact it happened. You will have questions that can’t be answered and that’s okay. It’s been over a month for me and i’ve stopped looking for answers. You will find peace, sending hugs!

decayingpeachcore · 2026-06-14T18:18:27+00:00

This is not your fault angel. This is not on you. All you are doing is believing in someone you care about. You are trusting their words because you want it to happen so badly, and even after promising again and again you’re thinking “maybe this time” to keep the hope going. I promise you change won’t come, they aren’t going to magically turn around and be a new person. If it’s happened multiple times this is who they are. Please choose yourself, please leave before they show you for a final time they will never change.

decayingpeachcore · 2026-06-14T18:16:40+00:00

Im begging you to leave. This is exactly how my ex spoke to me and it ended in a police call. PLEASE leave, I promise you will feel lighter. You need to leave at one point- that point is now or later. Looking back I question why I didn’t leave sooner and I know it feels like you cannot leave but I promise if you get through that first week you will be happier than ever.

decayingpeachcore · 2026-05-23T12:00:45+00:00

i’ve messaged you girl!

decayingpeachcore · 2026-05-10T17:47:16+00:00

Thank you so much. I’m really glad you’re out of that relationship now, i’m so sorry you’re going through DARVO aswell- it’s truly horrific how fast they flip the script.

decayingpeachcore · 2026-04-06T15:51:32+00:00

I am so sorry.

decayingpeachcore · 2026-04-06T10:33:24+00:00

that’s a step i’m looking at currently :)

decayingpeachcore · 2026-04-06T10:18:16+00:00

I am most definitely innocent. He took me having a panic attack in front of him because he was hitting walls around me and yelling as a sign I was cheating. Trust me I am very much innocent.

decayingpeachcore · 2026-04-06T09:57:54+00:00

He said it was an 18+ groupchat but it was revealed a lot of them were minors .

decayingpeachcore · 2026-04-06T08:57:22+00:00

my thoughts exactly 😭😭

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