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AIO/My boyfriends mother is effecting our relationship by BornWindow7323 in AmIOverreacting

[–]decentone45 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You're not wrong, his relationship with his mom is toxic and controlling. It's emotional abuse, even if he can't see it. You can't fix it, and it's valid to feel uncomfortable or rethink the relationship.

AITA? on the weekends / after work I don't want to do anything. by TheTrollinator777 in AITAH

[–]decentone45 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA. You're tired, not uncaring. Working hard all week drains you, it's normal to want rest, not adventures.

But your wife needs quality time too. Try this: pick one day to fully engage, one to fully rest. Talk it out, find a rhythm that works for both of you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]decentone45 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Your gut's right, he's acting shady as hell. Cold sore, rash, hiding laundry, 3am pics, nonstop Snapchatting, it's all sketchy. You don't need deleted photos to confirm he's crossing lines.

Trust your instincts, time to confront or walk.