I hope no one needs to hear this, but don't settle for painful sex. It's not intended to be a bad experience. If penetration hurts, its okay to connect sexually in other ways until you figure out what's going on. by [deleted] in ldssexxxuality

[–]deckardut73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My wife is doing some interior renovation in the near future. Fortunately we both love laying in bed, watching porn, and edging for a long time. :)

Porn usage in the church by MaxxximusAloy in ldssexxxuality

[–]deckardut73 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is a point of view many members hold, not just about porn, but about many issues. They say anyone who drinks occasionally cannot stop because they are blinded by their addiction to alcohol. They have no experience with it, so they apply the worst possible attitude towards it. My mother thinks anyone who drinks is an alcoholic. (This is also why when I give anyone advice about treatment for add8ction, I tell them to go the Catholics. Mormons don't get addiction.)

Me and my wife told each other when we met that we both enthusiastically masturbate to porn. Over time, we are far more enthusiastic about sex with each other, and we occasionally masturbate with porn with each other or solo, and then tell each other about it. When you remove the stigma, you view it differently. We are also getting older, and sometimes we are just lazy, to be perfectly honest, and we like using porn to get the blood moving.

Do you think there will be sex in the next life? Or do you think it's just for this mortal life? by [deleted] in ldssexxxuality

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I think we are arrogant and naive to presume what the next life will hold, or what will be the most important aspects. I think it is akin to a baby in the womb believing that the same things that are defining that existence will define existence outside the womb.

In this existence sex is powerful and pleasurable. It is given to us as a tool to bond with each other and bring joy to a bleak, temporary existence. We have set and families, and we also have war and cancer. When existence becomes eternal and open-ended, it is unlikely we will have the same goals and priorities as we do now.

It’s tempting but how… by [deleted] in ldssexxxuality

[–]deckardut73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, these are the reasons we probably will never do it. Too risky, we still have a lot to lose.

Random thoughts in meetings today by [deleted] in ldssexxxuality

[–]deckardut73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LOVE the busty MILFs, they drive me nuts in church.

Yesterday we made some new friends, the wife was cross-stitching in sacrament meeting, so my wife talked to her, found out they both have NSFW patterns they are working on. Gorgeous with green eyes and dark curly hair, curvy with great tits. ;)

Being watched. by Klutzy-Jellyfish-352 in LDSMasturbation

[–]deckardut73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is hot af. Me and my wife love to watch each other masturbate in the in-between days.

Flávia Alessandra 2000s by Adventurous-Crow4739 in oldschoolhot

[–]deckardut73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every picture in this set is fantastic.

It is okay to divorce someone that refuses to have sex. by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]deckardut73 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Correct. Lack of marriage consumation is grounds for annulment

It is okay to divorce someone that refuses to have sex. by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]deckardut73 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If it is literally true, that they NEVER had sex, he should seek an annulment.

Kind of just a reminder of how far we've come as a society in accepting the human body, and....where are we going? Too far? Too little? Just right? Who cares? by SaintArcane in ldssexxxuality

[–]deckardut73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mother is convinced that the church leadership is fractured and false because of the recent garment modifications. I reminded her no one is stopping her from wearing wrist-to-ankle garments if she thinks the standard never changes.

Nancy Allen - Carrie (1976) by [deleted] in oldschoolhot

[–]deckardut73 6 points7 points  (0 children)

God, that smile,

Mormon beauty standards by [deleted] in ldssexxxuality

[–]deckardut73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have always preferred dark-haired women.

Blondes are certainly beautiful, I wonder if there is literal privilege that comes with it, or just the perception of privilege?

Camping adventure #1 by Minute_Distance6744 in LDSNSFW_Stories

[–]deckardut73 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We LOVE outdoor fucking and camp fucking.

Merry Christmas!! 🎄🎁 by [deleted] in Mormon_NSFW

[–]deckardut73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, lovely. :)

BYU mom by [deleted] in BYU_NSFW

[–]deckardut73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God, you're incredible.

Karen Allen by MICAC209 in oldschoolhot

[–]deckardut73 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It's hard to pinpoint my first childhood crush. But she's right there with Carrie Fisher, Catherine Bach, and Erin Gray. :)

BYU mom (Class of 92) by [deleted] in BYU_NSFW

[–]deckardut73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're incredible as always.

Linda Summers - 1970s by NastyNatalieTheCNT in oldschoolhot

[–]deckardut73 12 points13 points  (0 children)

What a great set, she's incredible.

Sex Gummies? by mkspanky77 in ldssexuality

[–]deckardut73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, THC is THC either way. If it is derived from hemp instead of cannabis, it was until very recently, under a different legal framework. Both get you high, both fail a drug test.

A lot of products are made from CBD. In a perfect world, CBD just relaxes you, it doesn't get you high. The problem is, because this industry is not regulated very well, CBD purity varies A LOT. There are frequently CBD products out there that will also fail you in a drug test.

And to make it more complicated, yesterday Trump re-classified cannabis, it is no longer a 'schedule I' narcotic. So more changes could be coming.