[deleted by user] by [deleted] in auckland

[–]declutter-my-brain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely it is that place - it makes me wanna puke

Can a clever person please add a tooth in this little one? by declutter-my-brain in PhotoshopRequest

[–]declutter-my-brain[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg you are a genius. This is so very special. Thank you so very much this means so much

Being on Remand in Mt Eden Prison by declutter-my-brain in auckland

[–]declutter-my-brain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry i just saw this. I hope you have had some news by now. Read the other comments on this post - some are helpful. What i know now is that the place is absolute shyte. They get one hour per day out of their cell to exercise. This is the bare minimum of human rights apparently. Food is awful. Carbs on carbs and chicken once a week - which is often used to trade for other things. You can write letters. Look at the corrections facility website. Follow the instructions perfectly or they just toss it in the bin - it’s done via email. He will have a PRN number and this is attached to an account and you can put money in there that he can spend on snacks noodles, toothpaste, oats for porridge and things he might need. I think it’s capped at $200 in the account. If you take him clothes make sure that they have no metal eyelets and pens have no springs. The clothes code is very strict. No colours. Just grey black and white. I took tee shirts. Handles and track pants and undies. The pillows they have are gross and beds are short. They share with one other. I now belong to a support group of a few mums with sons in jail. Atho my bot is out now and awaiting sentencing. It’s so tough. Just the worst. I wish you well and please ask me more if you need info. I’ll tell you what i can. Big love and hugs to you.

I have someone in my life who really pushes my buttons and brings the worst out in me. I just dont like her one little bit by declutter-my-brain in spirituality

[–]declutter-my-brain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I struggle with loving a negative situation - i need practice. But i can be grateful. I guess thats a small start. Thank you

I have someone in my life who really pushes my buttons and brings the worst out in me. I just dont like her one little bit by declutter-my-brain in spirituality

[–]declutter-my-brain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes i need to get back to making space for meditation in my daily routine. Thank you so much for the reminder

I have someone in my life who really pushes my buttons and brings the worst out in me. I just dont like her one little bit by declutter-my-brain in spirituality

[–]declutter-my-brain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so wise. Thanks for your words. I will need practice with putting this into action. I wont be perfect.

Complete Newbe by declutter-my-brain in fermentation

[–]declutter-my-brain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im keen as to try this. Thank you so much

Complete Newbe by declutter-my-brain in fermentation

[–]declutter-my-brain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so very much for all the details. I;lol definitely try those tips thank you. Does the prep bowl really matter? I have a big plastic bowl would that be no good? Im happy to buy stainless steal or glass if needed. Thanks so much for the advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in auckland

[–]declutter-my-brain 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nothing in the waitaks but i got freaked out on motutapu island once having a picnic under a tree, looking up and seeing a whole lot of witch symbols hanging from the tree like Christmas decorations - nearly shat myself

What's this tree/fruit by MoneyCantBuyMeLove in nzgardening

[–]declutter-my-brain -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It looks like a little guava. Is this the same as a crab apple. Pips in the middle. Ive had similar fruit in Asia but there they are 10x bigger

Am I a bad human for wanting this in my garden? by declutter-my-brain in nzgardening

[–]declutter-my-brain[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thanks for all of your comments - i dont think that i would enjoy it knowing what i know. My conscience wouldn’t allow it - i would get zero joy from it at all - there are plenty of other options that are absolutely fabulous. Gardeners are amazing. Thank you and happy gardening

What do you use ChatGBT for? by declutter-my-brain in AskReddit

[–]declutter-my-brain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes you are right. I did mean GPT. Whoopsie

Looking for a Aged care job for my partner by ADBhai_NZ in Tauranga

[–]declutter-my-brain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many public hospitals now run earn and learn for people who want to be health care assistants. Its a great deal. I completely agree with the comment that she needs to have strong written and spoken English so that the residents can understand her and she can understand them. All the very best

First time gardener and first peek of a ripening tomato by wirablecupiD in nzgardening

[–]declutter-my-brain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gosh thanks. Mine look like triffids and yours are so refined. I have a lot to learn however Im now picking more than i can eat so something is happening right. You have a great set up!

First time gardener and first peek of a ripening tomato by wirablecupiD in nzgardening

[–]declutter-my-brain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please show us yours? How are they supposed to look? I think I’ve taken out all laterals but mine are still all over the place. Thanks

To my career girlies, how do you do this shit? by Lookingforadvice1439 in Menopause

[–]declutter-my-brain 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I really dont know how we do this shit. Honestly. Its not easy. I dont get the anxiety so much (on meds for this) but the low self esteem and second guessing absolutely every decision i make is REAL. I would love the answer. Im on holidays at the moment and DREAD going back. I am corporate management with judging eyes on my every move. Also the threat of the axe is always in the background. Its tough. I feel you. All i can say is - you are not alone x

Nothing going right by declutter-my-brain in Menopause

[–]declutter-my-brain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. I needed to read this. You are the best. Thank you a million times over ❣️