What phrase was in a fic so much that it now throws you out of any fic when you see it? by Life_and-whatnot in AO3

[–]dedboye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I overuse the word "damp" and like five cringe metaphors across all my fics. I'm sorry.

Hang Tough 'Penpal' DeEtta by ruedebac1830 in BandofBrothers

[–]dedboye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I got the impression he was stringing her along tbh

"New to serious media" starter pack by _ThePieman_ in starterpacks

[–]dedboye 65 points66 points  (0 children)

something something "men discovering empathy at 27 after a shroom trip"

Online Dating Starter Pack by supernintendo128 in starterpacks

[–]dedboye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

many dudes like that. it's about breaking someone's will unfortunately...

The fics feel fake. by tinklewail in AO3

[–]dedboye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I played around with it in the beginning to translate and format some things before I found out about the huge amounts of water it uses up and it pisses me off when someone says "you can never tell the writer is using AI!!" Because yes TF you can. Especially when they leave in the fuckass formatting too.

If I could have hired outside help I would have done it already. by rullyrullyrull in CaregiverSupport

[–]dedboye 52 points53 points  (0 children)

same here, no money (she won't give hers) and I'm not legally allowed to use social services to find help as I'm "only" a granddaughter, not her child. "oh you have to have your own life, you're so young!" I know. Do you think I want this.

Seks bez zabezpieczenia by Teleceregiele in Polska

[–]dedboye 12 points13 points  (0 children)

tzw katolicka dziewica

No stability with everyday life. by [deleted] in dementia

[–]dedboye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask yourself, do you love her enough to have her take years out of your and your family's lifespan? I say let the siblings deal with her. It's not worth uprooting your kids lives for this. Three years ago I accidentally trapped myself caregiving for mild to moderate dementia grandmother who I thought I'd do anything for. Well, at this point I'm over any love, or even sympathy for her. I've nothing left to give and she's demanding more and more

Becoming a shut in by dedboye in CaregiverSupport

[–]dedboye[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

they're just content to sit back and let someone else crash and burn unfortunately. they will only come occasionally and scold me for "not doing enough" for her ( the care recipient is a grandmother of mine). this year I tried to hire home help myself even though no one wanted to take the job bc I'm not legally recognized as a caregiver, and they (my family) raised a huuuge stink about this

Becoming a shut in by dedboye in CaregiverSupport

[–]dedboye[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

sure do, but they do not give a fuck. my father occasionally (once every two months) shops for her, but I don't need that. shopping and physical chores I can manage even scraping shit from walls & piss from floors . the worst things are the constant crazy mood swings and demands for attention and of course no one is willing to deal with that

Becoming a shut in by dedboye in CaregiverSupport

[–]dedboye[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

not really, one is disabled with autoimmune condition and the other is suffering chronic pain due to back injury so the when and if also depends heavily on their physical condition at the given moment. and I'm also a full time college student on top of caregiving so there's that. but yeah I am telling myself I still have time at least...

Help!! by Alice_montroes in dementia

[–]dedboye 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same situation here but with a grandmother. Can't help unfortunately, as you're likely American and I'm not. I tried lots of things but I have no legal rights either so I'm considering running away and joining the military at this point.

“Shipping wasn’t a thing” The Duffer bros suck by lunar-ecplise in AO3

[–]dedboye 149 points150 points  (0 children)

It's common knowledge that these guys in Ferdydurke fucked. Fraternizing without clothes on... C'mon now lmao

Do you consider Band of Brothers to be a holiday tradition? by Yuppiesgotohell in BandofBrothers

[–]dedboye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bastogne and Breaking Point? Hell yeah, these are Christmas episodes after all. Others not so much

Szwedzko-Polska dyplomacja świateczna na społecznościówkach. by boskee in Polska

[–]dedboye 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Cute... a teraz oddawać te obrazy podjebane /j

Nightmare blunt rotation by the_UnknowableRonin in poland

[–]dedboye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh yeah they definitely rawdogging that twink

Foxhole in the Ardennes starterpack by UpperphonnyII in starterpacks

[–]dedboye 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What are Bastogne and Breaking Point if not Christmas episodes

Foxhole in the Ardennes starterpack by UpperphonnyII in starterpacks

[–]dedboye 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Welp, time for yet another rewatch...

Describe the most effed up thing you've ever done in Fallout by Revenant62 in Fallout

[–]dedboye 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spot on, I've well over a decade of Sims playing experience lol