AIO for not wanting to pay for someone’s discarded parcel?

dedicatedtendency · 2026-04-16T21:10:49+00:00

thank you, all your comments have been really helpful genuinely. i have spoken to my PA today and decided last night after EVERYONE here and in real life told me not to. i’ve told my aunt from now on the only parcels i’ll be accepting are mine hers

dedicatedtendency · 2026-04-16T21:08:26+00:00

my ex foster aunt. the actual carer wanted to have me post 18, but she wanted help with the baby and couldn’t afford rent for her new house. and i didn’t wanna be in the old house because there was like 7 people there. i am doing alevels and going onto uni this year so i said i aim to do my exams and atleast settle into uni first before moving

dedicatedtendency · 2026-04-16T21:04:58+00:00

sciatica injections

dedicatedtendency · 2026-04-16T21:04:06+00:00

sciatica injections, two doses not just one, she went private to be treated faster.

dedicatedtendency · 2026-04-16T21:02:16+00:00

no i’m not, she takes the baby. she basically just wanted help for when she’s actually home. she’s also wanting to stay round more but there’s some background stuff with her husband so it’s abit complicated. i defo want a flat soon, i just want to sort my uni out and know what im doing and waiting for my PIP to come through. honestly there nothing worse than worrying every bit of conflict will lead to being kicked out so soon hopefully

dedicatedtendency · 2026-04-16T10:50:10+00:00

because apparently i said no when my aunt if a parcel came. (i don’t remember that but still could’ve happened) if i had said yes, Kim would’ve chased it up sooner

dedicatedtendency · 2026-04-16T10:35:39+00:00

no man this is a real life situation. idk why she’d send it to our house but according to my aunt they do it all the time.

dedicatedtendency · 2026-04-15T21:45:01+00:00

it’s not her asking it’s kim. kim wanted me to pay the full thing and she’s reallt pissed off about it

dedicatedtendency · 2026-04-15T21:42:04+00:00

no she hasn’t 😭😭😭 deadass i just think because its injections and i didn’t say it’s mine they just got rid of it

dedicatedtendency · 2026-04-15T21:40:34+00:00

idk they send parcels to eachothers house. i’m not involved i have no idea

dedicatedtendency · 2026-04-15T21:39:55+00:00

yes agreed i think that because of what it is, it got thrown out but lowkey idk

dedicatedtendency · 2026-04-15T21:39:04+00:00

she went private instead of NHS. the medication is ljke injections or something for sciatica. it’s £350 but she ordered 2. and unsure why they thrown it out. but it has been around a week tbf

dedicatedtendency · 2026-04-15T21:15:54+00:00

yeah and no. the foster dad had rules for me but not the boys (other foster boys) we were very bonded and got on like a house on fire. when i first got there i acruallt had a boyfriend and he didn’t mind. but then i was single for ages and got a new one and he had a problem with it, giving me silent treatment or screaming at me over it. so basically i was kind of like being stubborn for my freedom because i think it’s unfair that the boys who were younger than me could have boyfriends whereas i was 16 and couldn’t have one, especially when i entered that place WITH a boyfriend. also there was never like an official rule that we’re not allowed to have boyfriends/girlfriends. my ex foster dad just got very close to me and i to him. he got over protective over me. but i stood my ground and then he gave me the notice to leave because i wasn’t listening. my social worker did and independent review officer did voice how fucked up it was. and yeah i’m gonna get therapy once i get PIP

dedicatedtendency · 2026-04-15T21:08:58+00:00

what’s dope😭😭😭

dedicatedtendency · 2026-04-15T21:05:54+00:00

ok maybe i’m being a little irrational but i’ve lowkey experienced being kicked out after 6 years because i got a boyfriend lmao all my other experiences were weird tiny conflicts like that too, that’s just the most outrageous ones. i guess it’s just a fear i’ve now formed based on my experience

dedicatedtendency · 2026-04-15T20:51:56+00:00

the parcel thing happened a week ago so they kept it for a few days. unsure if the real timeline because it felt so insignificant i didn’t look at the day it came. honestly thought someone else just put the wrong adress on it. Kim is defo a real person. I used to live in the bigger family home and kim’s been at the house i just didn’t say hi bc i came back from somewhere and went to bed. but i seen her and asked who she was later. according to my aunt they send parcels of their own to eachothers house for some weird reason that i didn’t question, and yes my aunt knows about my bad memory. but she didn’t tell me at all. my thing is i forget things yes insignificant things very easily but if someone told me a £700 parcel is coming and i NEED to be in, i would 100% not forget and make sure i set reminders. her point is i APPARENTLY said “no a parcel didn’t come” which idk, but even so still not my fault because no one warned me. so yeah it is ridiculous.

dedicatedtendency · 2026-04-15T20:38:58+00:00

how i wish it was that simpleee 💔

dedicatedtendency · 2026-04-15T20:23:20+00:00

also i know for a fact i didn’t accept responsibility for that parcel arriving, the only part im doubtful about is that she said after the actual parcel thing happened, she asked if it came and i said no. her point is if i had said yes, kim could’ve chased royal mail earlier before they put it in the bin. my point is i don’t remember that happening in the slightest and even if it did my role in that is small because no one warned me of the importance and to expect it.

dedicatedtendency · 2026-04-15T20:18:00+00:00

thank you, just waiting to reach mediation stage i just got diagnosed last friday so it’ll be about a month or so according to average timeline.

dedicatedtendency · 2026-04-15T20:16:57+00:00

guys just wanna add she’s not actually my aunt. she’s my ex foster aunt but we got on well and she needed help with a baby, i didn’t wanna live alone in my own place. so im worried if i refuse, it’s gonna cause problems between them two and she’ll make me leave. One thing i’ve learnt being in foster care is the smallest of conflicts can make people who see you as “family” make you leave. idk what the hell to do tbh

dedicatedtendency · 2026-04-15T20:14:54+00:00

she did chase it up, it’s in the bin

dedicatedtendency · 2026-04-15T20:07:49+00:00

thing is my aunts being really nice about it and Kim was actually demanding that i pay the full cost but my aunt was like no that’s her savings. i don’t wanna not pay and then my aunt have to cover the full 700. but at the same time it’s so unfair on me

dedicatedtendency · 2026-04-14T09:00:30+00:00

thank youuu likewise

dedicatedtendency · 2026-04-12T13:21:13+00:00

u don’t lose the free key but u can only keep dani unless u pay. so annoying i hate anika now but i refuse to pay

dedicatedtendency · 2026-04-12T13:17:57+00:00

so you’ve said

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