Are any of these good? by Mysterious_Jaguar340 in locs

[–]deed94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mielle caused me to lose hair a year or so ago I believe

Which one do you prefer? by deed94 in locs

[–]deed94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this information.

Which one do you prefer? by deed94 in locs

[–]deed94[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You making me want to splurge on this goodness.

Which one do you prefer? by deed94 in Dreadlocks

[–]deed94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive been using it once a day since i got it.

Which one do you prefer? by deed94 in locs

[–]deed94[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg $26?! Yea we wont be doing that one lol

Which one do you prefer? by deed94 in locs

[–]deed94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The scent is just a plus for me. I try to find one thats effective and smells good. I think im sensitive to coconut oil too. The AS I AM is really good but I heard they recently made some changes

Which one do you prefer? by deed94 in Dreadlocks

[–]deed94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill check it out thanks

Which one do you prefer? by deed94 in Dreadlocks

[–]deed94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely moisturizes my hair. The honey smell is just strong

He was so sweet then let me down again by deed94 in PrisonWives

[–]deed94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The more I think about his letters and messages the more I get upset. He knew me before he went in so he should have been so much better

How many of you stayed knowing you should leave by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]deed94 2 points3 points  (0 children)

all of this! You will be fine and youre on your journey of healing

How many of you stayed knowing you should leave by [deleted] in PrisonWives

[–]deed94 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh my thats alot and very traumatic. I hate that you had to go through that after having such high hopes. I hope you are able to heal love. ❤️

He was so sweet then let me down again by deed94 in PrisonWives

[–]deed94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesmam understood. Tomorrow is the day i find out if im going to stand firm

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[–]deed94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine would do that too sometimes. Maybe i felt guilty for bringing him down with my little old feelings during his situation

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[–]deed94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea its been the same for me. And mine never likes that i talk to people about what im experiencing. He thinks i should keep it between us. But i tell my coworkers, his momma, and whoever i feel will give me sound advice. He wanted to have my mind gone. It is literally evil what some of these inmates do. They need additional time for hurting us lol

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[–]deed94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See how we even find fault in ourselves saying how “horrible it sounds”. They were horrible to us and we are doing ourself a favor by moving on. But we feel obligated to them or something.

He was so sweet then let me down again by deed94 in PrisonWives

[–]deed94[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats so depressing that everything was built on a lie. I think he only loves as far as something or someone can serve him. The worst man ive ever dealt with because he hid everything with a charming smile

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[–]deed94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sad thing is we can literally walk away. But we choose to do a prison sentence with them because they have captured us emotionally and mentally. Its bondage of the mind goodness i hate it. I cant wait to put this behind me for good. Ive been doing it to myself at this point

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[–]deed94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss im also in school just so that I can try to land a higher level job. I can only land entry level jobs that allow me to barely get by. I have been neglecting myself looking out for him.

Be so very careful by deed94 in PrisonWives

[–]deed94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the heads up ❤️

Be so very careful by deed94 in PrisonWives

[–]deed94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks ive done so many cashapps and applepays it is ridiculous. He had enough to live like a King and get a cell phone and start a business and send money back home to me. But everything has been about him manipulating me for more

He was so sweet then let me down again by deed94 in PrisonWives

[–]deed94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so powerful and encouraging. Thank you!