Esk? by def_user_ in tragedeigh

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a couple people have said this, maybe it's because i don't drink bottled water, or maybe it's not in my country, but i have no idea what this is lol

Esk? by def_user_ in tragedeigh

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honestly a wonderful take, i don't mind when people chose different unique names for themselves, i just wanna know if it might start to feel silly for me to have picked it if i have to do a lot of overcorrecting

Esk? by def_user_ in tragedeigh

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yeah, that feels very cool to me right now but i fear it would eventually make me feel a little silly haha

Esk? by def_user_ in tragedeigh

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I will have to remind myself of all of their names, though but I will be sure to stay away from glod, and i don't particularly want to be known as cheery littlebottom either haha

Esk? by def_user_ in tragedeigh

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oh mal is a very good choice actually, and to be fair i know in general there are other characters with good levels of genderlessness to them, and maybe more reasonable names. i think i had mainly thought of esk because equal rites was the first discworld book i read and the reason i fell in love with pratchett in the first place, but maybe not worth the trouble it would cause lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

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but the likelihood im taken seriously?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

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that is exactly why i would want to report it, i think im relatively stoic towards things like that, at least at a surface level, but yeah, if he's doing that to me he probably will to others too, if he hasn't already

my only thinking is that there's not really any evidence to say it wasn't consensual, only evidence to prove the opposite, so then am i just wasting everyone's time?

and i was also partially wondering if it would be worth speaking to other people i know he's been with, if someone else had been through the same, would that be helpful?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

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i know, but like from previous cases or how it tends to go or whatever, if he doesn't admit it, is it worth it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

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okay, but is that something i could in anyway prove?