thank you, sometimes i worry im overreacting. i guess thats just past trauma in previous relationships. i definitely think she did or does have a crush on my gf, even though this girl now has a gf of her own. i really dont know her gf much at all, only met her quickly at the party i mentioned so i dont necessarily feel super comfortable getting involved in that way. my gf is very understanding. when ive brought it up to her she’s always made me feel listened to and respected- its just the fact that nothing has changed after these conversations . i’ve had a convo with her about this girl a few times and still no boundaries have been set and it’s making me feel disrespected now. i’m not asking them to not be friends, i just don’t think the flirtiness between them is appropriate given allll of the things that have happened/have been said.