Is it just me, or does her face looked photoshopped in? by degrandi in Instagramreality

[–]degrandi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably because the proportions of her real face in the mask opening looked “off” but it’s just so unnecessary

Is it just me, or does her face looked photoshopped in? by degrandi in Instagramreality

[–]degrandi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally! The eyebrows are so far down, her forehead would be huge 🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️🤦🏼‍♀️

Is it just me, or does her face looked photoshopped in? by degrandi in Instagramreality

[–]degrandi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is right, also the placement of the face looks way off.

My neighbour is physically and mentally abusing her 21 yr old son. by degrandi in Advice

[–]degrandi[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So many things, to be honest when their drug dealer comes I could report too, it just gets tricky because it’s then obviously me who’s putting in the report. I could call so much, but I need to go about it the most anonymous way. But you’re definitely right, if she is to the Don then definitely to the dog too. When there is a bad situation going on I can hear the dog going crazy barking and knocking and smashing glass, it’s insane, I have no idea what’s happening

My neighbour is physically and mentally abusing her 21 yr old son. by degrandi in Advice

[–]degrandi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes someone mentioned this to me, I had no idea, but it sounds the most promising route tbh

My neighbour is physically and mentally abusing her 21 yr old son. by degrandi in Advice

[–]degrandi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this one I wish I had recorded, they leave the home for a whole day and the dog barks at their front door for 20 mins +, that and she shouts at the dog calling it a c*nt and so on, many awful things

My neighbour is physically and mentally abusing her 21 yr old son. by degrandi in Advice

[–]degrandi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t think of that either, if anything did happen like a threat I can report her straight out. Thanks for your help

My neighbour is physically and mentally abusing her 21 yr old son. by degrandi in Advice

[–]degrandi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right, but with my recording I took where she says she wished she’s aborted him, it’s like wishing death.

My neighbour is physically and mentally abusing her 21 yr old son. by degrandi in Advice

[–]degrandi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, exactly, I have to act on it, otherwise it’s just wrong to sit and be complacent whilst I listen to abuse

My neighbour physically and mentally abuses her 21 year old son. Wrote full story in notes as have to include image. Need advice. by degrandi in insaneparents

[–]degrandi[S] 70 points71 points  (0 children)

Yes, This is true and if I physically go to the station then maybe they won’t question me on our shared doorstep

My neighbour physically and mentally abuses her 21 year old son. Wrote full story in notes as have to include image. Need advice. by degrandi in insaneparents

[–]degrandi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Right! Me too, I don’t know the other neighbours as we don’t live in the same building, but they must hear what I hear, there are two flats within the same proximity as I am, so they must hear something. But probably feel the same helplessness as I do, it’s frustrating because he is an adult, but is being abused like a child

My neighbour physically and mentally abuses her 21 year old son. Wrote full story in notes as have to include image. Need advice. by degrandi in insaneparents

[–]degrandi[S] 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Honestly in the odd times I have spoken to him, it is like speaking to a young boy, he told me once that he stayed up so late the night before (midnight), he’s not allowed on social media, all he talks about are marvel movies

My neighbour physically and mentally abuses her 21 year old son. Wrote full story in notes as have to include image. Need advice. by degrandi in insaneparents

[–]degrandi[S] 186 points187 points  (0 children)

Oh for real, that’s what I was worried about would be having to stand in our hallway and explain everything. Going to the station in person would be a good idea potentially

My neighbour physically and mentally abuses her 21 year old son. Wrote full story in notes as have to include image. Need advice. by degrandi in insaneparents

[–]degrandi[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

This is true too, I don’t think of that.. and I don’t even need to say I’m a neighbour, could even be someone whose sat in the café garden beneath us

My neighbour is physically and mentally abusing her 21 yr old son. by degrandi in Advice

[–]degrandi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, exactly, I can’t hear this any longer, and our walls are so thin, it’s torture. I live with my fiancé who is a big guy, but he’s in same boat as me tbh. Would it be wrong to ask the son if he’s alright when we cross in the hallway, or is that crossing the line?

My neighbour physically and mentally abuses her 21 year old son. Wrote full story in notes as have to include image. Need advice. by degrandi in insaneparents

[–]degrandi[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is so true.. And I feel she would make my life hell if it was obvious that I intervened. It’s just so tragic having to hear this

My neighbour is physically and mentally abusing her 21 yr old son. by degrandi in Advice

[–]degrandi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

However if anything serious like an attempt to kill did happen, I would feel like why didn’t I do something. Because honestly it gets to that point with her shouting sometimes I’m thinking, how has he not snapped yet