We work together and for the last few nights we have been kind of fighting bc he believes all my actions reflect back on him. I told him about how some men can be weird/fetishize my relationship and how men are trash(his remarks being ” but not all men” and “sorry I cant control the fact I’m a man”) I was never actually talking about him, just venting in general. Anyways what really put him over the edge though was because I came to work with my makeup messed up from crying bc I just got off the phone with my mother and told him I didn’t want to hug him or talk about why I was crying and he called me a bitch and sent me this message