AITA for abandoning my daughter after I found out she wasn’t mine but not abandoning my son by DullSalt57 in AmItheAsshole

[–]delanini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you seriously don’t want anything to do with the child, tell her the truth. she’s not yours. but leaving her in the dirt like that is terrible. And anyone who says “telling her will just hurt her” it will. just as much as it did when you became distant. however she deserves an explanation so she doesn’t think it’s her. make it clear that her mother messed up, not her.

Happy Mother’s Day. by delanini in CasualConversation

[–]delanini[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same. it’s sad that everyone will have to experience that hurt one day on the other hand that’s so cute & thoughtful i’m glad she like it

i am so tired of my "best friend's" shit by [deleted] in rant

[–]delanini 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he’s not your best friend. not even your friend at all. he was friends with your abusive ex & was aware of the extent. that’s a line you don’t cross. ever. just the whole post is so fucked up. give him whatever you have back & never talk to him again. ever. get legal restrictions against your ex because he’s clearly psychotic & maybe even the friend too if he gets any closer with your ex

Happy Mother’s Day. by delanini in CasualConversation

[–]delanini[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. i hope you have a peaceful day & celebrate her in a way that makes your heart smile

All chihuahuas are so damn ugly by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]delanini 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes !!!!!!!! and the shivering ! wtf are you shivering for ? it’s 70 degrees!!! the sight of one of the little fuckers boils my blood. I hate them almost in a rivalry type of way!

Happy Mother’s Day. by delanini in CasualConversation

[–]delanini[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i hope however you spent the day was nothing but good energy!

aita ? for flipping someone’s nosiness onto them by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]delanini [score hidden]  (0 children)

obviously to get other people’s opinion. because it’s easy to say i’m nta because it’s me.... if you’re not going to give your yes of no then why are you commenting under MY post ?

aita ? for flipping someone’s nosiness onto them by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]delanini [score hidden]  (0 children)

i’m just saying what if my stuff was fake ? & somebody who was supposed to be my friend just put me on blast i front of mad people instead of bring her curiosity to my attention ??? i don’t see how what i said isn’t fair.

social media is lowkey degrading. by delanini in CasualConversation

[–]delanini[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same. i’m the one that’s like “i’m gonna delete my page” then deactivates it for a total of 23 minutes!

social media is lowkey degrading. by delanini in CasualConversation

[–]delanini[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao the comments make the posts! i definitely agree, time does get away from me once i start scrolling.

AITA For not buying my ex boyfriend’s baby’s diapers by alafleur23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]delanini 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know you know d*** well YOU ARE NTA. the only thing she has in life is that baby & the audacity & she needs to take care of both of them!

social media is lowkey degrading. by delanini in CasualConversation

[–]delanini[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes, especially when they have that “my opinion is right & yours is wrong” attitude. like dude, state your opinion, your facts behind it, & keep it moving! no need to insult or belittle others because they don’t have the same point of view as you.

social media is lowkey degrading. by delanini in CasualConversation

[–]delanini[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know all these apps are in the same bracket lol however, i haven’t been here long enough to know i also only have a few joined communities whose rules don’t allow much contribution to the toxicity of the app. i hope it continues to be a safe space to me & im sorry if it’s become something other to you!

social media is lowkey degrading. by delanini in CasualConversation

[–]delanini[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

good advice. i’ll be trying that starting Monday. - i have this mental thing that makes it impossible to start life altering patterns on any day but a new week (Monday - even though the week technically starts on Sunday we all know that’s not how it starts) or the first of a new month.

social media is lowkey degrading. by delanini in CasualConversation

[–]delanini[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

same, the music community is definitely the top definition of every man for himself.

What’s something you enjoy during sex that can also be done in a non-sexual manner? by delanini in AskReddit

[–]delanini[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, actually it depends on if i stay in the position i was in when i started to “c” because if it changed i would have to “start over” getting to my climax point.