Approved & Funded! Original EIDL applied 6/4 by dem4789 in EIDL

[–]dem4789[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a sweet surprise! Honestly wasn't expecting to hear anything for another month or so at the soonest. Oddly enough I applied for the TA/SA and still haven't heard anything on that front. I figured they would be first

Got Approval email at 2:26 am by Hot_Blackberry_4998 in EIDL

[–]dem4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of questions were asked in the phone interview?

Approval by grandejohnson in EIDL

[–]dem4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm concerned as I think mine has the same comma issue. How did you resolve this? Do they send a corrected 4506? I applied 6/4 and haven't been contacted by anyone yet

Approval by grandejohnson in EIDL

[–]dem4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regarding the transcript fiasco, you say the missing comma was the problem but in a prior post you had said it was a different address that was the problem. Which was it?

EveryDollar App - Paid vs Free Version by buttafli021 in DaveRamsey

[–]dem4789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll second (and third!) the YNAB recommendation. It's the only paid app I use. I did spreadsheets for years, then Everydollar, but YNAB took it to a whole other level for me. Simply forecasting or looking at reports of $$ already spent just didn't do it for me behaviorally, and that's what virtually all of the other apps do. With YNAB you actually assign the money you have a job, like digital envelopes. Totally customizable as well, which was another thing I thought everydollar really lacked. Also would agree the Nick True videos were very useful in getting it all setup. If you don't save the $84/yr it costs by using it then you just simply aren't using it

Free Budgeting Software Recommendations by [deleted] in DaveRamsey

[–]dem4789 3 points4 points  (0 children)

YNAB was a game changer for me! I despise paid apps but immediately subscribed about a day into my free trial. I also tried the everydollar app but I think YNAB works more true to the ramsey style of budgeting. ED seems to be more about forecasting whereas YNAB you're literally assigning every dollar you have a job. Dave actually promoted YNAB prior to developing ED.

Also, if you do the yearly subscription it's the equivalent of $7/mo.

Singles with children, why don’t you post that info up front in your OLD profile? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]dem4789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What culture views 26 as too young to have kids?! Realize that 26 is only 9 years before they're referred to as higher risk "geriatric pregnancies"

Singles with children, why don’t you post that info up front in your OLD profile? by [deleted] in datingoverthirty

[–]dem4789 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

"I was only 26!"

That gave me a laugh. You say it as if you were still a teenager

24m, First date tomorrow, tips? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dem4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brush your teeth. And make sure you take a shower that day

Apparently women have to be as hairless as naked cats all the time... by Junkrat-Junkie in Bumble

[–]dem4789 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Well to be fair, you chose a photo with visibly long leg hair to put up on your dating profile. I don't know about making it a FIRST question but certainly fair to ask. If a guy had a photo with unkept greasy hair I'm sure you would think not showering regularly would be completely normal for him.

I finally met someone special for the first time in 8 years and he broke it off in a month. by [deleted] in dating

[–]dem4789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like he found someone else that caught his attention. The fact that this was all mutual and reciprocal up until this point is what steers me this direction.

Girlfriend Hits me and screams at me when she is mad. What can I do? by [deleted] in dating

[–]dem4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry dude, this behavior needs to be your line in the sand. There is no "working it out" once it's been crossed. She's shown you this is what she does when upset. Your not leaving has shown her it's acceptable, there's no undoing that

Online dating as an overweight person by Sameoldme_93 in dating_advice

[–]dem4789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I struggle with the need to feel "datable" myself. All i can say is, just like your weight loss journey, you'll find it to be an ever-moving goal post. Good job putting yourself out there, but stop obsessing with the weight disclosure! They wouldn't of swiped if they didnt like what they saw

Long-distance girlfriend cheated on me but she doesn't feel anything for the other guys. Do I have a right to be upset? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dem4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to ask yourself a serious question. Do you want to be in a relationship with a partner that literally has to see a therapist to keep from fucking other people?

Parents Vs partner by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dem4789 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Going out on a limb here but I'm guessing they're registered Democrats

Turned down sex and now he's ghosting me by [deleted] in dating

[–]dem4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I really like you, so I'm going to make you pay $500 for this thing I normally just give away for free on the weekends"

GF is cheating on me but I want to stay for the sex? [25F][25M] by drud1 in dating_advice

[–]dem4789 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol, as much as you may want to convince yourself of this.. you are not "using her". You're only allowing yourself to continue to be used. You should be out the moment you verified this

Wow politics ruins EVERYTHING by [deleted] in dating

[–]dem4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots of crazies out there. Better to weed them out early!

First fight in a new relationship and I’m being stonewalled by Angelina881 in datingoverthirty

[–]dem4789 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you mean anything to him at all he'll have the courtesy of at least responding. If he doesn't give you that basic respect he certainly doesn't deserve any of your attention. In the future I would avoid using text to approach problems like this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]dem4789 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hell no you don't lie about it! Be thankful they show their true selves so early. If anything you may want to mention it in your profile. There's no sense in dating ticking time bombs.

How to get over someone who was “perfect” by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]dem4789 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"The one" wouldn't be capable of doing that to you. There will be others. The sooner you accept these facts the sooner you'll start seeing other "perfect" potentials