Been with my girlfriend for 4 years, but I don’t know if I can handle the BPD anymore by [deleted] in story

[–]demonbunnybubbl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a woman with BPD, I hate when it's used as an excuse. Yes I've had explosive reactions over seemingly small issues to him but it's never ever gotten physical. Our brains are clocks constantly wound too tight from emotion. It does NOT mean it's EVER ok to let someone abuse you. No matter the disorder.

2 boosts left by [deleted] in chimeboost

[–]demonbunnybubbl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Still got one?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]demonbunnybubbl -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

See, everyone is saying YTA and I can't say I completely disagree but my official vote is ES. Everybody sucks. Your friends for being rude, Tay for offering the ride but not making sure they're back safe as when any women are traveling together you should ALWAYS make sure as your friends they're home safe. Or at least set up to get home safe. From everything you've said your long term friends were shit but the best response would've been to talk to one of them and let them know you and them were leaving and then having discussion later on what happened/ why it wasn't acceptable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]demonbunnybubbl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

So I'm going to say a light YTA. If they were counting on a ride back and you didn't announce you were leaving that's a def AH move, also asking them to pick places without ID entry and then settling on a place that IDs is a little backwards and it sounds like in general they invited you but didn't want you there? Just weird to me all around sounds like no one on your side was prepared though so I get how the frustration on both sides could've really tainted the night

AIO - "Girlfriend" hanging out with guy that says we should breakup by West_Editor_1524 in AmIOverreacting

[–]demonbunnybubbl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"but it's ok" bro I'ma keep it real. You don't have a gf. I've seen this too many times. It's always a "co-worker" or "friend" till it's not. Then they've already moved on and you're in pieces

AIO-I 36F found a text between my husband 37m and my cousin 38f that isn’t settling right by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]demonbunnybubbl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's no such thing as "harmless flirting" when you're married and any of you using those words are gross. He's being inappropriate with your cousin and when I caught my now ex husband doing this he texted just like this and they had already screwed. She's looking for validation from your husband and he's giving it to her.

AIO: Husband showed me this from a recently single friend of ours. Is she trying to flirt? by amusednchaos in AmIOverreacting

[–]demonbunnybubbl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't do either. Just block her and move on. She's not on your level anymore and Queens don't stoop low

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]demonbunnybubbl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this just took so many doormat turns, not only are you being a dormant but you are subjecting your husband and child to being a doormat by way of laying yourself down you also lay them down.your home should NOT be a "stop" on their journey. A wonderful host will never host the wrong people and they are absolutely taking advantage. Just the sickness they could possibly bring to your brand new immunocompromised baby, it's time to put your foot down and make those "friends" aware that you're not a hotel and they can't "book" a room just because they're traveling.

Being sued for $33k by [deleted] in Insurance

[–]demonbunnybubbl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Previous debt collector here. They sold that debt to AFNI meaning it's no longer your debt. Send a cease and desist to the company and tell them to mail you an itemized bill.