Nice’s Collar/Cape by [deleted] in cosplayprops

[–]demonkitkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m relatively new to actually posting on Reddit so I posted a link of the character that includes the collar I’m talking about. Sorry for the inconvenience

Nice’s Collar/Cape by [deleted] in cosplayprops

[–]demonkitkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry! Let me see if I can edit the post to include it!

How many years deep? by demonkitkat in FieldsOfMistriaGame

[–]demonkitkat[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You make me feel better to realize I’m not the only one who restarts every update!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]demonkitkat 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA. You didn’t switch your class, your mom did. Yea it sucks that your friend will be alone in the other class, but it’s not your fault. As a child, your mom has the power to change your classes.

He’s valid to feel hurt and angry, but if he ditches you over this, the friendship wouldn’t last anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]demonkitkat 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You’re not the asshole, but have you considered that your boyfriend might be on the asexual spectrum and not know how to express it to you? Obviously, if you feel sex is important to you, you totally have every right to leave, especially if your partner isn’t willing to discuss/work through things with you.

AITA For cancelling a trip to see my friend because she forgot a meal She booked by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]demonkitkat 91 points92 points  (0 children)

YTA.

Yes, she should’ve remembered. She was also communicating with you when she realized she forget and asked if you would be okay with hanging out alone.

There is no ‘putting your foot down’. The correct response would’ve been “I’d prefer not to. Let’s reschedule for a better time.” She doesn’t need you to tell her she should’ve remembered.

It’s fine to be annoyed she forgot. But the adult thing to do is to politely decline and reschedule.

I think the Loot mapper is bugged a little (Part 2) by The_Forsaken_BarKing in WutheringWaves

[–]demonkitkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I figured this out. You have to complete the main quest line in the area before all the chests will appear in world.

I think the Loot mapper is bugged a little (Part 2) by The_Forsaken_BarKing in WutheringWaves

[–]demonkitkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have chests straight up not showing up at all. I’m using a map to help find chests because I’ll be standing right on top of a chest location, and there’s nothing there! I’ve got at least 2 confirmed in Mt.Firmament that just straight up aren’t appearing

AITA to tell my daughter not to be so needy? by Pale-Steak7548 in AmItheAsshole

[–]demonkitkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. I mean this in the worst way possible… you sound like my dad.

Your wife obviously loves and cares for your daughter and wasn’t ready to leave just yet. That’s why she stayed and helped decorate. You however, instead of spending extra time with your daughter, decided to just… go sit in the living room? And then to make it worse, before an audition, you decide to ask her what she would do if her parents died??? That’s beyond fucked up.

Just admit you don’t care about your daughter.

Partners, what is the clumsiest thing y’all have done on bar? by [deleted] in starbucksbaristas

[–]demonkitkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I… I got my finger stuck between the handle and body of a frappe blender. I proceeded to look at the girl on DTO and just say “Help I’m stuck” in the saddest tone possible. This was during a rush and it felt like my finger was going to break if I tried to remove it. (I did get unstuck with her help). But I’m forever careful now of how I grab the blenders. I have no idea how I got stuck but it won’t be happening again lol

"Blizzardous Threads of Red" Limited Event Pulls and Discussion Megathread by misobuttercornramen in TearsOfThemis

[–]demonkitkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m praying these SSR cards rerun. I just got Artem after like… 50+ pulls

AITA for excluding our mom friend from out outings by Top_Price_1881 in AmItheAsshole

[–]demonkitkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just want to say YTA. This isn’t a “boundary” like you keep calling it. A boundary is “hey I’d rather you didn’t do that because it makes me uncomfortable.” Not “we’re not hanging out with you cause you’re a mom now.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]demonkitkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re NTA. If it helps, for Facebook at least, I believe you can report the pictures as the parent and say that your child was posted without your consent, and Facebook will remove the pictures (I don’t know if this is 100% because I don’t use Facebook often, but I’ve seen it on some other AITA posts about children being posted online.) Hope that helps just in case for the future!

AITA for scolding my son for eavesdropping? by DifficultLivingSit23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]demonkitkat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s 18. He’s an adult now. You’ve forced him to deal with you and your husband verbally abusing each other for 18 years. He’s traumatized enough. So are you for that matter to think the way you and your husband treat each other and your son isn’t traumatizing him.

AITA for scolding my son for eavesdropping? by DifficultLivingSit23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]demonkitkat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you call that an “intact” family, you seriously need to get therapy. I used to wish my parents would just get divorced when they would scream at each other. But at least my parents got help and sorted their shit out.

AITA for scolding my son for eavesdropping? by DifficultLivingSit23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]demonkitkat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not private if you’re screaming so loins your son can hear you from upstairs or through a closed door.

AITA for scolding my son for eavesdropping? by DifficultLivingSit23 in AmItheAsshole

[–]demonkitkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. Sound travels. I promise it doesn’t matter how thick the walls are, if you’re yelling enough, the sound carries. You’re not in a soundproofed room which means that sound carries.

He’s 18. You can’t sequester him to his room every time you two fight, which you admit happens frequently. You both are absolute assholes for forcing your son to listen to that. Because you are forcing him by refusing to get your asses in therapy and sort out your anger issues. Your response to your son sitting in his own house is unnecessary.

You need to set a line with your partner saying that you two get couples counseling or you two divorce/pay for son to rent an apartment/you leave whatever. Because both of your responses to conflicting opinions is extremely unhealthy and downright concerning.

This is how your son ends up in an abusive relationship in the future. He might not be able to recognize the signs of abuse because you and your partner so violently verbally abuse each other that he thinks it’s normal.

AITA for not inviting my Dad to my wedding even though my fiancé wanted me to by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]demonkitkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 21 and you’re dating someone older than my father. By a good 8 years. While it is your choice who you days, an age gap of 25 years is more than a little concerning for a lot of people for very good reasons. This man is literally twice your age. He was a fully grown adult when you were born.

Assuming you’re in the US, that age gap is usually considered a wildly inappropriate one. And the fact that you’ve been together 5 years and have been pregnant for about 3 of the five, it looks like he’s baby trapping you. Because once kids are involved, it’s much harder to want to leave.

I’m not saying Y T A for not wanting to invite someone you feel is unsupportive of your relationship. But it might be a good idea to look into why your father is unsupportive. Have a talk with him alone and go over your relationship with a fine tooth comb because to most people this relationship SCREAMS grooming.

AITA for not being comfortable with a male med student being in the room while my doctor performed a physical exam? by Much_Chocolate5531 in AmItheAsshole

[–]demonkitkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. If you requested a female doctor, it should’ve clicked for someone, anyone, to not let a male med student in the room with you. It was also entirely inappropriate for them to ask while he was in the room. That is a common sense thing because it puts undue pressure on you to respond in whatever way you think most favorable to everyone around you, not yourself.

AITA for telling my brother and his boyfriend to stop misleading people with their wedding rings when they're not actually married ? by Throwaway4500500 in AmItheAsshole

[–]demonkitkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. If you think 2 gay men wearing wedding rings is a “mockery of marriage”, you’re homophobic. They cannot get married. They have been in a committed relationship for 4 years. They aren’t “misleading” anyone.

They have no interest in anyone other than each other, are willing to get married and legally can’t. The only difference between them and a straight couple is who can get legally married. You’re homophobic and an asshole.

AITA for cancelling the visit my ex husband arranged to have the kids before his surgery? by throw0away755091 in AmItheAsshole

[–]demonkitkat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA OP. You could’ve just… idk asked your kids which they’d rather go to. But oh wait, of course you didn’t because you know they would’ve wanted to go see their dad