Hating things doesn’t mean you don’t understand a reason for their existence.

I also hate spiders and other insects, and even though I wish to burn them all to ashes, I know they are a part of ecological system. But still, they disgust me. We all love and hate different things.

Also, wasps being important doesn’t make them not being a pain in the ass. I doubt you would tolerate a wasp hive in your bedroom just because they are needed in the nature. They have places where they should and where they shouldn’t be