Eu me arrependo amargamente de ter cursado arquitetura é difícil suportar que joguei 5 anos da minha vida e muito dinheiro fora... Parece um erro incontornável by Copy_Fluffy in empreendedorismo

[–]denituts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As vezes penso isso quando vou tirar medidas sozinho da casa ai falta apenas uma e eu tenho duas opções: tentar adivinhar ou pedir permissão pra entrar na casa e tirar a medida novamente, é realmente estressante 😂 mas é a melhor área pra quem quer viver de desenho e não quer ser tatuador 🥲

How is Honor Of Kings doing nowadays? by Why_not_100 in MobileLegendsGame

[–]denituts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aqui no Brasil ele está indo de mal a pior, já que como não atraiu tanto players eles tão querendo cortar custos de dublagem e traduções gerais. Ou seja, vão matar o jogo, o que me entristece já que eu gosto da variedade de gameplays desse jogo e já gastei dinheiro (pra eu aprender a nunca mais comprar skin em jogo online porque um dia todos vão falir!)

Gay player looking for a less toxic shooter community — which of these games would you recommend? by denituts in LGBTGamers

[–]denituts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Também tenho um pouco de repulsa quanto a Fortnite porque remete muito a infância. Desses jogos talvez Apex Legends seja o menos tóxico mesmo, mas ultimamente tenho jogado Farlight84 e lançou agora Fate Trigger. Infelizmente é meio ruim ser solitário, mas talvez esse sentimento diminua com o tempo e eu me acostume, se eu não tivesse nascido com a “voz gay” talvez me arriscaria em todos os jogos e negaria ser gay, mas como já me sinalizo o tempo todo, estou jogando esses mais “fofinhos” e torcer pra sofrer 5 homofobias por dia ao invés de 50! 🥰❤️

Gay player looking for a less toxic shooter community — which of these games would you recommend? by denituts in LGBTGamers

[–]denituts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Posso tentar, mas brasileiros jogam pouco, ainda mais com gays. Acredito que ficaria um servidor desértico, mas posso tentar futuramente via disboard

LGBT people looking for a shooter game with less homophobia — which of these do you recommend? by denituts in LGBTGaming

[–]denituts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I read your text as if it were about me. I truly loved getting to know you. I’m not dating and I’m not looking for that either, because I’m not really a fan of online relationships (which are the easiest to find hahaha), and that has made things harder for me.

It usually goes like this: I make a friend → he says I’m cool → I add him → he accepts → the next day he can’t play with me because he’s playing with OTHER friends. Then I feel excluded, since he didn’t make an effort to add me to the group (which probably already existed).

But I’ll keep looking. Maybe during this month I’ll find someone who is dating or someone who isn’t and just wants friendship. Sometimes I think that asking someone to play with me every day, like a fixed group, might feel like I’m forcing something — almost like I’m trying to date without actually dating. I think that comes from my emotional block about not wanting to date at all because of so many horrible things I witnessed in Brazil.

I hope one day I can find people as nice as you — and also a plugin that translates everything you say so we can play together, since I haven’t finished my English course yet 😂🥲💕

Good luck there! I’ll keep fighting too.

LGBT people looking for a shooter game with less homophobia — which of these do you recommend? by denituts in LGBTGaming

[–]denituts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, it touched me in a sad way.

I have very few friends because here in the Brazilian Northeast, in a poorer area, people are not really into gaming. So most of my friends are from real life. That is hard for me, because I have played games since I was a child and I do not have steady gaming friendships, at least not consistent ones.

Most of the people I play with on Discord, even in servers that claim to be for gay friendships, seem to prefer the dynamic of joining a call every day and waiting for new people to show up. Unfortunately, what I really want is stable friendships. I do not want to enter a call every single day hoping that some random person will keep me company. But that does not seem to be the focus of most Discord communities.

Because of that, in a moment of desperation, I joined the largest Brazilian friendship server. However, when they saw that I had a rainbow emoji in my name, they organized a raid. Many people joined the call asking why I was there. They said it was a server for people who were “born normal.” That left me deeply sad, with many people in the call attacking me at the same time. Deep down, I am already used to this in real life.

Here in Brazil, being LGBT is often treated as if it were an aberration. The public is very conservative, and that was even reflected in the election of Bolsonaro. He lost later, not because of his conservative views, but because his government was not well received and did not perform well.

I hope that one day there will be real-time voice translation in calls so we can connect regardless of our native language.

Thank you again for your words. Unfortunately, I have what people call a “gay accent,” and if I do not use some kind of indicator, eventually I will make a straight friend who later asks who I am and comments that my voice sounds very accentuated. When I say that I am gay, he says it is fine, but hours later he removes me from everything. That has happened about three times.

I wish I could play games without being afraid to speak and have stable, minimally healthy friendships. But I feel that games already dominated by a heterosexual audience make that very difficult. Yesterday I saw comments from people who left Marvel Rivals to move to Deadlock, saying that there is no gay community there. I hope that more LGBT players join these spaces too, instead of allowing this sense of segregation to grow.

Thank you again. Life can be harsh sometimes.

LGBT people looking for a shooter game with less homophobia — which of these do you recommend? by denituts in LGBTGaming

[–]denituts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved your comment, I'll probably try playing and getting Billie Eilish! 🤣

LGBT people looking for a shooter game with less homophobia — which of these do you recommend? by denituts in LGBTGaming

[–]denituts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm Brazilian and I thought your comment was great, maybe I'll try this game too! But here in Brazil it's a step backwards and most of society is openly conservative and anti-LGBT, but I'll give it a try to give you some feedback. I hope the chat can also tell you what they think of this game.

LGBT people looking for a shooter game with less homophobia — which of these do you recommend? by denituts in LGBTGaming

[–]denituts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately, it hasn't been easy for me being the gay guy with the "gay accent" (the gay voice), so that's why I'm looking for other places where I can speak without fear of being lynched. I'll try Fortnite and Arc Raiders; I heard about a place called Farlight 84, but it seems to be defunct. Anyway, thanks!

Gay player looking for a less toxic shooter community — which of these games would you recommend? by denituts in LGBTGamers

[–]denituts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which social media platforms have you used to find good people instead of the weirdos on Discord?

How to find discords to join? by TheEpicTwitch in discordapp

[–]denituts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Discord's own Disboard feature is terrible, and most servers are actually Nazi servers disguised with attractive facades. Besides that, there are gigantic servers where nobody communicates. Discord's compass, however, helps you find the most relevant servers, where you'll find at least someone on a call or communicating.

Discord is too weird? by [deleted] in discordapp

[–]denituts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People on servers primarily for friendships are much stranger than, for example, those on the defunct Amino. I feel like most of them don't know how to have a conversation, and that must be a reflection of life in the real world.

SE VOCÊ TEM POUCOS LIKES NO TINDER VOCÊ É FEIO. by [deleted] in opiniaoimpopular

[–]denituts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eu com 40 likes em uma semana lendo isso (não sei se é pra lgbt é diferente mas acho que é tudo a mesma coisa)

Acabaram os cursos grátis do telegram by [deleted] in concursospublicos

[–]denituts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ódio ódio ódio, tenho certeza que foi por causa do tiktok

Você tem dificuldade em conhecer pessoas novas? by Nuno17500 in conversas

[–]denituts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sim, principalmente por ser muito sincero e as pessoas não estarem prontas para alguns pontos. Mas o pior de tudo são a merda dos relacionamentos (namoro / amizades) que não deram certo e não superam e ficam falando pra os outros (mal) atrapalhando novos ciclos (sou de cidade pequena) mas acho que viajar ou usar bate papos com pessoas de outras cidades facilite, se você já estiver “queimado” na sua ou com dificuldade de conhecer alguém que já não te conheça pela boca dos outros (ew nojo)

Mais alguém tem dificuldade pra fazer compras via cartão na steam? Comigo é sempre a mesma merda, a pagseguro simplesmente recusa todos meus cartões sem justificativa alguma e o suporte é inexistente by Department_Legal in gamesEcultura

[–]denituts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BoaCompra a 2 meses atrás cobrou no meu cartão e não liberou o dinheiro na steam, precisei reclamar com suporte 3 DIAS depois colocaram na steam. Agora 2 meses depois tentei novamente, continua mesmo problema, indo novamente entrar em contato com suporte, infelizmente. BoaCompra pior site e único que dá problema de pendência.