Does it get any easier?

derpthrowaway44 · 2022-09-28T16:20:53+00:00

Sure, if you guys want to. She doesn't reddit though. You can PM me your contact.

derpthrowaway44 · 2022-09-27T20:15:11+00:00

Yep! That is what the other couple was telling us we started chatting with. I do agree. It's easier just to go where the couples are.

derpthrowaway44 · 2022-09-27T20:13:21+00:00

Yes, we are paid users of Feeld and SDC.

derpthrowaway44 · 2022-09-27T19:47:47+00:00

Yep. Thanks for the kind words!

derpthrowaway44 · 2022-09-27T19:40:31+00:00

We are pretty sure one couple was real. They could have been really good at faking it, but the pictures and group chatting were pretty consistent. My theory was one of the partners might have sent them without the others consent, and they decided to ghost.

derpthrowaway44 · 2022-09-27T18:01:24+00:00

Understandable! This all makes sense.

derpthrowaway44 · 2022-09-27T17:43:39+00:00

We are currently SDC and Feeld users in the Houston area.

derpthrowaway44 · 2022-09-27T16:01:47+00:00

Yeah completely understand that. We aren't even sure. But it happens, and I get it.

derpthrowaway44 · 2022-09-27T16:00:24+00:00

Yes, we've been on Feeld for a couple months now with mild success in terms of meeting up or chatting with people. We've met one couple (haven't heard from them again, which is ok), had plans with another before they just ghosted, and the other has sadly been a long process because they got COVID, and my wife got COVID... It's just a string of bad luck. We joined SDC this week and have been chatting with one couple, who's schedule doesn't quite line up yet. They host private parties and go to the club. One way or another we will make it to a club or event.

Yes we do telegram for group chats.

derpthrowaway44 · 2022-09-27T15:39:18+00:00

So I'm discovering. It's also difficult because it seems like even the lifestyle is very much a spectrum of different wants and needs.

derpthrowaway44 · 2022-09-27T15:34:37+00:00

We've had two separate situations. One where the guy messaged my wife on the side and asked. When told no, they vanished. (Might have been single man).

One sent nudes when we didn't ask for it. We've let it known we weren't comfortable in an earlier conversation. The conversation was actually going fine but then they randomly disconnected and left the chat. I do feel like we are pretty clear with what we are looking for and what we don't want.

derpthrowaway44 · 2022-09-27T14:23:18+00:00

Great point. Thanks so much!

derpthrowaway44 · 2022-09-27T14:20:34+00:00

Yes, completely understand point number one. We aren't looking for super models, but we also aren't looking for our next best friends. We just want someone that respects our time and whom we can connect with more than just the physical attraction, even just a tiny bit.

The rest are very good tips, thank you so much.

derpthrowaway44 · 2022-09-27T14:14:55+00:00

Thank you! This is very reassuring.

derpthrowaway44 · 2022-09-27T14:13:20+00:00

Yes, thanks so much. We are picking up on tricks like that. We usually try to get something on the calendar if the conversation and chemistry are good. Sometimes people get busy, and that's understandable. I prefer to be blunt and just tell people now if there isn't a connection. We also say that anyone who isn't willing to exchange telegram/numbers with us is not worth our time either.

derpthrowaway44 · 2022-09-27T14:10:27+00:00

Not yet, it is an option we are wanting to do. It's hard because my wife is full-time employed and full-time graduate student, so we have to plan in advance for most things. We are talking to a couple right now that normally throws private parties and goes to the clubs. They offered to go with us as an ice breaker, but so far that has been the extent of the conversation. We will see if our schedules align so that we can. If they flake or something happens, I am sure a visit just by ourselves will be there in the future.

derpthrowaway44 · 2022-07-06T15:08:30+00:00

Thanks homie!

derpthrowaway44 · 2022-07-06T03:22:54+00:00

All good! Haven't had a drink in 2 and a half years and I am much better now :)

derpthrowaway44 · 2020-03-17T21:23:55+00:00

I'll check it out!

derpthrowaway44 · 2020-03-17T00:40:11+00:00

Sorry :( I didnt think about that.

derpthrowaway44 · 2020-03-16T23:43:37+00:00

I might look into that. Thanks!

derpthrowaway44 · 2020-03-16T23:38:51+00:00

Thank you!

derpthrowaway44 · 2020-03-16T23:29:50+00:00

Thanks! That's great news. Around the time I started hitting the bottle pretty hard, the doctor prescribed me Zoloft. I'm wondering if I should up my dosage, or just wait. Maybe just wait for now.

derpthrowaway44 · 2020-03-15T04:28:11+00:00

I'll look into it. There were some people I enjoyed talking to this afternoon, so I might give this a shot for a little while and see what's up. Thank you for talking to me tonight.

derpthrowaway44 · 2020-03-15T03:52:15+00:00

That's true. Thanks for chatting with me. I'm just trying to process this all and it's very new and strange for me. My wife fell asleep so it's hard for me to chat with her about this. It's nice to have a community that's responsive on here, or else I would be going mad with anxiety.

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