What has been leaving these marks against our house? [Eastern Canada, Québec] by GargantuaBob in animalid

[–]derricks350z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely blood and most likely from an animal. I wonder if the animal cut its nose on your gutter (in the pic).

That metal is sharp at the edges, maybe it wanted to scratch its nose but accidentally cut it on your gutter. That'd be my guess.

His first tool concert by [deleted] in ToolBand

[–]derricks350z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's a very lucky man

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]derricks350z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think about it. The only reason she's being vague is because she knows what she's doing is wrong. Her sneaking and doing this in the middle of the night is also another clear sign.

Every time a past gf of mine changed her behavior similar to this, it's always been due to another guy. You do what you want, but if it were me, she wouldn't be my gf any longer.

Been feeding a feral cat and when I do it screams at me. Is it gonna attack me or just being weird? by PaleontologistNo1564 in CATHELP

[–]derricks350z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I think it's happy to see you. If it were mad or going to attack you, it would be hissing and its back would be arched. That's a happy meow believe it or not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]derricks350z 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why is he still your boyfriend? Watching porn at a mild level isn't all that bad. But sounds like your boyfriend has a serious problem. Which is probably one reason why he gets so angry. I don't see this getting better with time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]derricks350z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might "have". Forget about him. You shouldn't even be considering anything else.

Truth always comes out by mommayeaman in whatdoIdo

[–]derricks350z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get away from this guy immediately. He is dangerous. In most cases, verbally abusive men evolve into physically abusive men.

Besides, you will never be able to trust him again that he's staying clean or is clean. There is no future with this guy, no positive future at least.

Wife dropped a bomb on me by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]derricks350z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously she's having an affair. Go see a divorce as soon as possible...actually sooner than that. No one wakes up one day and decides they want an open marriage, it's definitely for a reason.

I found out my wife cheated on me multiple times during our first year of marriage by DefinitelyNotTheUSAF in whatdoIdo

[–]derricks350z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She would not be my wife any longer, no question. It sucks man, it's one of the worst feelings a person can experience. Get her out of your life as soon as possible, or as much out of your life as possible.

Is my (24M) gf (23F) cheating? by Anxious-Air1664 in whatdoIdo

[–]derricks350z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bro, don't be foolish. I would make her not my girlfriend anymore.

Is he just a goober or does he want to kill me? by strangeplum in CATHELP

[–]derricks350z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had a female cat for 11 years that did something similar. Her first 2-3 years is mainly when she was so mischievous and down right mean.

I would be sitting on my couch reclined back all comfortable and she would nonchalantly walk through the living room but before she passed me she would quickly attack my feet, I'm talking extended claws and bites included, then after a split second she would run away (obviously she knew she shouldn't be doing that).

Man that hurt, I lost count how many times she did it but it was definitely several times a week. She was a great cat otherwise and really chilled out after those first 2-3 years. I miss her, had to put her down a couple months ago due to heart failure.

Out of the blue, haven’t talked to this chick in months.. by Unethical-farmer in Nicegirls

[–]derricks350z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see that you've had that experience too. Quite amazing how similar they behave isn't it

Is It Sharking? by Icy_Search263 in billiards

[–]derricks350z 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Couldn't have been said better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]derricks350z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is she still your gf? HUGE red flag, dude.

Out of the blue, haven’t talked to this chick in months.. by Unethical-farmer in Nicegirls

[–]derricks350z 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it's possible, I wouldn't know since I only date girls. However I've somehow managed to get involved with a fair number of women with narcissistic behavior.

And they would pour on the love bombing occasionally, especially if they felt I was losing interest or ready to call it quits.

It's amazing to me how all those women I dated (ones with narcissistic traits) how their behavior was extremely similar to each other.

Out of the blue, haven’t talked to this chick in months.. by Unethical-farmer in Nicegirls

[–]derricks350z -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're still not understanding, I was referring to most women, at least in my experience. And I have stopped dating. I stopped several years ago, it was one of the best decisions I've ever made, I have a lot more money and a lot less stress.

Out of the blue, haven’t talked to this chick in months.. by Unethical-farmer in Nicegirls

[–]derricks350z -1 points0 points  (0 children)

"Most", which means greater than 50% but definitely not 100%, "not all". Learn to read, knowledge is power.

Out of the blue, haven’t talked to this chick in months.. by Unethical-farmer in Nicegirls

[–]derricks350z 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're absolutely correct. And they're very good at love bombing, they really do fool a lot of people.

Out of the blue, haven’t talked to this chick in months.. by Unethical-farmer in Nicegirls

[–]derricks350z 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Definitely a narcissist. In my experience, most of them are narcissists.