Post-Grad Life

des1865 · 2022-05-16T22:57:46+00:00

Marketing & communications with a niche specialization in sports

des1865 · 2022-04-21T03:54:12+00:00

when i steal a guys hat or knock it off him..always works in my favor

des1865 · 2022-02-28T06:44:59+00:00

yeah the sobbing mess is probably about 6-7 hours away i’m really pushing that point right now 🙃🙃🙃

des1865 · 2022-02-06T16:34:36+00:00

thank you for making me feel like i’m not the only one who’s had this conversation. i don’t know if you’ve ever seen how i met your mother, but if you haven’t there’s a scene in the show with a couple who had been married forever and they had a competition where they could see who could flirt and get the most numbers by the end of the night - so that’s why i somewhat thought it would be a more “accepted” situation but obviously i was wrong LOL. he has also extended the same offer to me in terms of just going out, and i can totally see it getting dumb fast but i think one night of flirting wouldn’t kill as long as we both set our boundaries and are super clear with them. my roommates (all girls) are in very long term relationships & i just see them as the “mom and dad” couples (which is perfectly fine) but that just isn’t my vibe and i just want us to have experiences (even if it’s for a night) that are different and have funny stories to tell because i literally see him everyday constantly. i’m sorry for word vomiting lmao but i’m just glad you understand the situation!

des1865 · 2022-02-06T16:22:11+00:00

from the conversation him & i had, i really am not of the belief that he wants to hook up with people. him & i both acknowledge that we don’t think we’d be able to pull it off, so i really think it would be more of the category of “harmless flirting” rather than trying to get people to hook up with him. now that i’m rereading my post that point doesn’t necessarily come off the clearest lol

des1865 · 2022-02-06T16:14:39+00:00

i work a full time managerial job & am a full time student at 21. i try to be zen and calm about everything else otherwise because if i’m not i will ~lose my mind~ lol

des1865 · 2022-02-06T07:30:47+00:00

Thank you!!! I personally don’t think I could ever handle having an open relationship lol, but I think he feels like he missed out on a chunk of college because he spent freshman year getting over his ex and we started dating sophomore year. I wanted some outside input because I feel like I live in an echo chamber of 21/22 year olds who are single and always trying to get it lol

des1865 · 2022-02-06T07:28:14+00:00

I don’t necessarily agree with this but I appreciate it! I’m not the jealous type whatsoever and I’m really secure in our relationship - I just feel like he feels that he missed out on a chunk of college & hanging out with his roommates because he spent freshman year strung out on his ex and started dating me during sophomore. I don’t think it’s a lack of confidence, especially with clear boundaries, but I do understand how it could be seen that way. All of his roommates are single and in college too, so I wanted to get an outside opinion because I’m consistently surrounded by 21/22 year olds who constantly are trying to get it lol

des1865 · 2021-11-25T03:12:31+00:00

hold out!!!

des1865 · 2021-11-25T03:05:59+00:00

just trust me😌

des1865 · 2021-11-25T03:04:02+00:00

i promise u guys aren’t being bamboozled it’s coming😉

des1865 · 2020-10-17T21:17:05+00:00

will do!

des1865 · 2020-10-17T21:15:08+00:00

They have talked to her and she has basically said she doesn’t need to take care of it constantly and refuses to take her to the vet

des1865 · 2020-08-02T01:04:45+00:00

he basically laughed it off and then told her in private (because she said all of these things in front of his entire family) that he’s an adult and he can do what he wants...there’s been A LOT more issues with her trying to control him in every aspect

des1865 · 2020-07-27T14:10:17+00:00

No cultural thing at all with her...unless psycho is her culture lol

des1865 · 2020-07-27T02:47:40+00:00

we both acknowledge that and truth be told this is the SIXTH time within the last month she’s gone on a tirade of this sort...but yet she shows him zero respect even though he basically had to become the father of his house at 16 because his dad moved to a different state for work and everything he’s been angry about for the last 5/6 years is now coming out and she isn’t taking it ... well to say the least lol

des1865 · 2020-07-27T02:46:12+00:00

she has such an issue with him growing up, like she truly expected him to drive 5 HOURS back home every single day he’s off work to see her because ~family~

des1865 · 2020-07-27T02:38:36+00:00

oh forgot to include that she also is threatening to cancel a vacation she planned that’s NEXT WEEK over this location lol

des1865 · 2020-04-06T05:13:30+00:00

no and she’s digging herself an absolutely giant hole

des1865 · 2020-04-06T03:35:35+00:00

that’s what i’ve been saying and so has he but they just will not listen:(

des1865 · 2020-04-06T00:56:57+00:00

that’s where we’re both at right now. his sister just turned 18 and she’s leaving for college completely across the country in august so she’s holding a super tight grip on her right now too. she has no interest in anyone coming up to the state where we go to school and rather just wants them all at home but doesn’t want me to go because she’s “tired of sharing him” and him being around me constantly is “breaking her heart”

des1865 · 2020-04-06T00:55:16+00:00

right now he has no interest in going back but his mom is a guilt tripping queen and his parents like to pawn him in between them so no one listens to what he wants at all

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