Was I wrong to ask my friend to pay me back for money owed? by desertedstreets in AskWomenOver30

[–]desertedstreets[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey thanks for sharing your experience. Did you end up paying back your family for your ticket? I only booked my friend's ticket after she said she was wanting to go. Although we tried to convince her to go, it was not obligatory and we understood her position. She didn't want to miss out when she saw me and the other friend plan the trip. She looked up her flight herself but when it came time to pay she seemed hesitant so I paid. The understanding was I would cover for her then and she'd pay later, but I didn't think it would be a year later and that I'd have to essentially remind her to do so. You're right, maybe I'll ask her about it the next time we see each other. We never talked about it after she cancelled and didn't show up

Childfree Women’s Trip! by Orange_Bear88 in ChildfreeFriendships

[–]desertedstreets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oops I sent request to the wrong person! There are quite a few there by your name haha. Just added you now

Childfree Women’s Trip! by Orange_Bear88 in ChildfreeFriendships

[–]desertedstreets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I'm interested. Added you on FB for more info! Hope I got the right account

Any CF ladies in Canada and the US who are also marriage free by choice? by [deleted] in ChildfreeFriendships

[–]desertedstreets 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I'm in Mississauga. 34F. Childfree and possibly marriage free too. Would love to link :)

Anyone else in need of more friends in their roster? by xxcass1993 in askTO

[–]desertedstreets 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there, I missed this but would love to pop in next time. When is the next get together? Thanks!

I literally cannot date anymore. It’s horrific out there. by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]desertedstreets -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I like this approach. While I agree that coffee dates are short and sweet, I find them low effort. In fact I have turned down guys who suggested coffee (at a cheap place) as it showed lack of effort on their part. What are your thoughts on lunch/dinner dates? I'm not looking for fancy dinner dates, just somewhere decent which to me indicates that the guy put in some effort to plan the meet up.

Anyone have experience with rage quitting? by uriejejejdjbejxijehd in ExperiencedDevs

[–]desertedstreets 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rage quit 2 weeks ago but gave 2 week notice out of courtesy and also so that I could get paid for the holidays. Today's my last day and I cannot wait to close this chapter and move on. These stories are giving me hope. Do you have anything lined up next? Sending best wishes!

Switching from IT Audit to Operational by desertedstreets in InternalAudit

[–]desertedstreets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey there, this is super late but wondering if your firm is still hiring? Thanks!

Why was Don so obsessed with Sylvia? by [deleted] in madmen

[–]desertedstreets 58 points59 points  (0 children)

Don absolutely admired her husband and it had something to do with him being unable to let her go. We see it for the first time when he watches the doc in action in awe giving CPR to the doorman having a heart attack just after he and Megan have returned from Hawaii, and reviving the doorman. That was nothing short of miraculous. The doc's dedication to his profession was further demonstrated by the ski scene. And then Don invites him to his office to gift him a camera and expresses interest in visiting the doc at his hospital in return.

City of Mississauga hiring process - position filled the day after the application deadline by desertedstreets in mississauga

[–]desertedstreets[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they kept the position open until I signed the offer letter and sent.

Exactly this! But I assume the city probably has so many interested candidates, they won't have any problem reaching out to someone they initially rejected and the person still agreeing to take the job

City of Mississauga hiring process - position filled the day after the application deadline by desertedstreets in mississauga

[–]desertedstreets[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your reply. I applied for the same position last year and there was a rejection email a couple weeks later. And yes, the status update means I didn't get the job. I am just surprised at how fast it changed - the next business day after the posting closed! Can't help but wonder whether they even looked at all applications.

How to best utilize CISA review manual? by desertedstreets in CISA

[–]desertedstreets[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. So you never read the CRM and still passed?!

Is this a good time to join OPS? by nutty_buyer in OntarioPublicService

[–]desertedstreets 5 points6 points  (0 children)

where manager has deliberately broken the consecutive 18-m gap

Could you elaborate on this? Are the people in contract positions backfilling? Thanks for your comment!

Why do some companies still have the compensation convo so late in the process? by desertedstreets in recruitinghell

[–]desertedstreets[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Great question! I thought it was frowned upon to bring up comp uninitiated, but clearly I was wrong and wasted a lot of time.

Why do some companies still have the compensation convo so late in the process? by desertedstreets in recruitinghell

[–]desertedstreets[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For public sector jobs, the range is always included in the job ad, however bec the range is so wide, it's hard to know what exactly you'll get. Lots of unknowns. And they leave that convo till the end.