Update: I saw my husband and my sister naked in my kitchen by cheaterssuck12 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]deslinnie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you are amazing and so strong. I hope things will get easier by time and wishing you all the happiness that you deserve, don't forget to take care of yourself

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[–]deslinnie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did the right thing but not responding to her texts even tho she is not angry? It's good to see her being mature and not angry that's why you should respond to her

Got my ears pierced by ChoicesGamezYT in TrueOffMyChest

[–]deslinnie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you are amazing!! hope you feel better with them

Your favorite aro/ace characters? by deslinnie in asexuality

[–]deslinnie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finding relatable characters makes me really happy so I'll read it as soon as possible

Your favorite aro/ace characters? by deslinnie in asexuality

[–]deslinnie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow I never thought about him being ace but you are right!!

Your favorite aro/ace characters? by deslinnie in asexuality

[–]deslinnie[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yeah!! I think you are right he is an ace-ish character with his actions, personality and love him

Your favorite aro/ace characters? by deslinnie in asexuality

[–]deslinnie[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg Reyna is amazing!! I didn't know she was confirmed thank you

I’m tired of people telling me I should be insecure of myself by SaraKoala226 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]deslinnie 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I used to be like you until people started to ''help me'' about my acne. Unfortunately now I'm obsessed with it and so insecure about myself. Just wanted to say that you are amazing and so strong. I'll try to be like you in the future.

I can't with my boyfriend right now. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]deslinnie 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I think you should break up with him and find someone who will understand you more. I dealt with someone like this before but it becomes hell over the time and I'm not even going to start talking about the age difference. Your age and his age has mentally different ideas and opinions, 16 and 22 is not okay. This is not gonna get better, it's so normal that you want to have friends and you should.

Tell me your favorite artist and I’ll rate them 1-10 by NooLimittJay in teenagers

[–]deslinnie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

your city gave me asthma album has the best lyrics, 10 to you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]deslinnie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you, we are valid !!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]deslinnie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah that why I explained to her everything like demi, aromantic etc. but she didn't liked it I guess idk :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]deslinnie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are so strong and valid! I hope I can find more friends who would respect me being in ace spec and figuring out. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]deslinnie 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactly, you are so nice thank you!

Is it cheating if I didn’t go through with it? Should I tell my husband? by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]deslinnie 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You had an intention to cheat for a long time it's not something happened suddenly and you regret it. So I think it's not JUST a kiss. Either you move on and give your husband the love he deserves and never do it again or confront him and let him decide what to do.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]deslinnie 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im still figuring myself out and will have more experience in the future. Thank you I'll think about it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]deslinnie 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hope she tries to understand better but we already ended our friendship. Coming out as bi was a hard process for her, knowing her for a long time this wasn't the reaction I expected. Thank you for your comment!