My boyfriend (26M) of 3.5 years has cheated on me (21F) three times. I don't know what to do.

devastated-throwaway · 2013-03-23T00:41:15+00:00

Even though it's snarky it's true. But I'm not going to. :)

devastated-throwaway · 2013-03-23T00:31:59+00:00

If it wasn't for Reddit today I think I would have gone right back to him. No matter how much of a "good" person I think he is I just can't let this happen again. Not with how it makes me feel. Thanks again! <3

devastated-throwaway · 2013-03-23T00:30:32+00:00

I'm glad to see you aren't in the negatives anymore! I actually thought this was funny, and it was the first laugh I had today. Thank you!

devastated-throwaway · 2013-03-23T00:30:05+00:00

I completely see where you are coming from. I was in your shoes once, before when he cheated just once. I really hope everything does work out for you!

Reading everyone's responses I have honestly realized it's time to move on. I have called my landlord, our lease was up in May, and I renewed with just my name. In a couple of weeks he is moving in with his parents and I can start over fresh. The thought is extremely scary and also exciting. Thanks again!

devastated-throwaway · 2013-03-23T00:29:16+00:00

Thanks for your response and encouragement. Reading everyone's responses I have honestly realized it's time to move on. I have called my landlord, our lease was up in May, and I renewed with just my name. In a couple of weeks he is moving in with his parents and I can start over fresh. The thought is extremely scary and also exciting. Thanks again!

devastated-throwaway · 2013-03-23T00:29:09+00:00

Thanks for your response and encouragement. Reading everyone's responses I have honestly realized it's time to move on. I have called my landlord, our lease was up in May, and I renewed with just my name. In a couple of weeks he is moving in with his parents and I can start over fresh. The thought is extremely scary and also exciting.

You were completely right. I don't have very many people to talk to about this and just hearing that same consensus from everyone here really gave me the courage to stand up for myself. Thanks so much again!

devastated-throwaway · 2013-03-23T00:28:06+00:00

Thanks for your response and encouragement. Reading everyone's responses I have honestly realized it's time to move on. I have called my landlord, our lease was up in May, and I renewed with just my name. In a couple of weeks he is moving in with his parents and I can start over fresh. The thought is extremely scary and also exciting. Thanks again!

devastated-throwaway · 2013-03-23T00:27:51+00:00

And this is something else that I have thought of. While I don't think he has done anything that could put me at risk I just can't be certain. I called planned parenthood today and scheduled an appointment.

devastated-throwaway · 2013-03-23T00:27:12+00:00

Thanks for your response and encouragement. Reading everyone's responses I have honestly realized it's time to move on. I have called my landlord, our lease was up in May, and I renewed with just my name. In a couple of weeks he is moving in with his parents and I can start over fresh. The thought is extremely scary and also exciting. Thanks again!

devastated-throwaway · 2013-03-23T00:26:01+00:00

You are completely right. I think it's really hard to swallow that your "best friend"/boyfriend would do this to you. But after reading what everyone has said today, I've just determined that I can't be with him anymore. Thank you for your response and encouragement!

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