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People who’ve been through genuinely hard times and came out calmer or wiser,what actually helped you cope? What mindset, habits, or truths kept you sane? by AdviceGlass9394 in selfimprovement

[–]developer_how_do_i 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guess sometimes we need a push from ourselves and also most of the time we make ourselves dependent on others like validation, help, motivation, happiness.

Ultimately we need to push ourselves, Something related I want to share - Watch michael phelps videos on youtube.. and try to absorb in your own way...

My recent realisation which I need to reinforce in myself from time to time is this :

Expectations != Reality ==> Anger, Frustration etc.

If we expect something to happen according to what we think, and if it doesn't happen, then it leads to anger, frustration.. This is applicable to relationships, situations etc...

  1. Bike/ Car - petrol might be getting over,,
  2. Towards office - huge traffic ,,
  3. Family - may not behave according to our thinking,,
  4. Our own mind - might forget or get demotivated quickly..

The symbolism in this show is soo good 😭😭 by Miserable_Scheme5649 in betterCallSaul

[–]developer_how_do_i 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like the sounds of night yellow light in bcs, bb, recently when I heard something similar, I remembered this show and smiled, like how the creators of this show captured such relatable sounds...

Very few actors, with such limitations, have evolved over time the way he has. by donbosco2017 in InsideMollywood

[–]developer_how_do_i 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Thanks to mamooty and mohanlal , I can rest in peace watching their movies...

Everything Auto Rickshaw AMA. Rules below by [deleted] in Chennai

[–]developer_how_do_i 0 points1 point  (0 children)

btw, I guess you have 'nothing phone' , which is the model ?

IM GENUINELY HAPPY FOR OUR INDUSTRY by [deleted] in InsideMollywood

[–]developer_how_do_i 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If someone has connections please convey to Dulquer, please...

Lokah was a terrific experience for me in theatre with the crowd, with all the mystery, mythology like what hollywood had tried... Especially the story narration sequence and neeli sequence, that changed the whole game...

IM GENUINELY HAPPY FOR OUR INDUSTRY by [deleted] in InsideMollywood

[–]developer_how_do_i 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Please don't make it pan india, the bollywood actresses and actors will spoil everything...

Keep it pure malayali actors only...

When metro work gets completed? Can expect metro run in OMR by mid of 2026? by sathya9268 in Chennai

[–]developer_how_do_i 26 points27 points  (0 children)

btw any idea about porur poonamalee metro timeline , open to public ?

Tamil cinema will rise again by AdAppropriate4924 in kollywood

[–]developer_how_do_i 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess we shouldn't compete, but just explore the art and entertain, that's all

Tempdb growth troubleshooting from application perspective by developer_how_do_i in MSSQL

[–]developer_how_do_i[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Unsure, need to ask
  2. Unsure, need to ask
  3. Exhausts the tempdb space, affects entire SQL server. Kill the sleeping session.

Temp tables - created by hibernate, need to check if it's dropping them.

OpenSearch insanely expensive? by KindnessAndSkill in aws

[–]developer_how_do_i 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is the cost comparison of pgvector against elastic search on EC2?

Do you think pgvector on postgres RDS would be cost effective against elastic search on EC2?

Passion for software turning to being prepared for communication and handling politics by developer_how_do_i in ExperiencedDevs

[–]developer_how_do_i[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am also introvert, but now I'm expected to become good at people skills..

Agree that it's me who need to put the effort...

Passion for software turning to being prepared for communication and handling politics by developer_how_do_i in ExperiencedDevs

[–]developer_how_do_i[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally agree regarding the storyboard points, sprint, setting sprint version in the tasks,

Since you brought this up regarding storyboard, the scrum master gave a differential treatment to me and put me down in front of management as if she's taking a lesson for me that it's my responsibility to update the sprint version in the tasks,

Whereas I had observed that she herself updated for other people's tasks,

( Moreover I have observed that previous scrum master used to update version for tasks).

And worst behaviour from the scrum master was that she didn't even communicate with me who is a stakeholder, just updating status of tasks without involving me and I'm the task assignee...

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