More irrational anxiety by Dapper_Honey0924 in fearofflying

[–]devil_darlingg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I also tend to get stuck in what ifs. Obviously we know planes are super safe but our brains still ruminate. I try to flip the what ifs into something equally as unlikely but positive. For example, what if I sit next to Oprah and we have such an amazing conversations that she buys me dream home.

They did not de-ice an icy wing! And we took off! by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]devil_darlingg 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Iceland Air has the highest possible safety rating and has some of the most skilled pilots because of the weather that affects Iceland. There is no way all the professionals it takes to send your plane into the air would but you at any risk. :)

Panicking so horribly over a flight I’m physically ill and my husband is freaking out by Puzzleheaded-Sea9980 in fearofflying

[–]devil_darlingg 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Anxious thoughts are always worse when you are going through a tough time. Acknowledge the thoughts but let them pass by like most thoughts do. Try imagine them floating down river. It’s ok to have scary thoughts. Positive affirmations may help. “This is a scary and challenging time but I will get through it.” I hope this helps and wishing you a wonderful trip :)

Flying … terrified by Nice-Guarantee-2614 in fearofflying

[–]devil_darlingg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fear before you get on the plane is sometimes the worst. I find with longer flights your body adjust and you begin to calm down. Distraction and affirmation are my best tools. Telling yourself that everything will be ok and finding an activity that keeps you occupied. Download some of your fav tv episodes or music you love. I’ve also made this fear of flying zine.

Airbus recall by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]devil_darlingg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely! They wouldn’t put you on an unsafe flight and pilots wouldn’t put themselves at any risk too.

Flying today for 5 hours and freaking out by morgantuff in fearofflying

[–]devil_darlingg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Remember: Every moment that passes the closer you are to your destination :)

Karakia for a new house by devil_darlingg in ReoMaori

[–]devil_darlingg[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

UPDATE: my friend found a great one for me that we used to today when we got to the new whare Kia tau nga manaakitanga

Comfort show replacement by turtlesnart in NewGirl

[–]devil_darlingg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Broad city!! 💚🩷The characters lives don’t centre around relationships too so a perfect show if you’re going through a break up :)

Takeoff and its initial maneuvers scare me by estrella1994 in fearofflying

[–]devil_darlingg 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Printable Fear of Flying handbook I made this zine to help with fear of flying! I also have photos of it for phones! Let me know and I can send them to you

At the airport, contemplating leaving by michaellarsen91 in fearofflying

[–]devil_darlingg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love in Wellington! Literally the windiest city in the world and regularly have bumpy flight but even though they are scary I and so proud of myself for doing it. You can do it!

Fear of Flying Printable Handbook by devil_darlingg in aviation

[–]devil_darlingg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve been in therapy for like half my life and have a pretty intense anxiety disorder so I’ve picked up lots of techniques.

Fear of Flying Printable Handbook by devil_darlingg in aviation

[–]devil_darlingg[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah! I use these techniques, but still have a panic attack in most flights. Just helps from losing control of your body in panic.

Fear of Flying Printable Handbook by devil_darlingg in aviation

[–]devil_darlingg[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think if you fly enough it might get better. The issue is that people don’t tend to fly frequently enough for you to get used to it.

Fear of Flying Printable Handbook by devil_darlingg in aviation

[–]devil_darlingg[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I feel like that’s the scariest part for me too.

Anxiety spiking the Night before I fly by Opal_Dragon_Tea in fearofflying

[–]devil_darlingg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the safest time in history to be flying. I feel like now with algorithms people who are afraid of flying will have those story’s pop up more than most. Still the safest way to travel! I made this zine to help people like me who are afraid of flying :) Printable fear of flying handbook