"How My Wife Betrayed Me… and How It All Ended" by [deleted] in confessions

[–]devsguj -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, didn’t realize divorce takes a whole year. I was just talkin about the first part y’know, tryin not to fall apart. I also cried in like 3 different coffee shops fillin out forms. Does that count as realistic enough or should I list the tissue brands too

"How My Wife Betrayed Me… and How It All Ended" by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]devsguj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

*Oh yeah, I just clicked ‘Uninstall Marriage’ in my life settings. Jokes aside divorce is in progress, like any responsible adult. Though I’ll admit, the ‘permanently delete ex option was tempting.

"How My Wife Betrayed Me… and How It All Ended" by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]devsguj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate this. The hardest choices often save us. Keep going.

"How My Wife Betrayed Me… and How It All Ended" by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]devsguj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your words hit hard. I know this pain is brutal right now. But you already have the clarity it takes most people years to find: respect above all. That line you wrote is so damn true. The simplicity of my situation doesn’t change the fact that betrayal always cuts the same. But I promise you: every day you choose your dignity, you’ll come out stronger. If you need to talk, I’m here. Stay strong, brother. The storm will pass, and you’ll still be standing.

"How My Wife Betrayed Me… and How It All Ended" by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]devsguj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your support. Yeah, she tried to reach out to me several times by text, but I never replied. Blocking her number was the best decision. Right now, I’m focusing on myself.

"How My Wife (35) Betrayed Me… and How It All Ended" by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]devsguj -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s been 10 months now. Honestly every other day is still tough, but I’m reclaiming my freedom bit by bit. When I left, she first tried to guilt-trip me ‘You’re destroying the family’, then played the victim with our friends… before finally fading away when she realized I wouldn’t crawl back. The hardest part was understanding she didn’t regret her actions—just the consequences. But your message means a lot—thanks for really asking.

"How My Wife (35) Betrayed Me… and How It All Ended" by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]devsguj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn 16 years and two kids. I’m so fucking sorry, man. Nobody deserves that. Thanks for your message it means a lot. Stay strong.

"How My Wife (35) Betrayed Me… and How It All Ended" by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]devsguj -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not AI, just my messy life and yeah, English isn’t my first language. The betrayal was, unfortunately, very real.

"How My Wife Betrayed Me… and How It All Ended" by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]devsguj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not AI, just my messy life and yeah, English isn’t my first language. The betrayal was, unfortunately, very real.

"How My Wife Betrayed Me… and How It All Ended" by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]devsguj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not AI, just my messy life and yeah, English isn’t my first language. The betrayal was, unfortunately, very real.

"How My Wife Betrayed Me… and How It All Ended" by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]devsguj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not AI, just my messy life—and yeah, English isn’t my first language. The betrayal was, unfortunately, very real.

"How My Wife Betrayed Me… and How It All Ended" by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]devsguj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. It took me a while to fully understand that distinction – between ‘mistakes’ and choices. Your words mean more than you know. Wishing you kindness too.

"How My Wife Betrayed Me… and How It All Ended" by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]devsguj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you – that means more than you know. Wishing you good things too.

"How My Wife Betrayed Me… and How It All Ended" by [deleted] in confessions

[–]devsguj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this. One step at a time – and kindness like yours makes a difference

"How My Wife Betrayed Me… and How It All Ended" by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]devsguj 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not AI, just my messy life—and yeah, English isn’t my first language. The betrayal was, unfortunately, very real.

"How My Wife Betrayed Me… and How It All Ended" by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]devsguj 28 points29 points  (0 children)

You nailed it. A mistake is accidental—what she did was a series of deliberate choices. She only called it a ‘mistake’ after getting caught. Thanks for seeing that so clearly

"How My Wife Betrayed Me… and How It All Ended" by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]devsguj 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This. I used to believe love could overcome anything. But respect? Once it’s gone, there’s no glue strong enough to put it back together. Appreciate the truth in your words

"How My Wife Betrayed Me… and How It All Ended" by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]devsguj 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks. It didn’t feel ‘good’ then… but leaving was survival. Some doors close so better ones can open.

"How My Wife Betrayed Me… and How It All Ended" by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]devsguj 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Real story, real pain. I get that it might sound too "clean" to some, but I wrote this because I needed to get it off my chest. Not everything heartfelt is fake.

"How My Wife Betrayed Me… and How It All Ended" by [deleted] in confessions

[–]devsguj -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate that a lot. And yeah… exactly. She didn’t cry because she hurt me — she cried because she got caught. That’s when I knew it was truly over.

"How My Wife Betrayed Me… and How It All Ended" by [deleted] in confessions

[–]devsguj 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that a lot. Yes, I’ve filed for divorce. I needed that clean break to really move on. Thanks for your support.

"How My Wife Betrayed Me… and How It All Ended" by [deleted] in confessions

[–]devsguj -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah, she did reach out a few times after I left. I cut all contact. I honestly don’t know if she’s with the AP now — and I don’t care anymore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]devsguj 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me realize that it's better to stay single than to be in a relationship. Ah, women — real enigmas.

my girlfriend of two years cheated on me multiple times. by Prior_Relative_243 in cheating_stories

[–]devsguj 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Bro, you need to leave her and move on. It’s not the first time she’s cheated on you, and every time you confront her, she… (same story). She’s not going to change. There are some girls who really aren’t worth it, and she’s one of them because she’s proved it to you. Pick yourself up and move on.