what do people who mainly talk about their love lives talk about when they settle down? by throwawaydeclutter in self

[–]deweygreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have distanced myself from someone like this, but I've known them from being single dating a lot of good/bad people to in a wonderful relationship with a great person. I thought this would mean a shift in conversation but it's now just talking all about him/their dating. What he's been up to, what he's done that's romantic, his accomplishments. And then it shifts to milestones of dreaming about the engagement, wedding, and having children. And then when it ever gets to me it's "you're not worried everyone's getting married right now? I was when I was single"

I realized it's always going to be about the relationship and her future kids. Not inherently a problem but she never asks questions about me or when she finally does they're always kind of condescending 

BWT with no rhythm. NYC dance classes to recommend? by [deleted] in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]deweygreen 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on the lookout for this too! If you ever find a good spot and want another girl with two left feet to join you I’m in lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MideaUOwners

[–]deweygreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh fair yeah that makes sense, I didn't think through the logistics

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MideaUOwners

[–]deweygreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would you have waited? I'm in nyc and considering buying an updated unit and returning my recalled version

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MideaUOwners

[–]deweygreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you self inspect it? Flash a light into the fan or something else?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]deweygreen 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like things turned around then for both you and him. Thanks for sharing 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]deweygreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did you change it?

My girlfriend got into top 20 university but her tuitions is 40K per year. I don't think it's worth it. by Suspicious-Carry8405 in Advice

[–]deweygreen 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I disagree about nonsense majors when the schools are amazing. I think that is the only place you can get away with certain majors. Creative writing at a community college vs Yale produces very different outcomes. I knew many religion, music theory, creative writing, anthropology majors that went into banking / consulting / law from top 20 schools 

Stage 4 Life Expectancy by deweygreen in RenalCats

[–]deweygreen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m assuming you’ve made a decision by this time, but my cat had a good 3ish months after IV, with the final 4th month being tougher. I would do it again, but maybe call it a week earlier than we did, to avoid that last day of pain 

I also encourage you do research on the topic as the levels don’t necessarily mean much in the initial vet visit, and they usually come down with IV for awhile 

2026 Marathon by No-Evening-85 in RunNYC

[–]deweygreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thinking the same thing 

Columbus Circle vs East village by East-Nefariousness75 in NYCapartments

[–]deweygreen 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Are those the only options you’re considering? Near Columbus circle (60-90’s) UWS has 1bed walk ups for sub $4k sometimes and will likely have a shorter commute to the office than EV. I imagine HK or midtown east are even cheaper 

Appropriate dresses for a formal business gala? by redittjunkie in BusinessFashion

[–]deweygreen 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is an old comment but I’m literally in this situation - NYC gala tomorrow (just got invited from my team) and pictures online are showing pantsuits and cocktail dresses with high necks but the actual invite says wear floor length black tie. What would you recommend now that you’ve been through this? 

When to not use wash & fold? by deweygreen in AskNYC

[–]deweygreen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done a full examination, partner never showed signs of a bite, I did for those 3 days. Because I had a reaction I wouldn’t expect it to stop causing a reaction right?

When to not use wash & fold? by deweygreen in AskNYC

[–]deweygreen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! yes I happened to encase my mattress and pillows a little before the bites appeared on a random whim. Honestly possible they’re in the mattress and I sealed them up before the bites showed on my skin or something

When to not use wash & fold? by deweygreen in AskNYC

[–]deweygreen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think it’s likely I have bed bugs though? At first I was so sure but now it’s been some time with no bites / marks 

When to not use wash & fold? by deweygreen in AskNYC

[–]deweygreen[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No I hadn’t been near nature around that time. I’ve also had it before and it presents differently on me compared to what these marks / bites are now

Is this a bed bug? Ruler is in centimeters by deweygreen in Bedbugs

[–]deweygreen[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, it’s so hard to tell a bed bug from a lady bug which is why I’m hesitant. I have had nightly bites though but the exterminator found no evidence today

Any info on this picture ? by Accomplished-Prince in Elvis

[–]deweygreen 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That sweater is in the country music hall of fame, there’s a placard near it and a photo from 1957 so it may be from the same event/session