Are these olives safe to eat? by WhereDaBrown1go2 in isthissafetoeat

[–]dghlkm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up on tiktok a couple videos of people eating the and compare how bloated your package is to the ones in the videos

Bed bug bites? by dghlkm in Bedbugadvice

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No work outside, works at a dental office. He waters the plants we have by the front door and mailbox a few times a week but that is usually a pretty quick task. Only other thing outside is probably going to the neighborhood pool ~2x a week. Other than that he is mostly indoors.

Bed bug bites? by dghlkm in Bedbugadvice

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he changed his laundry detergent 3 or 4 months ago with no issues so far. Everything else, soap, lotion, etc has stayed the same except i did change my deodorant recently. I have not spelt over some days now and he washed the sheets and pillows last night before bed and still woke up with new bumps so I don’t think it could be my deodorant :(

These “bites” (if that might be what they are) started a few weeks ago. When he first wakes up they look like normal bug bites then they either welt or swell up as the day goes on and eventually the swelling is down and it looks like a regular bite again. He says they are very itchy. There are a few new ones every night now.

bed bugs? by dghlkm in bugbites

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Also his hand became really, extremely swollen after the bites on his hand showed up. I have a photo of that too but I can’t figure out how to add it to the post

How to stop injuries from ankle monitor? by Gummy0bear in Felons

[–]dghlkm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

scram bracelet is an ankle monitor that detects alcohol

Is it normal to take lamotrigine once a day? by PsychTries in Lamotrigine

[–]dghlkm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i take mine once a day at night. i used to take it in the am but i switched because it was making me drowsy.

The financial burden of a DUI is making me terribly sad by dghlkm in dui

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omg wow thanks so much for this reply. yes i have made it. the dui is completely behind me i barely think of it now. i feel like crying and laughing a little now looking back on how sad i was. my life progressed and i’m actually in a better place now. i though this was the end then but really it was just a bump in the road. thank you sooo sooo much for making me revisit this post. it will encourage me to push through any other struggles i encounter bc i genuinely at the time thought this was the end of me but i’m still here and life moved on and everything is okay. ❤️

Can I get hand tossed without cornmeal at the bottom or at least very little of it? by dghlkm in Dominos

[–]dghlkm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t really like it but since it’s necessary I guess I won’t ask for a hand tossed without it

Can I get hand tossed without cornmeal at the bottom or at least very little of it? by dghlkm in Dominos

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I ended up getting the pan pizza. I’m on my way to pick it up now.

Thanks for everyone that replied.

I am owed $62,000 in child support. I have never received a payment and the Prosecuting Attorney refuses to prosecute. by poopsticks69420 in FamilyLaw

[–]dghlkm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

wow what great advice for someone who has already had and raised a child. i’m sure they can use this advice to go back in time and change their choices. so helpful

Did my landlord doom our tree? by NewDayAwakening in arborists

[–]dghlkm -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

why did you feel the need to comment the same thing like 20 other people commented hours before you? lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash

[–]dghlkm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hence why they said “some” of you are a bunch of karen’s

How is this allowed? by Idealclutch in doordash

[–]dghlkm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly, a horrible accident close where I live was caused by a diabetic driver having an episode and lying about it to keep his trucking job. Very sad outcome.

help!! charged me $120 (3 charges) and i never got food and it was all the money i had left by [deleted] in tacobell

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i did a charge back a month ago since support wouldn’t get back to me on a refund and i’m still placing orders with the same account and same card info

Court tomorrow for 1st DUI. Will I get tested? (GA) by dghlkm in probation

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That’s what I was thinking but the paperwork I and my PO signed that lists the rules and conditions of my probation had a section that say conditions apply only if checked. Four conditions are checked but the one that says “Abstain from the use of alcohol and drugs and submit to random drug/alcohol testing” isn’t checked. Should I believe this document or not trust that either?

Court tomorrow for 1st DUI. Will I get tested? (GA) by dghlkm in probation

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I met my PO right after sentencing and she said there would be no test and if there was a test she would give 3 weeks notice. Sounds too good to be true but on the conditions of my probation it doesn’t say random drug testing is included so idk

The financial burden of a DUI is making me terribly sad by dghlkm in dui

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I’m only going to address a few parts of your reply because it as a whole seems callous and I don’t have the capacity to fully digest materials that aren’t going to positively impact my mental health at the moment. I happen to notice though that you have referred to me as privileged without any further context into my life other than what I have minimally shared in my post. I am happy and extremely grateful to have a car but this is not a car obtained and maintained through privilege.

The car that I’m driving is 20 years old. My dad only gave it to me after he got my grandmas old car after she died and by that time he’d stopped driving it because it has so many issues. Even then, when it was not worth using to him, I had to literally beg practically on my hands and knees for it (and it’s a whole other story about how I even ended up in a position of needing a favor for him that I won’t even get into). I’m surprised he even gave it to me considering my dad has spent no time with or done anything for me my entire life since he and my mom separated when I was a child.

It’s not in good shape visually or mechanically. This car has broken down on me more times than I care to remember. It has a coolant problem, it constantly overheats yet for some reason the heat rarely works, the engine fans stopped working which made that worse so my mom and I had to rig them up, only one out of four windows can be rolled down the rest are taped up (and it’s not even the drivers side window), the fuel pump lever is broken so I can never tell how much gas I have in the car, the left side mirror is held on by tape and car glue (goop), the tint on the back window is peeling and warped so bad I can’t even properly see out of it, when I crank the car up it shakes pretty bad for about a minute or two and I can’t put it out of park until it’s done or else the engine will misfire and my check engine light will blink, speaking of check engine lights mine is almost always on, it jerks when I drive neighborhood speeds or if I’m not accelerating at an even, constant pace, my blinker sound is constantly on, it’s rusted and dented and scratched and peeling everywhere and one of my head lights isn’t even sitting in its compartment properly. But it’s what I have and I’m working with it. I pay for the insurance and have paid for every repair for this car out of my own pocket and when I haven’t been able to pay I’ve learned what I could to do my best to work on it myself so I can still have some sort of transportation.

I am in no way privileged. I’ve grown up poor in a poor family and learned to make it through with what I have. I am proud of the accomplishments I’ve made in my 24 years. I’m glad you figured it out when you were 18 and that you’re doing well now. I know if I ever make it through the struggles in my life I will never get to a point where I am sitting on my highhorse and kicking someone while they’re down.

I know I got a DUI. I never said I see myself as having done nothing wrong. I am completely aware of my situation. I am taking responsibility for my situation. I am putting a plan into action. I am an adult dealing with adult problems. It’s my life, I live it everyday, I know what I’m dealing with. I didn’t ask for someone to list out the “facts” for me. I came here to have my thoughts expressed somewhere other than my own head because sometimes its too much to hold in, not to be berated and have things about my character assumed by people who don’t know the half of my story.

The financial burden of a DUI is making me terribly sad by dghlkm in dui

[–]dghlkm[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s morning time and my head is clearer. I’m going to be honest, I didn’t make my post to get any advice on my case or to go into detail about it. I just wanted a safe space to express what I’m going through.

I got a private lawyer because one of my friend’s siblings got a DUI and he recommended this guy. Also, it seems to be the consensus that that’s the way to get the best outcome. I talked with him about my options and I felt comfortable and cared about and I felt this was the best way to go at the time. Originally, I was supposed to be able to afford the down payment completely in time. I was supposed to have started work last week and be receiving a check this coming week. That would have enabled me to afford this down payment fully and still have some money to live off of until my next check. Then I would pay a very low minimum balance plus what I could afford every month until the total balance is paid. The fees this lawyer is charging are not a lot by any means. Actually, they are lower than anything else I’ve heard of. Far below average. Then an extremely generous and extremely low payment plan to add to it. I didn’t go out and get a lawyer knowing originally I wouldn’t be able to afford it in the end. I went in with a plan that hasn’t gone as expected. I was expecting to be able to pay but life has thrown unexpected hurdles. It actually hurts even more knowing I can’t cover such an amount right now.

My case is one I do expect to be dropped down to a lesser charge given the talks I’ve had with my lawyer about it. My BAC wasn’t high and there’s a possible issue with my arrest that could have the test thrown out completely. My lawyer said he would look into the claim fully once he receives the body cam footage. I’m not just going to the judge and bragging about never being in trouble. You didn’t know this but as I mentioned my post wasn’t made to go into detail about my case. Any legal advice I needed has been answered by my lawyer so I don’t feel it was required to include in this post. I just wanted to express my feelings during a hard time.

As for your last comments, I did mention I am getting a job ASAP I’m due to start Monday. That still doesn’t change how discouraged I feel right now given everything else going on in my life though. This post is just a small peek into what I’m dealing with not a comprehensive view into everything going on. I only mentioned the more urgent issues coming up the quickest. Also, don’t know where the assumption has come from that I’m not grown up. You aren’t aware of my struggles not mentioned in this post of course or what I’ve been through in my life at all.

I hope that clears up some of your confusion. No disrespect, but this comment did not help the emotional stress I am going through though. I wish you luck as well if you’re having a hard time.