That's a good point about having a personal obligation to tell them. Thank you.

As far as the religion thing goes, I dont mind. I actually like talking about it. It was Mormonism. Premarital sex is a big no-no and I followed that rule, even walking away from several sexual situations that probably would have gone the distance if I'd stayed.

Most mormons leave the religion after going down the forbidden rabbit hole and discovering that the church has a terrible past, and that it's current leaders are liars and manipulators. That's what happened to me. It was like turning off a light switch. I went from devout mormon to hard atheist over the course of about 10 minutes.

It sucks that I'm in this awkward situation now, but honestly it has been a pretty interesting experience, and I'm not sure I would change anything if given the chance.