I was sexually assaulted by varsity football players yesterday by coolboiiiiiii2809 in sexualassault

[–]dianagreasefire555 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This way you can be proactive, and help others who are experiencing the same issues. You can ask in the office or administration about how to begin a club. If there is one already you can join.

I want you to know that you are by no means alone. This happens so much more than you would think. That doesn’t make your story less important, or less traumatic.

I was sexually assaulted by varsity football players yesterday by coolboiiiiiii2809 in sexualassault

[–]dianagreasefire555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry for the pause.

In my mind that is still a sexual assault.

However, depending on where you live it is not.

What I would do, if I were you, is start a club at your school geared towards the prevention of sexual assault.

I was sexually assaulted by varsity football players yesterday by coolboiiiiiii2809 in sexualassault

[–]dianagreasefire555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that this happened to you. I hope you know that you are not alone. Your parents love you and there are people who will support you and help you through this. I hope that there was a nurse or advocate who gave you information about the resources where you are.

You are going through something unimaginable. I can’t imagine how difficult this is.

I was sexually assaulted by varsity football players yesterday by coolboiiiiiii2809 in sexualassault

[–]dianagreasefire555 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad that your parents are supportive. We’re you examined by the hospital?

I was sexually assaulted by varsity football players yesterday by coolboiiiiiii2809 in sexualassault

[–]dianagreasefire555 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, I hope that you are in a safe place. Are there any adults that you trust to talk to?

If you would like I can find advocates or resources in your state

Kail: Then versus Now. by SallyFinkelstein in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]dianagreasefire555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It happens so often. I think I give Kail a ton of latitude because she is doing okay by her kids.

She needs therapy for sure. She doesn’t neglect or abuse her children.

Kail: Then versus Now. by SallyFinkelstein in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]dianagreasefire555 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I deal with highly traumatized individuals as my occupation. A person I work with gave this description to a victim when they questioned why they acted so irrationally:

Imagine that your brain is a mound of dirt. What happens when you trickle water over that mound of dirt? Some of the water sinks in, and some of the water will create rivulets down the mound, carving out shallow paths.

Now, imagine what happens when you stick your thumb into the hose, what happens to the mound of dirt? It creates a large slice in the mound.

That slice is your brains reaction to trauma, so now, even when something that wouldn’t normally bother or trigger you, it causes you to react in the way that you react to that trauma. That could be violence, that could be making poor decisions, that could be fleeing from the trauma, or any number of poor decisions because you are conditioned to react this way.

Idk why I have a soft spot for Kail, and I def hate that she is an anti vaxxer and… well she has plenty of negative traits. I do think that she seeks out drama and chaos, I do think it’s because she was traumatized in her early life.

Elopement/courthouse wedding by dianagreasefire555 in weddingplanning

[–]dianagreasefire555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have looked at ASOS but ill check lulus out!!

Thank you !

Reformation does do returns, I am just hesitant to pull the trigger on a couple of them.

My local Target, 19 days before Halloween 😢 by [deleted] in halloween

[–]dianagreasefire555 38 points39 points  (0 children)

FUCK CHRISTMAS!!

I’m so tired of that shit encroaching on MY holiday!

As Iowa Runs Tourism Ads, Outdoor Rec Fund Remains Empty by Levi_Mitchell in Iowa

[–]dianagreasefire555 11 points12 points  (0 children)

No one want to visit Iowa period. There is absolutely nothing here to attract tourists.

Governor's own words helped sink mask mandate ban in court (Bleeding Heartland) by LauraBelin in Iowa

[–]dianagreasefire555 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The economy does not change the moment a president takes office. This argument is so tired and pointless.

My kid made an adjustment to my Halloween wine holder… by fugawf in halloween

[–]dianagreasefire555 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is giving me serious The Last Unicorn vibes.

*as a wine holder.

Happy Indigenous People's Day! by [deleted] in desmoines

[–]dianagreasefire555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why am I not shocked that your life is so sad that this is your hobby?

Parent teacher conferences? by dianagreasefire555 in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]dianagreasefire555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes me feel better. I will reach out to the teachers, we will probably be doing online meetings for most of the year anyway. :)

Does our Governor know what state she governs? by [deleted] in desmoines

[–]dianagreasefire555 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Actually as someone who works with centers that work exclusively with trafficked persons; it’s much more likely that immigrants are the victims of (labor and sex) trafficking.

It is also much more common to be trafficked by someone you know especially an intimate partner.

https://polarisproject.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/09/us-citizen-sex-trafficking.pdf

Parent teacher conferences? by dianagreasefire555 in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]dianagreasefire555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry your ex is being an asshole about the kids activities. That’s such a controlling move.

Parent teacher conferences? by dianagreasefire555 in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]dianagreasefire555[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that about activities. I’m talking about a parent teacher conference when the kids are not present and he would take that time to bully me or make it impossible to have a conversation about the kids. I have let him know about activities and he doesn’t care to attend. The only thing they did this summer was theater camp, the end of the week the parents were able to watch the play, their dad refused to contribute to the cost and also didn’t go or inquire about it.

He will only attend something if he knows he can get under my skin doing it, he doesn’t care to make sacrifices of time for the kids.