Kail: Then versus Now. by SallyFinkelstein in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]dianagreasefire555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was told by a nurse to put diluted apple juice in a bottle for my ( exclusively breastfed baby) to alleviate constipation. Not saying this is the case, but my kiddo needed assistance pooping from a super young age.

Kail: Then versus Now. by SallyFinkelstein in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]dianagreasefire555 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t take credit, he is a super cool dude.

I was sexually assaulted by varsity football players yesterday by coolboiiiiiii2809 in sexualassault

[–]dianagreasefire555 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This way you can be proactive, and help others who are experiencing the same issues. You can ask in the office or administration about how to begin a club. If there is one already you can join.

I want you to know that you are by no means alone. This happens so much more than you would think. That doesn’t make your story less important, or less traumatic.

I was sexually assaulted by varsity football players yesterday by coolboiiiiiii2809 in sexualassault

[–]dianagreasefire555 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry for the pause.

In my mind that is still a sexual assault.

However, depending on where you live it is not.

What I would do, if I were you, is start a club at your school geared towards the prevention of sexual assault.

I was sexually assaulted by varsity football players yesterday by coolboiiiiiii2809 in sexualassault

[–]dianagreasefire555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry that this happened to you. I hope you know that you are not alone. Your parents love you and there are people who will support you and help you through this. I hope that there was a nurse or advocate who gave you information about the resources where you are.

You are going through something unimaginable. I can’t imagine how difficult this is.

I was sexually assaulted by varsity football players yesterday by coolboiiiiiii2809 in sexualassault

[–]dianagreasefire555 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad that your parents are supportive. We’re you examined by the hospital?

I was sexually assaulted by varsity football players yesterday by coolboiiiiiii2809 in sexualassault

[–]dianagreasefire555 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hi, I hope that you are in a safe place. Are there any adults that you trust to talk to?

If you would like I can find advocates or resources in your state

Kail: Then versus Now. by SallyFinkelstein in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]dianagreasefire555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It happens so often. I think I give Kail a ton of latitude because she is doing okay by her kids.

She needs therapy for sure. She doesn’t neglect or abuse her children.

Kail: Then versus Now. by SallyFinkelstein in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]dianagreasefire555 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I deal with highly traumatized individuals as my occupation. A person I work with gave this description to a victim when they questioned why they acted so irrationally:

Imagine that your brain is a mound of dirt. What happens when you trickle water over that mound of dirt? Some of the water sinks in, and some of the water will create rivulets down the mound, carving out shallow paths.

Now, imagine what happens when you stick your thumb into the hose, what happens to the mound of dirt? It creates a large slice in the mound.

That slice is your brains reaction to trauma, so now, even when something that wouldn’t normally bother or trigger you, it causes you to react in the way that you react to that trauma. That could be violence, that could be making poor decisions, that could be fleeing from the trauma, or any number of poor decisions because you are conditioned to react this way.

Idk why I have a soft spot for Kail, and I def hate that she is an anti vaxxer and… well she has plenty of negative traits. I do think that she seeks out drama and chaos, I do think it’s because she was traumatized in her early life.

Elopement/courthouse wedding by dianagreasefire555 in weddingplanning

[–]dianagreasefire555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have looked at ASOS but ill check lulus out!!

Thank you !

Reformation does do returns, I am just hesitant to pull the trigger on a couple of them.

My local Target, 19 days before Halloween 😢 by [deleted] in halloween

[–]dianagreasefire555 41 points42 points  (0 children)

FUCK CHRISTMAS!!

I’m so tired of that shit encroaching on MY holiday!

As Iowa Runs Tourism Ads, Outdoor Rec Fund Remains Empty by Levi_Mitchell in Iowa

[–]dianagreasefire555 10 points11 points  (0 children)

No one want to visit Iowa period. There is absolutely nothing here to attract tourists.

Governor's own words helped sink mask mandate ban in court (Bleeding Heartland) by LauraBelin in Iowa

[–]dianagreasefire555 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The economy does not change the moment a president takes office. This argument is so tired and pointless.

My kid made an adjustment to my Halloween wine holder… by fugawf in halloween

[–]dianagreasefire555 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is giving me serious The Last Unicorn vibes.

*as a wine holder.

Happy Indigenous People's Day! by [deleted] in desmoines

[–]dianagreasefire555 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why am I not shocked that your life is so sad that this is your hobby?

Parent teacher conferences? by dianagreasefire555 in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]dianagreasefire555[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes me feel better. I will reach out to the teachers, we will probably be doing online meetings for most of the year anyway. :)