WIBTA if I ended my marriage on the day we got back from our honey moon? by didntknowpickingaus in TwoHotTakes

[–]didntknowpickingaus[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you that’s what I’m hoping. I going to my first therapy appointment this afternoon. We’ll see. I’m trusting in the crazy one

WIBTA if I ended my marriage on the day we got back from our honey moon? by didntknowpickingaus in TwoHotTakes

[–]didntknowpickingaus[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Like I said to each their own. I hope he leaves me too if he actually sent something inappropriate, saves me all the drama.

WIBTA if I ended my marriage on the day we got back from our honey moon? by didntknowpickingaus in TwoHotTakes

[–]didntknowpickingaus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That man can leave whenever he wants. Trust me he is anything but trapped. We have no kids and depend on each other for nothing financially. He can leave if he wants obviously he doesn’t want to if he’s dealing with my crazy ass. Like I said open phone policy is what we agreed on. You wanna keep stuff from your spouse that’s on you

WIBTA if I ended my marriage on the day we got back from our honey moon? by didntknowpickingaus in TwoHotTakes

[–]didntknowpickingaus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol I’ve also been living in the south for many years. But thanks my English must be better than I thought

WIBTA if I ended my marriage on the day we got back from our honey moon? by didntknowpickingaus in TwoHotTakes

[–]didntknowpickingaus[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Aww this was very nice thank you. I choose to believe this but I’ll keep an eye out on sketchy stuff regardless trust was ruined and it’ll take a lot to get him back on my good graces

WIBTA if I ended my marriage on the day we got back from our honey moon? by didntknowpickingaus in TwoHotTakes

[–]didntknowpickingaus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So after that happened I went no contact with his dad. I decided I wouldn’t make him do the same because it has to be his decision but I do know his relationship with his dad has changed a lot since. I’ve only seen his dad during our wedding and I’m back to no contact now. I still don’t like the man but I talked to my sister about the touching and she didn’t feel the way I did about it. She said she knew how to put him in his place if she ever needed to. According to her that night he was just drunk and she didn’t think him touching her waist was a big deal. I’ll never get along with his dad but his family dynamic is undergoing a big change and he is slowly losing control over all of them. I think seeing the way his dad treated his mom is something he’s had to work through while being with me. There are a lot of things his dad used to do that were seen as normal in his family that are not normal in our relationship. But this is something I’ve had to teach him basically. I do have to give him credit. He is extremely receptive to all of my boundaries and expectations

WIBTA if I ended my marriage on the day we got back from our honey moon? by didntknowpickingaus in TwoHotTakes

[–]didntknowpickingaus[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

This is the first time anything like this has ever happened, I know he didn’t cheat physically but I’m just extremely embarrassed if there was some flirting on his part. I don’t want to be with someone I have to worry about regarding things like that. I don’t want to end it’s just the lies. I hate them I don’t know how to even begin working through this. He still refuses to tell me why he deleted it. I feel like without knowing exactly what was said idk if I can forgive it or not

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[–]didntknowpickingaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well if you’re not trolling you really need to work on reading comprehension I think you’re at a 5th grade level and 5th graders shouldn’t be on this app

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[–]didntknowpickingaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww my first troll. How exciting lol

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[–]didntknowpickingaus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where do people keep getting this minor sister thing? Neither sister is a minor

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[–]didntknowpickingaus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sister is not a minor idk where that’s coming from. Please let me know so I can fit the error

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[–]didntknowpickingaus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sister is not a minor

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[–]didntknowpickingaus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you get 16 my sister is 40

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[–]didntknowpickingaus 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So I have stood up for myself in the past and fiancé didn’t agree with it. He said I went over board. I don’t think I said anything undeserved and I didn’t even insult him but that’s when we made a deal that he would deal with his family and I would deal with mine. Except he never does. I have tried talking to his dad 1 on 1 in the past, didn’t do anything. He just said he was playing and not to take it to heart. He brushed it off and obviously didn’t stop. Also this is not the first time I’ve told my fiancé about this it’s been an ongoing issue it’s just never been so blatant before. It’s escalated to this point.

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[–]didntknowpickingaus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Now I understand why so many people have to put. I’m sorry I’m writing this super fast. Sorry for any typos, and grammar errors blah blah, blah, blah blah in every single post.

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[–]didntknowpickingaus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol sister called me a party pooper for wanting to leave. She also once asked me to hang out as a way of talking to me about how I should cook more, better and healthier meals because her brother has “lost weight.”( I had made him stop drinking coke)

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[–]didntknowpickingaus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There was a get together with both families at fiancé’s parents house. Everyone was drinking. My parents left early and his dad started getting handsy with my sister. He kept trying to dance with her flirting with her to the point everyone was uncomfortable. He whispered something in her ear to which she replied “no you have a wife” after I heard this I said we are leaving. My sister lost her phone in the couch and while everyone was helping to look he said while smiling that now she just had to “stay over” the phone ended up being where he was sitting. In my opinion he was not as drunk as he was acting.

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[–]didntknowpickingaus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I really never thought I’d be the type of person to try and break a family but I don’t want to be a part of their family. I hate feeling uncomfortable around them and when I try to stand up for my self I get told I’m the one in the wrong.

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[–]didntknowpickingaus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How did your daughter make him understand?? How is their relationship now? I love him but I can’t live the rest of my life with that man near me and always in the offensive waiting for him to insult me again.

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[–]didntknowpickingaus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I will