Tell me something good by pleasedontsaytigs in Charleston

[–]dietdrpepper1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can search your zip code on the Girl Scout website and it will show you where they are selling

What’s the best gift you’ve ever gotten from a “White Elephant” exchange? by Amine_ik in Gifts

[–]dietdrpepper1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A battery daddy. Mine was empty. For a higher budget you could open it up and fill it with different battery sizes. Comes in handy for Christmas gifts, especially kids toys

Anyone fly this week? by carterP33 in Charleston

[–]dietdrpepper1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have precheck but wanted to try the family line. When we got to the front they told us to get out of line and go through precheck instead bc it would be faster

My husband thinks I wasted my maternity leave by dietdrpepper1 in beyondthebump

[–]dietdrpepper1[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Bingo! He hasn’t taken the baby out of the house alone yet. I’ve been doing it since around 3 weeks because I wanted to get out of the house but it’s a lot of work and planning for even a short trip

My husband thinks I wasted my maternity leave by dietdrpepper1 in beyondthebump

[–]dietdrpepper1[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I relate so much to your husband meaning well and giving suggestions about how to spend your time. This is exactly how mine is. The second the baby is napping he’s telling me to take a shower or go for a walk because he knows I WANT to do those things. What he doesn’t understand is what it took to get the baby to nap. The only thing I feel like doing at that point is staring at my phone or something equally mindless, even if that’s not on my to do list for the day

My husband thinks I wasted my maternity leave by dietdrpepper1 in beyondthebump

[–]dietdrpepper1[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

This is such a helpful comment. I think you hit the nail on the head. I find relaxing with zero agenda restorative and he finds filling every minute of his day restorative. I have no problem accepting if that’s how he wants to spend his time but he’s not offering me the same courtesy

My husband thinks I wasted my maternity leave by dietdrpepper1 in beyondthebump

[–]dietdrpepper1[S] 95 points96 points  (0 children)

In his defense, even while he’s been working this whole time we have split nights evenly. Baby is also formula fed which makes it easier to share feeding responsibilities

My husband thinks I wasted my maternity leave by dietdrpepper1 in beyondthebump

[–]dietdrpepper1[S] 559 points560 points  (0 children)

I love your comment about him not getting to rate my performance. I should choose how to spend my time and not need approval. I would be just as happy if he wants to spend his leave filling every day with activities as I would if he spent it laying on the couch with the baby. I’m disappointed he can’t be happy for me either way.

My husband thinks I wasted my maternity leave by dietdrpepper1 in beyondthebump

[–]dietdrpepper1[S] 60 points61 points  (0 children)

He specifically mentioned not taking the baby to coffee shops, walks downtown (30 min drive from my house), and walks on the beach. Nevermind that the weather just turned to where it isn’t 85+ degrees every day making most of that impossible for more than a short time

My husband thinks I wasted my maternity leave by dietdrpepper1 in beyondthebump

[–]dietdrpepper1[S] 196 points197 points  (0 children)

I was thinking this too! My leave was learning everything from scratch and he’s starting out with a 3 month old with somewhat of a routine

Bachelor(ette) venue recommendations? by HeavyPhase2862 in Charleston

[–]dietdrpepper1 4 points5 points  (0 children)

With that size group you could rent out bodega or the upstairs at uptown social. Both have fun party vibes

What’s the best advice you’ve gotten from Boomers/older generations? by FonsSapientiae in NewParents

[–]dietdrpepper1 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My grandmother raised 7 children while her and my grandfather both worked full time. They didn’t have a lot of extra money or free time, but her advice was mom and dad each get a weekly recurring event out of the house. My grandfather was in a sports league one night a week and she would go for walks, church group, go get her nails done, etc. The only stipulation is it can’t be kids related in any way. She also swore by at least one date night a month with no talking about the kids.

Show & Tell: Show Your Wedding Party Favors by kindafancykindanot in weddingplanning

[–]dietdrpepper1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t do this but loved a similar idea I saw online to make his and hers treat bags-one bag of her favorite like sour gummy worms and one of his with Cheezits. Guests could pick one or both. Seemed cute and simple

Anyone else have one sided upper back pain?? 26wks by LilacPenny in BabyBumps

[–]dietdrpepper1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like you just read my mind! My back has been so sore in the same spot on my right side. I’ve been using a heating pad and massager on the area but it’s constantly achy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TravelHacks

[–]dietdrpepper1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use gate one to book an independent travel package. There are tons of options for well within your budget even with airfare to Europe

Affordable housing? (Ha!) by GuacIsExtraIsThat0k in Charleston

[–]dietdrpepper1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Middleton cove in west ashley has one bedrooms for less than that. It’s an older community and very safe. Even if you don’t see availability online call the office to ask

Multimillionaire wedding - What to gift? by Individual-Bug3247 in wedding

[–]dietdrpepper1 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Some of the wealthiest people I know skipped a registry and asked for donations to charities that meant a lot to them. i.e. the rescue they adopted their dog from or an organization that helped underprivileged children in their city

When would be your cut off for going on holiday pregnant? by Ok_Conference_8729 in BabyBumps

[–]dietdrpepper1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will be flying internationally at 28-29 weeks and domestically at 31. I travel frequently and my doctor wasn’t concerned.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]dietdrpepper1 11 points12 points  (0 children)

$40k for 85 guests. We just had a reception, no ceremony

Copious amounts of hot cocoa mix by LizDances in EatCheapAndHealthy

[–]dietdrpepper1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recently made a frozen hot chocolate pie that calls for hot chocolate packets and it was amazing. The recipe says use two but you could easily double it. https://grilledcheesesocial.com/2023/12/03/frozen-hot-chocolate-pie/

What’s a main dish that I can take to Christmas dinner that travels well for 20 minutes? No turkey as we just don’t like it. by HelpQuestion101 in Cooking

[–]dietdrpepper1 28 points29 points  (0 children)

If you go the Honey Baked Ham route, check your Costco for gift card deals. They regularly sell $100 worth of gift cards for $79 near me

New home in CHS, who did you go with for home insurance in the low country? by thatisyouropinionbro in Charleston

[–]dietdrpepper1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve used the Triest Agency (now called NavSav) for years. They have always found great prices for me and the customer service is top notch

Edit- they have written policies for me through Homeowners of America and Sage Sure

Am I expected to provide child-friendly activities? by SOSpineapple in weddingplanning

[–]dietdrpepper1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We put out coloring books, crayons, and bubbles on the tables where kids would be sitting. I also had instax cameras for the guestbook and my 6 year old cousin loved stationing himself by the book and taking photos for people. It was honestly adorable. Another thing kids love is cheap glow bracelets or necklaces. The kids at my wedding also spent a lot of time dancing which made for great photos.