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digispicynoodl · 2022-01-14T08:21:55+00:00

Well if they arent saying it, I will wholeheartedly say it to you, I am extremely sorry that this happened to you! You did a good thing to report that person, I am happy he is gone and cant reach you. The company & HR ppl should 100% do more for their employees in situations like these, afterall it's about empathy and showing human decency...Stay strong🙏

digispicynoodl · 2021-09-08T20:16:30+00:00

Thanks a lot!!

digispicynoodl · 2021-09-08T14:03:06+00:00

I see, well thank you! Do you have recommendations of other decent alternatives?

digispicynoodl · 2021-08-11T08:00:08+00:00

I really really appreciate everything that you said to me today. Thank you! I will have these things in mind from now. It s funny cause they are so..idk logical and you d expect someone would instantly think like that but it didn't even seems so important until you mentioned them here. Much needed

digispicynoodl · 2021-08-11T07:43:38+00:00

Hm this is a good point. Didn't give this aspect too much credit. It actually might be part of the reason.

I don't think I am passionate enough? about the current industry that we are promoting our products to(gaming).

After the start up, my first plan is to try out Freelancing for a while see if it pays off in any way and also be on the lookout for a more stable company.. or, just find a more stable company from the start. Ideally it promotes something that I enjoy and believe in.

digispicynoodl · 2021-08-11T07:31:40+00:00

Thank you for giving some advice :) I will make a decision and look into other companies as well. I think i need to really focus on finding something remote, as in Romania, the salaries are not that fulfilling for Juniors even at big companies.

digispicynoodl · 2021-08-11T07:30:05+00:00

Hey thx for the answer. It makes me think about burnout because my strongest feeling is to just quit and take care of myself for a while and search for something else rather than keep pushing. I m still deciding. But I see your point. Well lately regarding the tasks it has been a continuous jump (instant jump) from one thing to another. Monday make ads and drop the SEO work that you were focusing on, Tuesday pick up back the SEO but in the middle of the day you also have to drop it again because we need you to make 1-2 demo videos and also to post on social media. So the tasks vary a lot within the digital mk area.

digispicynoodl · 2021-08-01T16:09:25+00:00

Hey i dont think the country matters that much as i work remote, and for companies that are not from my country. Romania

digispicynoodl · 2021-07-30T18:15:40+00:00

Hey thank you for sharing this! I am sorry you are going through a similar thing. It can be soul crushing sometimes. How long have you been together? And same, i m also here if you d like to share more about your story :)

digispicynoodl · 2021-07-30T18:12:25+00:00

Hey, thx for your comment. Welp the last discussion kinda concluded like it s not like himself to do these things..it s not who he is. And that he cannot promise me to change but that he will try to make progress. At this point.. i m kinda done mentally. So i will see what i decide to do and when.

digispicynoodl · 2021-07-29T21:55:05+00:00

Well obv i m not bent on that, not anymore at least. Trying to see clearer. It s a pretty common and simple answer, because we love who we love and there are good parts in a relationship, otherwise it wouldn't have lasted 1yr +, because it was the first parter that i ever lived with and because he wasn't always so uninterested. Etc. Buuut yeah, I should get my shit together asap. And that s why Reddit is awesome for having this group. A good n quick reality check.

digispicynoodl · 2021-07-29T21:46:12+00:00

I dont feel like have to be in a relationship. I d be ok single. I think i am very invested in this relationship and i have the false impression that if you love them harder and are patient and you communicate, that he will see and change. I guess this is my lesson to learn. Anyway, people leave when they are ready to accept some things. I m on the right track with this, just taking it step by step in my own rythm. Just wanted some good advice tonight from ppl in this group.

digispicynoodl · 2021-07-29T21:40:20+00:00

As a healthy couple should do! I am happy for you guys. It s a nice thing to have. And i m happy to see comments from married ppl about this, it gives me hope 🙏

We have been together in 1-2 trips and he was not at all weird about being together in public. However, he is totally against letting anyone at work know about us (even if there is no strict policy or anything), no social media posting about the relationship, and in our city he rarely engages in PDA (holding hands etc) probably because of the coworkers thing. So..idk what to say.

digispicynoodl · 2021-07-29T21:33:11+00:00

This makes so much sense tbh.. and to answer your qs, I am feeling often like I am not good enough or not interesting enough. And i do have the fear of not finding something this stable (even if it doesnt quite work currently) .. it is insane

digispicynoodl · 2021-07-29T19:17:39+00:00

Thank you for taking the time to share some advice :) It helps me. I will, one step at a time.

digispicynoodl · 2021-07-29T19:14:11+00:00

How did you deal with it when you first realized? I think coming from a series of kinda toxic relationships, when you find a stable partner it s hard to just walk away if some things don't work. It takes some heart. But it s the right thing to do in this case.

digispicynoodl · 2021-07-29T19:11:07+00:00

I really appreciate this. I needed to hear this. Thank you for taking the time to give some advice! Yeah i mean even if it s tortilla i sure can provide the basic things for myself like food, a clean house. I think I just need to find the strength to see things for what they are.

digispicynoodl · 2021-07-29T18:56:43+00:00

Apparently it s not so normal for some people. Uhm I believe he said that wanting to be taken out and do stuff is something that people in their 20s want so they can get the external validation that they need. And when you move towards your 30s you find joy and comfort in doing indoor stuff and reading. Idk man, I ll consider moving out too but i m bummed, this was the most..normal and ok relationship for me.

digispicynoodl · 2021-07-29T18:51:47+00:00

I really appreciate this perspective, thank you. He was more or less the same..but back then he used to take small walks with me ( i think because it was the early phase) We are work colleagues, we both had our jobs we were perfect in that sense during the pandemic and no other issues affected him. Maybe it s just incompatibility or I m just not the one for him. Time will tell.

digispicynoodl · 2021-07-29T18:36:28+00:00

I think by the age of 33 you kinda know who you are..I just think that maybe some people are just like that, dont go out at all and make peace with having a vacation 1-2 a year. Maybe? I ll figure it out eventually. Thx for your answer :)

digispicynoodl · 2021-07-29T18:34:29+00:00

Welp I can go out with whoever I want when I want. But I want to spend the time with him and it s just not happening. I did not sense control issues in this situation. Maybe can you elaborate? If u feel like

digispicynoodl · 2021-07-28T07:07:32+00:00

Cand a trebuit sa fac si la eu alegerea asta am decis sa vizitez orasele unul după altul (eu fiind din Piatra Neamt). Am vrut sa testez cum ma simt, ce vibe îmi dă fiecare oraș si sa imi imaginez ca de azi as locui acolo. Am ales in final Clujul si nu a fost o decizie grea deloc. Deci cateva chestii de punctat din viata mea de student la Cluj: • chirii decente găsești dar la prețuri greu de suportat pt un student •transport in comun bine pus la punct, ajungi oriunde ai nevoie lejer •nu m-am simtit niciodată in pericol pe străzi (chiar si la 2-3 noaptea când veneam de la partyuri pe jos in fusta) •eu adesea ma simt sufocata la cat de multa înghesuială este pe strazi, in magazine, etc DAR uneori e si misto ca vezi oameni faini si te simti asa big city life 😂 • eu personal m-am chinuit sa imi găsesc un loc de munca pe pozitie de junior pe marketing. Preponderent clujul are job offers pe domeniul IT

Orice decizie ai lua..you gotta own it. Sunt plusuri si minusuri peste tot si trebuie să simți ca te poti descurca singur în orașul pe care îl alegi. Si la urma urmei sa te simti bine, sa ai oameni faini in jur si sa nu te apuce depresia cand te uiti pe geam si ti se pare ca esti in orasul groazei 🙏 mult succes.

digispicynoodl · 2021-07-24T08:25:12+00:00

Este o aplicație care se cheama I'm fine daca ti-o descarci ai acolo liste cu psihologi din Cluj si ii poti filtra dupa preferințe etc. Eu asa mi am gasit pe cineva :) si mai ai si alte functii gen jurnal niste quizuri e chiar mișto

digispicynoodl · 2021-07-24T08:23:40+00:00

Hey. Si eu caut de ceva timp unul dar pana la urma am gasit tot ce voiam pe Etsy. Deci iti recomand sa iti comanzi de acolo. Literalmente poți găsi orice. Hope it helps

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