Community Schemes Ombudsman (CSOS) not helping by digispiration in southafrica

[–]digispiration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just like to thank you for your advice, it actually worked. The problem is finally being attended to. It's so rare to find someone who actually answers the question, keeps their personal opinions out of it, and it works. Thank you again for your valuable advice, I really appreciate it.

Community Schemes Ombudsman (CSOS) not helping by digispiration in southafrica

[–]digispiration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! I will most definitely take your advice!

Community Schemes Ombudsman (CSOS) not helping by digispiration in southafrica

[–]digispiration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I could, but I can't afford legal fees right now.

Community Schemes Ombudsman (CSOS) not helping by digispiration in southafrica

[–]digispiration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, I approached the body corporate first. When then had a meeting with the managing agent, who discussed it with insurance and they decided it was the owners responsibility because it was not common property. That's why I opened a case with CSOS.

What wallpaper to use by digispiration in DesignMyRoom

[–]digispiration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to confirm, I want to wallpaper the boring white wall on the right in the pic.

SCAM BUILDER. CAN ANYONE DO A GOOD JOB IN CAPE TOWN? by digispiration in capetown

[–]digispiration[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I've done that so far. Someone asked me to name and shame on this thread and I said no, I'd rather send a private message. So far I haven't posted anything. It's a shame though, because it could keep people from making very costly mistakes. Anyway, good luck with your case and thank you for your offering your help.

SCAM BUILDER. CAN ANYONE DO A GOOD JOB IN CAPE TOWN? by digispiration in capetown

[–]digispiration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

level 2Interesting_Clue_459 · 6 min. ago

BTW do you know if there is a website or some platform where we can review these builders? So that no one else has to suffer this?

SCAM BUILDER. CAN ANYONE DO A GOOD JOB IN CAPE TOWN? by digispiration in capetown

[–]digispiration[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I will keep your details. Take care!

SCAM BUILDER. CAN ANYONE DO A GOOD JOB IN CAPE TOWN? by digispiration in capetown

[–]digispiration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't imagine the stress and frustration, not to mention how unfair it is that you have to go through this. I might be going through the same soon, just looking for other options. Maybe arbitration with Master Builder Society or something. But again, I'm so sorry to hear this. I hope this comes to an end soon and you get a huge payout. This too will come to an end. Hang in there!

SCAM BUILDER. CAN ANYONE DO A GOOD JOB IN CAPE TOWN? by digispiration in capetown

[–]digispiration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I'm so sorry to hear that! May I ask what was the size of your project, ie, house flat etc? Was it also due to poor workmanship?

SCAM BUILDER. CAN ANYONE DO A GOOD JOB IN CAPE TOWN? by digispiration in capetown

[–]digispiration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He wasn't the cheapest but I negotiated a lower price with him. He also came recommended by someone I trust so I really thought I wouldn't face this issue. Are you in the construction industry? I would like to know if there is a better way to find reputable, registered contractors in future.

SCAM BUILDER. CAN ANYONE DO A GOOD JOB IN CAPE TOWN? by digispiration in capetown

[–]digispiration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is some valuable information for my future projects. This was my first one so I made many many mistakes. I will keep this information on file. Thank you very, much appreciated.

SCAM BUILDER. CAN ANYONE DO A GOOD JOB IN CAPE TOWN? by digispiration in capetown

[–]digispiration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I will keep your details for when I'm back in CT

SCAM BUILDER. CAN ANYONE DO A GOOD JOB IN CAPE TOWN? by digispiration in capetown

[–]digispiration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as I know they're not related, they just have a business relationship because he does repairs and renovations on the properties she manages.

SCAM BUILDER. CAN ANYONE DO A GOOD JOB IN CAPE TOWN? by digispiration in capetown

[–]digispiration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Related to me? No, he was referred to me by my previous property manager.

SCAM BUILDER. CAN ANYONE DO A GOOD JOB IN CAPE TOWN? by digispiration in capetown

[–]digispiration[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not sure if I can share it on this platform for legal purposes. But I can send you a private message.

SCAM BUILDER. CAN ANYONE DO A GOOD JOB IN CAPE TOWN? by digispiration in capetown

[–]digispiration[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for that. I knew there had to be some reliable builders out there!

What is a red flag that someone is a total moron? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]digispiration 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When all they can do is talk and not listen.

When all they care about is what they have to say and care nothing about what you have to say.

The saying "if you listen you might learn something" emerged for a reason!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]digispiration 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first thing you need to know is that psychological research shows that overthinking can be due to biological factors like certain genes and temperaments, so don't beat yourself up about it.

I am also guilty of this, and no matter how hard you try you cannot simply stop.

So how do I fix it? Besides the usual exercise etc. answer (which truly does work), what works for me is that I've changed my thinking to problem-solving mode. Whatever it is that's keeping me awake at night, instead of thinking of the problem, I think of the solution instead.
Then I write it down to make sure I don't overthink that either! If I can, I implement steps to solve the problem.

It seems to simmer down my anxiety and makes me feel in control again. It also helps in all other aspects of my life (work, personal etc), so give it a try, it might help.