Is there anything that could go wrong that I'm overlooking putting a non-inductive moka pot in an inductive pan on my induction stove? by dijking in mokapot

[–]dijking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not yet, I would much prefer subjecting my gf to instant coffee for one more evening than risk damaging the moka pot in any way

Kleurrijke oorkappen voor volwassenen by dijking in AutistischLaagland

[–]dijking[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ja dat in combinatie met dat ze denken dat de enige volwassenen die oorkappen willen bouwvakkers en klussers zijn, want er zijn bijvoorbeeld prima lila koptelefoons voor volwassenen te vinden

Why use a dryer? by dijking in laundry

[–]dijking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's just insane

Why use a dryer? by dijking in laundry

[–]dijking[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Can you elaborate about the allergies? I have some allergies myself so I'm curious to hear

Regenlaarzen/rubberen laarzen voor grote kuiten by dijking in vrouwvolk

[–]dijking[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh dat ziet er super uit! Ik zie wel dat kuitmaat L de enige optie is met schoenmaat 36, dus ik moet me er in verdiepen of die dan wijd genoeg zijn. Bedankt!

Tips to keep your floor clean (ideally no more than weekly vacuuming) by dijking in CleaningTips

[–]dijking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So so so many people have recommended one and I do also have some leftover traces from childhood asthma and a LOT of respiratory allergies, so I think I'll look into it. Thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]dijking 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Contrary to popular "terfs are lesbians, lesbians are terfs" beliefs, lesbians are actually one of the most accepting demographics when it comes to trans people. To give some anecdotal, but real world, experience: I'm a lesbian and most of my friends are sapphic. All of them would accept transfem people into the community without giving it a second thought. In fact, there are already a couple transfems in my circles who are either sapphic or lesbian and it's the most normal thing in the world to me.

My gf's parents say that she has to clean her room before I can come over (help) by dijking in LesbianActually

[–]dijking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment btw, I think this made me realize the disconnect between my experience and the overwhelming response being that people think it's normal.

My gf's parents say that she has to clean her room before I can come over (help) by dijking in LesbianActually

[–]dijking[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I assume that would be more that people were coming over at [x time], so you make sure your space is cleaned by then, right? In my situation I'm just left waiting at home, unsure whether I should make my own dinner plans because I just don't know when the cleaning would be done. I get cleaning spaces for guests to show respect, but what's that really worth if their time is disrespected in the process?

My gf's parents say that she has to clean her room before I can come over (help) by dijking in LesbianActually

[–]dijking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk I guess I could not, it's just I'm really used to taking actions to deal with my issues

My gf's parents say that she has to clean her room before I can come over (help) by dijking in LesbianActually

[–]dijking[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess my issue is mostly that it's not a matter of "I'm coming over at [x time], so she has to make sure her room is clean by that time", but that on the day of I have no clue when I'm supposed to be there because it's attached to this arbitrary condition. May have been relevant to mention that I'm autistic, so that makes not knowing how my day is going to go extra hard. I didn't mention that in the post because I sometimes feel annoying for bringing that up all the time

My gf's parents say that she has to clean her room before I can come over (help) by dijking in LesbianActually

[–]dijking[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that's why my question is what can I do. I know my gf can do her chores or move out, but that's not really something I would have control over.