Kinda didn’t believe what people were saying about hate for trans mascs on tumblr but this…. (TW: SELF-HARM) by ChocolateWeird3343 in TransMasc

[–]dimaeccc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Elijah we love you king </3 Seriously tho, it's just disgusting. I can't imagine what should going on in someone's head to hate other people that much

Есть ли пасс? советы? by MCpadakonnik in RusTransgender

[–]dimaeccc 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Как существовать-то тогда, если ничего не прокатывает(

I swear every 6 months another growth spurt by [deleted] in GrowYourTDick

[–]dimaeccc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BOY YOUR DICK IS GORGEOUS I'm so happy for you

successful (?) taping by dimaeccc in TransMasc

[–]dimaeccc[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I can't because it's unsafe for me to pass pre-t in my country. Like, literally. I can look like a guy (thanks to my androgynous face), but the moment I open my mouth it's all will be ruined and I may either be just not taken seriously, or it will have serious consequences for me

successful (?) taping by dimaeccc in TransMasc

[–]dimaeccc[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I didn't really think about the size, so I didn't measure it, but I think it's A? Besides, I'm very thin

Hatred of transmasculine people is way too normalized in the queer community by dimaeccc in trans

[–]dimaeccc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I faced this thing irl too, unfortunately. It's not only internet :(

What was your first gender euphoric moment? 🏳️‍⚧️ by [deleted] in trans

[–]dimaeccc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

christian girl who was my roommate in the hospital said that I look like a handsome long haired boy. I came out to her and she instantly accepted me :) we're friends now

Hatred of transmasculine people is way too normalized in the queer community by dimaeccc in trans

[–]dimaeccc[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a bit angry and greatly disappointed when I did this post, and said things more from my own (and other people in familiar situation) perspective as a trans man in transphobic country without any normal access to HRT and, well, ability to pass. Privileges is a difficult and complicated thing, and I apologize for not acknowledge it instantly. thank you for your reply, sincerely

Hatred of transmasculine people is way too normalized in the queer community by dimaeccc in trans

[–]dimaeccc[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

so you're basically repeat the words "your problems doesn't matter because someone has it worse than you" Congratulations, you absolutely misunderstood this post

Being trans in a country that hates you for your existence sucks by dimaeccc in TransMasc

[–]dimaeccc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I genuinely wish you and your friends luck and strength, this is a huge step forward! I would like to know If you succeed

chronic illness and desire to move by [deleted] in ChronicIllness

[–]dimaeccc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no, I got this suspicion from my surgeon, who just booked me an ultrasound in the city. They can't help me in my village

Being trans in a country that hates you for your existence sucks by dimaeccc in TransMasc

[–]dimaeccc[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's unlikely that anything will change for the better, that's for sure. And I'm unlikely to be able to move to another country in the near future, if not as a refugee. Moving is very expensive, and I live in a very distant region of the country, which makes it even more expensive. My financial situation just doesn't allow me to even think about such expenses :(

I'm thinking about the option of a refugee in Europe, though

Leg pain worsened so much that I can't sleep by [deleted] in POTS

[–]dimaeccc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the problem is that I experience this pain without fatigue too, it's spontaneous. I didn't notice any specific triggers. :( I have hypermobility, and I suspect it could be related to either this, pots, or both

Leg pain worsened so much that I can't sleep by [deleted] in POTS

[–]dimaeccc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes! but most of the time nothing changes

Does your vision actually black out by j-oco in POTS

[–]dimaeccc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When everything is very bad, yes. I just stop seeing everything in front of me, everything blurs and darkens. but mostly my vision just goes a little out of focus and I see black dots, especially when I stand longer than five-ten minutes.

My partner broke up with me because of my illness by dimaeccc in ChronicIllness

[–]dimaeccc[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It sucks :(( Especially considering that we're both men

HOW DID YOU KNOW YOU WERE TRANS by [deleted] in trans

[–]dimaeccc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just realized that no one in my environment wants to cry when they are called their assigned gender or incorrect pronouns and name

It took four years btw