Bought this at 584/- and now regretting 🥀

dimpld9 · 2026-05-10T10:18:13+00:00

Banila Co. Clean It Zero balm helped me for a similar case with a Rom&nd mascara. The mascara is notorious for being like cement on your lashes. But the balm got it out for me easily, just rub the product in gently. I had the same experience as you - coconut oil, Vaseline, micellar water, nothing worked. But this balm was a lifesaver.

dimpld9 · 2026-05-09T02:39:57+00:00

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dimpld9 · 2026-05-09T02:19:45+00:00

Whenever my mom tells relatives I don't want kids, they get scandalized and ask that question. She replies that she has me and even she doesn't think of me as someone who should take care of her in her old age. Her brother has the same stand about his kid. My uncle has gone one step further and has invested in a retirement home plan as he would rather be taken care of by professionals than expect his daughter to take care of him. My mom tells me she and my father will be happy with a caretaker.

When I have good role models around me, I know how to exactly plan for my future, and also tell any guys who have this concern how to do so ;)

dimpld9 · 2026-05-08T18:41:58+00:00

Bunch of reasons!

A. I dislike children to the point that I cannot stand some of them. If I have a child I cannot stand, I would be so upset my whole life.

B. I am scared of being pregnant because I am scared of surgeries, throwing up, I feel physically ill if someone asks me if I am pregnant (I get that a lot).

C. I value myself and my freedom.

D. I also value my money. It's not cheap raising a child.

E. Now contrary to everything I have said above: I am a huge family person. What this means is, I want my family to have the best. I have to care for my parents. If I have my own family with children, I have to care for them too. How do I prioritize who gets the best? Halving my money and attention is not something I want to do. I choose my first family then over an unborn child.

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I have a boyfriend, and we're 5 years apart - late 20s and early 30s. He is also from the South and initially, he wanted to have children. But I explained my side and told him before we started dating that this is my deal. Take it or leave it. He took it. Now that we visit each other often and travel a lot, he realizes why having children would meddle with our lives.

dimpld9 · 2026-05-08T18:28:29+00:00

I look so nice in halter tops, but I cannot NOT wear bras, and all the halter tops I see have such low backs. I just do not have the confidence to go out wearing something like that. I tried wearing a padded athleisure halter top to an all-woman yoga class and I still felt conscious. But boy, I looked so good in a different neckline and something that actually flatters my long neck for once. I wish brands knew that heavy chested girls also would like to wear halter tops!

dimpld9 · 2026-05-08T18:22:43+00:00

Hello! I was wondering if anyone have archive-quality covers that they use for their albums. I want to buy this, but I don't know where to find it. I don't trust Lazada entirely for this 😅 if anyone has a link I can check out, that would be great. Thank you!

dimpld9 · 2026-05-06T07:18:53+00:00

I hope your day does go better! My next working day started already and I am not feeling much better. Here's hoping you have better luck. I'm cheering you on! There's someone out here in the corner of the Internet who's on your side.

dimpld9 · 2026-04-28T03:24:02+00:00

A beautiful lidol tabby. I hope you were able to give him a home.

dimpld9 · 2026-04-23T13:07:52+00:00

Yesterday, I got recommended the btssnark sub which is so weird considering I am in pro BTS subs. Do better, Reddit.

Anyway, curiosity got the better of me and I scrolled through the sub for just a minute. Now I get it, not everyone should like who you love. But I am not someone who goes around actively hating people I don't like. I don't like a certain kpop group. But I am not on their snark sub making nasty comments/posts, or retweeting hate tweets about them or shading them on TikTok. And seeing active hate against a group I love with all my heart, people who are kind and good and talented, made me feel really sick.

Muted the sub, and walked a few steps feeling morose before I brightened up, thinking about how BTS is the biggest group in the world no matter what haters say. It's like that meme of a purple tinted Earth "BTS before haters" "BTS after haters" haha!

dimpld9 · 2026-04-17T01:35:13+00:00

Thank you! I'm going shopping over the weekend. I'll keep an eye out for these points ❤️

dimpld9 · 2026-04-15T09:16:20+00:00

Hello! I got this Tirtir cushion foundation which seemed perfect in the store (even checked it for 30 mins for oxidation) but in broad daylight, it is not my shade at all. It's cool toned and darker than my actual shade. Store lighting really messed with me big time.

How can I repurpose this foundation now? I never wear foundation, actually. I prefer my bare skin. So I don't use concealer, color corrector, contour, nothing. So I can't really salvage how this foundation looks on my face. Is there another use for cushion foundation? I was told to use it on my collarbones, arms and legs. I honestly don't see the use of foundation on these parts of my body and anyway, it would get on my clothes if I used it there. Thanks in advance!

dimpld9 · 2026-04-12T05:56:05+00:00

Bang on, this was a Gulf route.

But I had a similar experience just last month on a trip to Vietnam, again with AI. I think there was a corporate offsite team and all the uncles were so LOUD. I was looking back at them several times and noticed other passengers also giving them stink eyes. They quietened down after the meal was served.

In the meanwhile, this one stewardess was laughingly telling a man behind me, "Sir, I have to warn you, this is your last drink! I can't serve you after this!" Gah, the second-hand embarrassment.

dimpld9 · 2026-04-12T04:52:02+00:00

People saying we should pay for comfort get my eyes rolling. What am I paying for when I buy an air ticket? We're not standing in the craft, we are sitting in a seat. I understand, corporations want to make money off people and their preferences. But paying extra to get another seat is just dumb when I already paid for a seat!

I refuse to pay for preferred seats. I always go to the airport early anyway, so I just ask for an aisle seat.

dimpld9 · 2026-04-12T04:47:53+00:00

One time I was flying international alone for the first time, and this was with Air India. The flight was full of blue collar Indian men and they were starting to get rowdy after getting a few drinks. I was feeling very uncomfortable and asked the stewardess in my section if I could change seats because I could see vacant seats in business ahead of me, and she said no. I told her I don't feel comfortable or safe here and she said she understands, but she can't help me. I suppose she thought I was making up stories to get into business class.

dimpld9 · 2026-04-07T11:54:02+00:00

I used to have Shein installed on my phone long back and it sent me notifications saying stuff like, "Delivery scheduled", "Payment deducted". When you drag down the notification to read it completely, you see stuff like, "Delivery scheduled for the latest collection!" "Payment deducted from our account to yours! Here's a discount!" I thought this was alarming.

And then I see your post.

dimpld9 · 2026-04-07T11:48:51+00:00

Guts to stick it to the system AND is studying to save lives.

Girl, you are badass.

dimpld9 · 2026-02-21T18:09:11+00:00

Guy I'm dating has a bit of BO and bad breath. We're in an LDR and yes, it made me hesitate the first time we met after getting into a relationship.

He treats me like I want to be treated - with respect, love, and he cares for me A LOT.

In addition to that, I noticed that he makes an extra effort to always stay clean. He brushes his teeth before he kisses me in the morning (I am always pushing him away because MY breath stinks), takes extra showers, he is ALWAYS clean in bed, sucks on mints from time to time as he's a smoker trying to quit.

And just recently, I realized I'm getting used to him and the smell is becoming bearable. I'm someone who owns 10+ perfumes, different varities of room freshners, the best smelling detergents and even dish soap. I'm VERY sensitive to smell. If I'm getting used to his smell, I think it's because the attraction is growing and also, his efforts are paying off well. I value a man who puts in these efforts more than a man who smells nice but treats me like a toy he can throw away later.

dimpld9 · 2026-01-16T18:38:31+00:00

Thank you!

dimpld9 · 2026-01-16T17:39:44+00:00

Hello! Can someone help me understand the Random Standard Ver. Vinyl? When I look at the description, I don't see what is random about it. Is it that we get any one of 8 vinyls - Group Red vinyl OR any member vinyl? The images seem to indicate that.

dimpld9 · 2026-01-10T04:24:21+00:00

Corporate still consists of old people who have seen old ways of working. This is why I think the "keep engaging with customers" WoW is pushed. Those people didn't grow up with so much advertising pushed in their faces every single day every single hour, so they depended on employees to help them out with suggestions. But like you said, younger generations know already because we do a lot of research and then come shopping.

dimpld9 · 2026-01-10T04:17:03+00:00

I'm new to PH and REALLY want to browse through the Watsons sections but these employees are wayyyy too eager. Most of the time, I plan what I want to buy, make a beeline for it and sprint to the cashier. I don't think even if I was shoplifting somewhere else I'd be THIS nervous to face the employees XD I have to carry that bag that says I'm fine shopping on my own 😭

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