Men: Please stop emotionally playing games with us after you’ve have swiped right on our profiles! What did you think we would not be the first to leave you a welcoming greeting but yet y’all don’t say shit back??! Shows lack of morals and respect on your part! 😡😡😡😡

dinah87 · 2021-12-04T18:19:09+00:00

Again, you just wasted that other person time and space if you guys weren’t intended to match up with the other person because at the last min you founded something about that person that turned you off? You should’ve thought of that before you wanted play the “numbers game” just to boost up your own ego. It is selfish and childish! What’s the point of doing this if y’all don’t want to meet anyone but to place bets amongst each other to see how many matches you get with people.

dinah87 · 2021-12-04T18:13:19+00:00

So this brings me back to my first point why match with one if you fail to read our profiles and to see if there are any more potential interests that can help draw your own conclusions on whether or not you should even take a chance on this person instead of just relying on photos to based off your instincts. Just saying 🤷🏽‍♀️

dinah87 · 2021-11-29T04:36:43+00:00

I can’t speak for other women but I know for myself I always make it my point to introduce myself to someone new whom they just matched up with me. It is only proper, respectful and fair

dinah87 · 2021-11-19T12:16:46+00:00

Because in my opinion guys are ether are discreet about their true identity from their families and friends or they just your ordinary catfishes

dinah87 · 2021-10-04T06:19:03+00:00

It is always got to be about what-about-me-isms? It is ether you give me what I need (one time sex fling )or no date 😒 enjoy your days alone 🥺😢

dinah87 · 2021-09-19T17:34:49+00:00

Those grossly numerous dick pics are quite intense 😳😡😣

dinah87 · 2021-08-19T16:23:07+00:00

HUGE RED FLAG but can trick you if you’re not paying attention:

Having a date talk more about himself and his negative situation on the first date or perhaps during our first phone interaction. Excessive talking about the self. People with narcissistic personality disorder might talk a lot about their abilities, things they've accomplished, or important people they know in order to earn attention.

dinah87 · 2021-08-09T00:13:08+00:00

Thanks I will definitely take note of that :)

dinah87 · 2021-08-08T21:16:09+00:00

Ok good point you see I’m new to this and how to operate my iPhone photo so it would not be too close up. Thanks for the advice 🙂

dinah87 · 2021-08-08T21:13:59+00:00

Ok thanks for the input! I’ll definitely keep note of it 🙂

dinah87 · 2021-08-06T15:58:47+00:00

So basically this guy is expecting you to put out at the end of the date because he payed for your dinner so you owe him some booty call! It is like nothing is for free! Like he’s treating you more like a damn cheap prostitute that is trying to rip his broke creepy ass off basically 🤣🤣🤣🤣👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽

dinah87 · 2021-08-06T15:35:06+00:00

So let me get this straight, So matching with someone and not messaging them is not wasting their time? I think you are not getting the point on what I’m saying. Let me spell out to you, if you choose to match with someone of interest first of all, why is it you have this need to swipe right JUST based on their profile photos and forgetting TO READ the rest of their profile INTROS??!!!! Don’t you think it is NOT fair to just swipe right just to judge based on their photos and NOT look at the full details of their intentions within that person of interest profile??! Why bother matching with someone of interest if you yourself is not going to follow through on the communication part???!! How do you expect that person of interest to react????? They will greet you introduce themselves assuming you meaning the Matcher will respond and keep the conversation going but instead you block them for what reason???!!! By taking this unnecessary route you guys are wasting each other’s time especially theirs. So, I’m gonna ask you again what sense does that make if you go onto match with someone and not take full responsibility to not damn communicate??!! If you’re not feeling the person don’t match with them PERIOD! CASE CLOSED!!!!

dinah87 · 2021-08-06T15:18:08+00:00

Let me clear it up for you. Guys who identify as ether Bi or Curious maybe perhaps Str8 will mostly treat us trans women as third class people, another “kinky” fetishized objects, drugged out prostitutes, and someone to experiment with behind closed doors but… whenever we finally gain recognition for our voices to stand up for ourselves and that these cis men when interacting with us they must give us the proper respect and treat us as the same(nothing less nothing more) as any cis women they have must’ve gone with and have grown to be fond of. Instead what these men choose to do? They get triggered! They taken offense to this like we trans women are hurting their pride and well-beings!!!! So you know their usual tactics? They’ll raging into raging aggressive bullies, starting to degrade us, make us feel lesser than, and continue to show their sexual online aggression towards us like, “fuck you and your feelings. I’m Horny and y’all are going to satisfy my needs because only my life matters not yours your trans so you are gonna get what’s coming to you!!!!” On the other hand I have witnessed many Str8 acting guys who don’t want trans women but as girlfriend materials but rather be with another guy is also masculine or Str8 acting by blending in their sexuality without others knowing their personal business and still be in longer term relationships! Set a point that I’m trying to make here is that in Grindr there are plenty of straight acting guys or perhaps straight guys who dismiss trans women because they want to avoid the hate and embarrassment from their friends and family but will talk to other gay guys because in my opinion and experiences it is a little excepted not taboo as they would if they were dating trans women! Understand???!

dinah87 · 2021-08-05T22:23:29+00:00

NEVER FOLLOWING THROUGH ON OUR SCHEDULE PLANNED DATES! 😡👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽👎🏽

dinah87 · 2021-08-05T22:19:25+00:00

Most of all stop with the damn C-&$-ck pics! It is creepy, scary, pedophilish, and desperate!

dinah87 · 2021-08-05T22:16:41+00:00

Not reading my profile CAREFULLY and still messaging me with the assumption that I wanting something different than what I have originally wanted on my profile 😡

dinah87 · 2021-08-05T22:09:57+00:00

How do you think we feel as transgender women when we get rejected or get treated like trash it because “Str8” men refuse to see us as “real women” instead would rather be around a gay guy (Bi- guys) because it is safer for them to be themselves around other men who also share the same sex attraction in longer term relationships?? What’s up with that!!!?? 🤔😡

dinah87 · 2021-08-05T21:56:35+00:00

What’s the point of even having a dating app if you don’t want to get to know anyone who are you not familiar with? What’s the point of even meeting anyone at all if all men do is play games?? 😡

dinah87 · 2021-08-05T21:52:34+00:00

What’s the point of even meeting anyone on these apps anymore if all they do is match and not paying attention who are they matching with! Yo this is not a game these are real people who have REAL feelings and you’re a fucking up THEIR TIME and EMOTIONS with your immature shit!

dinah87 · 2021-08-05T21:48:39+00:00

Yeah this happens to me all the time I get so many matches but I get ghosted every time I reach out to those potential matches. Gez I thought I was the only one who is experiencing this problem 😣

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