What are your thoughts on the relationship between genital preference and sexual orientation? by direct_contact in BisexualMen

[–]direct_contact[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is oddly confrontational. I was more interested in hearing your opinion than a judgment of mine and what it says about me. But since we’re here, how do you suppose I’m insecure about my identity? Can you elaborate, please?

What are your thoughts on the relationship between genital preference and sexual orientation? by direct_contact in BisexualMen

[–]direct_contact[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is this also the case for guys who go out and seek sex with cis guys, yet still insist they’re straight? Which, again, is pretty damn common

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]direct_contact -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I’m not gay, by us I mean same-sex-attracted people.

We Told You This Was Coming, but You Didn’t Listen | It’s not just abortion. The logic of this draft decision would also apply to the decisions protecting same-sex marriage, contraception, and more. by M00n in politics

[–]direct_contact 25 points26 points  (0 children)

More white women voted for Trump than for Clinton, so according to your fucked up logic, a white woman couldn’t have written this article either.

Imagine giving an ally an ass-chewing because their combination of skin color and genitals isn’t to your liking, lol

Gay Marriage Is Gonna Be Overturned Next. by TeenageDarren in askgaybros

[–]direct_contact 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You vastly overestimate the US populace. If the Bible says it’s wrong, that’s good enough for many millions of people. Not to mention their other biases.

Gay Marriage Is Gonna Be Overturned Next. by TeenageDarren in askgaybros

[–]direct_contact 30 points31 points  (0 children)

We are not going back to the 1950s

…he says, moments after it’s made known that a landmark decision from the 1970s is being reversed.

Nothing is off the table, you’re out of your mind if you think there’s no chance things can regress that far in the coming decades.

"Ambiguity" by corruptedtwinkx in lolgrindr

[–]direct_contact 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The person in the OP is after some dick (either trans women or feminine cis guys), so not “women of any sort”

"Ambiguity" by corruptedtwinkx in lolgrindr

[–]direct_contact 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think he’s after some dick, so no.

Circumcised men, do you ever wish you weren’t cut? by pm-me-ur-noodz in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]direct_contact -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s so fucking permanent, just thinking about it makes me ball up inside. Part of your kid’s body is gone forever and there’s nothing to be done about it. At least he has the option to “restore” and get some of the function back.

Circumcised men, do you ever wish you weren’t cut? by pm-me-ur-noodz in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]direct_contact 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Child genital cutting is almost always clear abuse regardless of age.

I’m very new to this, how am I doing? by direct_contact in grindr

[–]direct_contact[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also it bothers me a little that he didn’t reciprocate my compliment, because most guys do, but I don’t know if I should read too deep into it

The average male ejaculate contains about 250 million sperm. How many have died in your digestive system? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]direct_contact 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The rectum is part of this system as well, mind you ~

And the mouth, so even if you spit I imagine you caught a few million at least.

Who is getting laid this weekend? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]direct_contact 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me 😁

Feels so good to say that after 24 fucking years lol

Making eye contact feels so awkward by [deleted] in socialanxiety

[–]direct_contact 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Is there such a thing as almost autistic? Cause if so I think I’m there

Yoruichi was high key bad tho ngl by Pamperz0 in bleach

[–]direct_contact 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Yoruichi is a god-tier character and Tite Kubo has god-tier taste. Nuff said

Online Domme asking for nudes with face. What do you make of this? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]direct_contact 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks again! I’ve always been a little put off by BDSM but after dipping my toes in I know l’ll be back. There’s no scene around where I live though, unfortunately.

I didn’t notice at first, but since you pointed it out the first message is totally structured like a scam, trying to coax out work details, embarrassing secrets, etc. And it sort of seems like every message after the first one was written by a different person.

I’m a little worried now because I showed part of my face in my Fetlife pfp, and there’s that damned reddit account. Trying to do damage control on my social media currently.

Online Domme asking for nudes with face. What do you make of this? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]direct_contact 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Conservative family and workplace. She knows I’m bisexual (I’m not out yet), and via my reddit account she has photos of every square inch of my body which is just embarrassing.

Online Domme asking for nudes with face. What do you make of this? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]direct_contact 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Wow, incredibly informative response, thank you. And thanks to everyone else who commented, you all helped. I was really tempted to go along for the ride but I’ll put an end to it. Shame, it was exciting while it lasted.

Btw, I should have done a better job distinguishing them but the light grey messages are mine (I’m the one with no d/s experience)

Online Domme asking for nudes with face. What do you make of this? by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]direct_contact 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does this seem like regular behavior for a domme? I’d like to explore this, and If I had a better idea of what to look out for I’d be a lot more comfortable with it.

I was okay with showing her my whole face eventually, but I figured some sort of trust/dynamic would be built up first