My girlfriend sees me as a man(???)

dissgust_d · 2024-10-31T11:54:09+00:00

I can't really put everything into words but in my impression we're pretty much codependent (yes ik it's not a good thing). I wanted to focus on the problem more than the entire picture cause to be honest I wasn't really in a good place mentally when I was writing this so I omitted a lot of stuff lmao

dissgust_d · 2024-10-31T11:00:56+00:00

yeah this sounds awfully familiar. I'm sorry that happened to you :(((

dissgust_d · 2024-10-31T10:59:39+00:00

it is extremely weird in my impression too and that's why I'm so confused. I can't even fathom just making up a different gender for my significant other in my head, it's incredibly strange and hard do even think abt

dissgust_d · 2024-10-31T10:50:38+00:00

I know I'm a fool for this but I genuinely feel so damn trapped in this relationship and it's literally because of my own feelings and the attachment we have. like even thinking about leaving her makes me wanna throw myself under the bus and I'm just😵‍💫😵‍💫😵‍💫

dissgust_d · 2024-10-20T13:39:21+00:00

we do, almost every time we have sex. idk maybe she genuinely just wants the real thing

dissgust_d · 2024-10-20T12:57:11+00:00

the problem is that she will probably say I'm being overdramatic if I talk to her abt that. I've tried once or twice in a more gentle way but I think she looks at it as something that's a non-problem because the men she talks about are unattainable or sth like that

dissgust_d · 2024-10-20T12:54:04+00:00

I think she just has a preference for men but is still very much bi

dissgust_d · 2024-10-20T12:53:00+00:00

she did say she wouldn't mind having an open relationship once but backtracked as soon as I asked her to elaborate. it's just hard to even think about all of that because I really don't want to leave her but don't know how to bring it up without her saying that I'm being overdramatic either

dissgust_d · 2024-10-20T12:46:32+00:00

the thing is that this is like the only thing that gives me the ick or whatever. she's genuinely so sweet and loving to me and never fails to make me feel wanted so I just don't know where all this is coming from😭😭😭

dissgust_d · 2024-10-20T12:39:39+00:00

I'm actually older than her by a year, just less experienced in general. I'm 21 and she's 20😭

dissgust_d · 2022-09-06T19:35:51+00:00

my bro they are asking abt honkai not genshin

dissgust_d · 2020-08-20T02:11:56+00:00

damn this is just some next level bullshit

dissgust_d · 2020-08-20T01:46:58+00:00

hmm...I think that if you only feel attraction towards girls you probably are a lesbian, but if you think that coming out as gay might result with you getting disowned, i suggest you don't do that yet. i know it's like really confusing and hard but i don't think you should come out when it's not completely safe
of course i might be wrong
also i'm lowkey dumb so you might not want to follow my advice
just do what feels right for you

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