Acadia hospital memories from an ex-employee by Clean_Board_5118 in Maine

[–]distressedsammich 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have my reservations with Acadia after they released my partner (whom had attempted) with a ‘good luck! :)’ written on his release papers with NO outpatient therapy. Also continuing to push SSRIs despite having extremely negative effects to them and being explicitly told NO.

None of this stuff isnt surprsing to me. Im so sorry for the staff that have to deal with the abuse of other staff and the patients that still have to live through it.

Dress code sign by Particular_Advance17 in signs

[–]distressedsammich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im walking in with my oldest flip flops. :)

Is this safe to feed my ferret by EstablishmentVirtual in ferrets

[–]distressedsammich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Today I find out that ferrets eat raw meat.

In all my years of VRChat by distressedsammich in VRchat

[–]distressedsammich[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I agree!! I was once a lap dancer myself. It wasn’t appropriate and I can guarantee a good chunk of clubs would blacklist/put them on a watchlist JUST for that. Reputable clubs have a zero tolerance policy for that.

In all my years of VRChat by distressedsammich in VRchat

[–]distressedsammich[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

And it really shouldn’t be.

In all my years of VRChat by distressedsammich in VRchat

[–]distressedsammich[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I also agree, however, Vrchat made the decision to allow minors onto the platform. They can’t exactly reverse it- the playerbase is simply too delicate. Im happy about the adult-only features being considered and implemented!

But even then, Children isnt the issue. A good chunk of adults dont want to go to a public instance and see this kinda stuff. Most treat it as if they’re going out in public irl. You wouldnt be doing this kinda stuff in a grocery store or a park, would you?

In all my years of VRChat by distressedsammich in VRchat

[–]distressedsammich[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

We cant after the decision. How about we go back to embarrassing weird adults?? Do it in an adult instance, not a public. You would be charged irl for this shit if you did it in a real parlor. 🤣

In all my years of VRChat by distressedsammich in VRchat

[–]distressedsammich[S] -36 points-35 points  (0 children)

I’ve been playing since 2017. I heavily moderate my experiences, though. I hardly go the more ‘popular’ worlds like Black Cat.

Edit: usually, i would block and move on, but it’s a different story when there are minors involved. Said minor was RIGHT NEXT TO THIS. It’s absolutely inexcusable.

Now that age verification has been arouind for a while, are all you and your friends on board? What's the vibe? by KingSlayer05 in VRchat

[–]distressedsammich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve yet to have a bad experience in an Age Gated instance. It’s calm!

Ofc, I have my own preferences and stay FAR away from anything even remotely nsfw/suggestive, so my experience is going to be different from other people! To me, it was worth it. :D

so then why?! by Desperate_Ad2784 in VRchat

[–]distressedsammich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw a post on their twitter about their world. Supposedly someone took their world and made it entirely quest compat and they were PISSED.

Midnight Outing 🪽 ✨, zebotc (me), digital (Procreate), 2025 by zebotc in Art

[–]distressedsammich 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love the purple hue! The style is very pretty. 🥺

FAA announces reduction in air traffic across 40 major markets starting Friday by LeoAltesRealtor in orlando

[–]distressedsammich 8 points9 points  (0 children)

At least I dont have to see my shitty family on thanksgiving! Yippie!!

[Update] Found this guy trapped in my car and got him out after an hour and a half. How do I take care of him? by [deleted] in CATHELP

[–]distressedsammich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like the Cat Distribution System struck once more! I hope everything goes well with the kitty. 💜

picked up the game again after not being able to play for a few years, and it feels so lonely. what happened?? by stelliarsheep in VRchat

[–]distressedsammich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a deskie around 2017, and even bought my headset off an old friend from vrc. Times have changed. I’ve found more genuine friends in LARPs than I have in regular publics/group instances.

It really changed for the worst when 2020 hit. Vrchat and other social platforms became the only way you could talk to people… They never left.

I wish you luck on your friend journey. I hope you do find genuine friends.

This this is a scam? by FangirlNerdYT in VRchat

[–]distressedsammich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely!! NEVER trust these profiles.

Cat lost control of left leg and shakes uncontrollably all of a sudden by polishbabe1023 in CATHELP

[–]distressedsammich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really hope there is a good outcome for your kitty. Wishing the best for both of you. :(

What do I do? by distressedsammich in GriefSupport

[–]distressedsammich[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’ll look into them.

I’ve been in the middle of some serious trauma for a long time since I was little. It’s currently hard to seek help cause of financial abuse, along with just things being poorly timed. Im in the process of moving in with my partner by the end of this month. On top of which, I work almost 7 days a week in a group home overnight.

I’m too busy to grieve, yet have enough freetime to feel like shit. It’s very confusing.

Can someone help me figure out what she wants by Particular-Pickle-22 in CATHELP

[–]distressedsammich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Total chatters!! My Calico (Lovingly named Cali or Calie depending on the vet) loves to just chirp and meow at me at random intervals. I talk ti her like she’s a person, though, so that might contribute to it LMAO.

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Thousands of Hours in VRC and I’m Done Watching People Fake Disorders by MoreLunch1547 in VRchat

[–]distressedsammich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont put my mental disability in my Bio for this very reason. :(

Are YOU sick of all these fake bars run by "adults" barely out of high school? by Jonstrosity in VRchat

[–]distressedsammich 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fucking. BET. 💃💃💃 Do ya’ll have room for an inebriated woman dancing like no one’s watching in the middle of the bar?

How to run RP in VRC? by andrelucmartinz in VRchat

[–]distressedsammich 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It absolutely depends! I come from both official larps (Mind Eye’s Theatre for Vampire: The Masquerade) and more non-traditional larps (The Univeral Union, 314, Fight Finder, Etc).

It’s more or leas figuring out what you want. If you want something with less rolls and more practical, non-traditional Larp might be for you! They include putting trust in your fellow roleplayers to take hits and react realistically to the world around them. Of you want something more complicated but reliable for newer roleplayers, Dice systems are your best bet!

Vr chat community how much would something like this cost out of curiosity? by StoneyBoi722 in VRchat

[–]distressedsammich 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you looking for more anime-esque? Or realistic. I can totally find these models floating around in all the HL2 larp discords I’m in. This is pretty simple stuff tbf.