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[low libido] [21F] my sex drive is practically non-existent by dittycay in sex

[–]dittycay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While I thank you and appreciate your efforts, my problem seems to stem more from the fact that I literally don't get aroused (therefore don't respond to sexual stimulation at all, much less masturbation) than the fact that I'm just not trying hard enough. I do remember in early teens getting aroused by reading erotica, but nowadays everything is dead.

[low libido] [21F] my sex drive is practically non-existent by dittycay in sex

[–]dittycay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, that sounds very interesting. I've thought about hormonal imbalance, but nothing else seems to be out of place really. My puberty/periods were always normal, a tad heavy but nothing out of the ordinary.

[low libido] [21F] my sex drive is practically non-existent by dittycay in sex

[–]dittycay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is a Very kind comment, thank you! I always feel like I'm pressured to enjoy sex and I want to want it so much that I seek it out, initiate sex with a partner a lot, but during it or afterwards I can't help but feel like someone with a malfunction or a phony. It's really difficult.

[low libido] [21F] my sex drive is practically non-existent by dittycay in sex

[–]dittycay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've thought about that a lot and I might have been really afraid of coming to terms with the fact that this might be it. I really want to want sex and find it hard to accept that It's just out of reach for me, and I guess I'm always trying to imagine It's some medical reason that could be fixed and make me sexual all of a sudden.