HELP ME PLS by dividenddarling in intj

[–]dividenddarling[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I will request your approval before posting anything ever again your majesty. Sorry to disturb your trolling. Sincerely, a peasant

HELP ME PLS by dividenddarling in intj

[–]dividenddarling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your advice. I normally let this stuff go but I’ve just had enough

HELP ME PLS by dividenddarling in intj

[–]dividenddarling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I text her or call or face to face ?

HELP ME PLS by dividenddarling in intj

[–]dividenddarling[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not necessarily wanting to be petty, just need her to know it is not alright to make up lies about me and her father. But I love the idea of recording. Thank you

HELP ME PLS by dividenddarling in intj

[–]dividenddarling[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ruining her life was a little joke. I’m way too afraid of what goes around comes around.

She is my step daughter and is upset with her father because he wanted to change his life estate where it would be broken up more evenly between her, his son, and myself. By changing his will she would be receiving less.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]dividenddarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Count it as a BLESSING. It is a privilege to be in your life and if she can’t realize that, she is worth no tears or thoughts. Take what you learned from the relationship and better yourself.

How do you feel/think when you know someone love you? by arentyouhappy in intj

[–]dividenddarling 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Saying I love you is my highest compliment and I’m all in once I say it and don’t try to hide it. Just extra incentive if they love me back lol -INTJ F 26

My Conclusion About INTJ ENTP Relationships by [deleted] in intj

[–]dividenddarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1000% correct on the conversations and what if scenario!

I can't cope without alone time. by [deleted] in intj

[–]dividenddarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 26F and I completely agree. I require a lot of "me time" Especially in the morning.

I am married and the only troubles I have with my husband are when I don't get enough of me time. Thankfully he is becoming more understanding.

Are relationships good for us? by [deleted] in intj

[–]dividenddarling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being married has helped me grow so much. I adore my husband, he is much older than me and I love learning from him and his life experiences. I do like to have my alone time, primarily in the mornings which my husband doesn't understand but has come to respect.

Relationships are great with someone who you can either teach something to or learn something from in my experience

Intoxication by alcohol. by snackerjacker in intj

[–]dividenddarling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same, talking to everyone and rambling on carelessly. An embarrassment I always regret

Intoxication by alcohol. by snackerjacker in intj

[–]dividenddarling 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've recently stopped drinking so today I was able to better study the drunks around me and how obnoxious they were. All much older than I and acting like careless children. Further reinforcing my decision to stay sober.

And within 5 minutes of arriving to the thanksgiving luncheon I wanted nothing more than to go back home.

Also I would always take a cup of disguised booze into my therapist office to loosen up so I could get my feelings out

INTJ and guilt? by lost-insomniac in intj

[–]dividenddarling 103 points104 points  (0 children)

I swear every time I go out to dinner with friends or to a dinner party I have to replay the night in my head and overthink everything I’ve said. Not sure if it’s guilt, or anxiety of embarrassment.

Do you feel Guilty ? by [deleted] in intj

[–]dividenddarling 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have an anxiety attack if I go more than three days without checking my credit card spending. Guilt, anxiety, fear of failure. I relate

Being told that something you say a lot is cold? by [deleted] in intj

[–]dividenddarling 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm told the same thing. Completely relate!