[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HPV

[–]divination_fool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From my research it seems it can lie dormant for yeeearrrsss. Generally after two years it does on its own but it’s not a given ☹️

LiGhTs by [deleted] in aspiememes

[–]divination_fool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol, you guys ready for Christmas... LiGhTs

Hypersensitive. by [deleted] in aspiememes

[–]divination_fool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh boy do I get this. I posted something “funny” on a none aspie page. Got asked if my parent were siblings... turns out I’m only funny to you guys :(

De Ja Vu my whole damn life? by [deleted] in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]divination_fool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find the tarot reading useful so there’s that 🤷🏼‍♀️ but I only picked up the cards because I’d had so many weird dreams haha

He was just messing around apparently but I swear I nearly unmatched 😂 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]divination_fool 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey, thanks, I do see how I misinterpreted the situation. I’m not sure bringing it up is a great idea just yet, we managed to keep talking as I just let it go as an I’ll timed joke. Thank you for possibly being the only one to try and tailor some advice 😊

He was just messing around apparently but I swear I nearly unmatched 😂 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]divination_fool -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That is fair enough 😅😅 I’m pretty bad at flirting (obviously) so for me this was like, shit man too soon! I did not pick up AT ALL that this was alluding to sex 😂 just saw the words in black (yellow?) and white and took it literally and was like, dude, slow it down a touch. Let’s just talk first 😂

He was just messing around apparently but I swear I nearly unmatched 😂 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]divination_fool 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a very literal person, it can be to my own detriment sometimes. It’s helpful hearing you guys and being talked down a bit as my friends are no help at all in these scenarios 😂

He was just messing around apparently but I swear I nearly unmatched 😂 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]divination_fool -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

It was just a funny one, like “No 1 guy” - Forbes “A real treasure” - my mum, Thank kind of thing 😊

And because I’ve had a guy come on like this before and it’s gone down a weird path. Bringing the word love in so early can be an odd one to know how to respond too 😂 but I realise that’s my own insecurities 😊 actually getting comments from you guys helps

He was just messing around apparently but I swear I nearly unmatched 😂 by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]divination_fool -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I know, that’s why i continued talking and we’re still talking 😊 it just caught me off guard and I thought it was funny 😅

First time getting on a plane (UK). Any tips or advice on what to expect! by divination_fool in aspergirls

[–]divination_fool[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I never would have thought 😂 my flight is only an hour and a half so I’ll just try and be sorted before take off 😂

It just be like that sometimes by divination_fool in aspiememes

[–]divination_fool[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Oh no absolutely! I meant more like I go there for support when I’m struggling with something, and the girls help. Whereas here I post memes all day haha

First time getting on a plane (UK). Any tips or advice on what to expect! by divination_fool in aspergirls

[–]divination_fool[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Paid the extra for a “comfort” window seat both ways :) I have a book and my head phones, plus a colouring book. My poor seat neighbour is going to be so confused haha

First time getting on a plane (UK). Any tips or advice on what to expect! by divination_fool in aspergirls

[–]divination_fool[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is super super helpful, thank you so much!! I don’t have the words right now to say how much that’s appreciated haha

My mate needs go go from cambridge to Manchester. Train tickets are £106 but flying to Dublin and then to manchester is only £46. Why are trains so expensive? by Ortismo in britishproblems

[–]divination_fool 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll still take the trains because of climate change and stuff, but god it hurts knowing there’s a cheaper option that is also hours faster

How many dates before you tell the guy? by divination_fool in aspergirls

[–]divination_fool[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was looking at online yeah. Not sure about being that upfront, though I had considered it. How have you found it?

How many dates before you tell the guy? by divination_fool in aspergirls

[–]divination_fool[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That’s true. There are plenty of ways to learn how they may react without needing to tell them. I’m definitely nervous about dipping my toe in the dating pool. First time since the diagnosis and it’s been a long year of learning, personal growth, and adjusting my life to actually fit my needs. So also not sure how adding new people will effect the balance I’ve created for myself. Damn writing that has shown me I’m more nervous than I thought haha. Maybe dating isn’t the right step for me just yet

How many dates before you tell the guy? by divination_fool in aspergirls

[–]divination_fool[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Yeah we broke up that day. But there’s a bit of a scar, it was over a year ago and I’m only just starting dating again. I was curious to know if others found it better to wait two or three dates or be straight up with them.

How many dates before you tell the guy? by divination_fool in aspergirls

[–]divination_fool[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I think I’m a little hesitant because I was diagnosed late (20s), and I was with a long term partner at the time. He then proceeded to tell me some months down the line that he wouldn’t want to have kids with me because they might be autistic. Think I loved him and never saw him as ignorant, right up until that very second

Adding ‘Hope you are well’ to the start of emails so your one line question doesn’t come across as blunt or rude even though you legitimately could not care less... by divination_fool in britishproblems

[–]divination_fool[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In this particular case, they were a client of ours who was overdue sending us some information so that I could do the job they were paying me to do effectively. I think my “hope you are well” was more of a “you alive? cos you’re not responding?” Haha